Written roleplay

I thought to add this topic in, since some (or many?) of us are guided by life and circumstances towards doing our roleplays online, in a written format. Nevertheless, it can be great fun, I find, since imagination is truly limitless 😃

What are your thoughts on writing your kinks into roleplay online? Any good memories?

K.

I'm not going to share specific memories here as they're private, but yeah, I very much like written roleplays. I love to write, so I find it very natural to interactively create a universe and a storyline with my roleplay partners while both parties feed the scenes with their mutual kinks.

Speaking as a lady… I really do love the written roleplay. But I’m also sharing this from the perspective of someone who GREATLY enjoys creative writing as a hobby… especially writing erotica. So, I do realize that I’m maybe a bit biased in that regard. I’m very picky about who I choose to write (and roleplay) with and although I don’t necessarily expect my play partner to “match” my writing skill, I do expect a certain level of interest, engagement and creativity with whatever we’re sharing. I’ve found this is very, VERY hard to find amongst most people that I engage with.

It’s “safe” in that it allows me to get to know a person better through a shared kinky interest without actually putting my physical body out there to be played with by someone who doesn’t actually know what they’re doing. It’s a HUGE turn on because through reading and writing, I can TRULY immerse myself into a scene or scenario, recall back to a certain memory in my life and contort it into something wildly sexual and/or arousing. As long as I’m not “live” texting, I can get REALLY detailed… which I do with hope and intention that whatever I’m sharing is arousing the person who I’m playing with. This can be another tricky thing to “match” with because I’ve found my best and favorite playmates are the ones who really get off on the dirty details. I’m good at illustrating something with words - whether it be a specific setting, scenario, or just the feelings that this person (whether it’s current me, younger me, an ideal fantasy of me) would be feeling throughout whatever is going on.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m certainly not opposed to real life kinky play and I can certainly understand why certain individuals would feel like writing roleplay is a “lesser” engagement - but like it’s mentioned below, the imagination is limitless and contains far more possibilities than real life can sometimes provide.

I definitely like the idea of written role play, it seems like reality when it is in writing. It really motivates the creative thinking towards the topic and scenarios I play out in my head. Now, just working on translating that to include with my lovely