Self spanking

How many of you have to self spank ? Where do you do it ? Do you self spank in the shower with a wet ass ? What do you like to use ? Your favorite place to spank, breast's, ass or on your clitoris ? have you ever self spanked after a enema ?

I was often spanked on the bare butt as a child, so that's where I spank the most. I also go down the legs front and back. I use a large paint stick, riding crop, and narrow bamboo stick. I made leather straps on handles. Sometimes belly. I watch cock and ball whipping porn; every stroke the domme hit to the penis, I do it to myself. The penis has relatively few pain fibers; the same blow with a stick hurts the palm more than the penis. I riding crop isn't likely to cause the deep pain when hitting the scrotum.

I went to a pro calling herself 'Spanky.' She ordered me to strip and hit me several times urging me 'faster.' It HURT! a lot worse than the self spanking. And that was just the warmup. She and another woman strapped me to a saw horse like padded bench, dick and balls tied down splayed out on a board. When she hit my butt, if i jerked, it hurt my balls. Words can not describe the agony. I screamed the safe word. She laughed and told me I was going to get my money's worth. Then she worked over my penis and balls. I couldn't sit long enough to make it home in one go. I missed two days of work. I'm not going to let someone else spank me again.

I use wooden spoon for self spanking

I use a hairbrush when I am getting an enema. I always get hard and a rosy red ass doing this.

I have self spanked when husband not available and also a number of times growing up. While it if oki, it is just not the same as veing over someone's knww.

It just isn’t the same. I need to be across someone’s lap to really achieve gratification, let alone tears. Still, doesn’t stop me from trying. I’ve done it with a spatula, a violin bow, a riding crop and a very dense black leather men’s belt… and achieved some pretty good pain, but no excitement or tears, let alone erotic release.

I have been curious about spanking for a while and have tried to self-spank but I just can't get enough mojo on the swing to get a good effect. Maybe I need to try another type of instrument. Thus far I have tried several cooking instruments with a flat surface, several times a quirt and a cane. Sex is always better with a partner no matter how I look at it!

I self spank. Every few months I get horny for a kinky enema/spanking scene. I'll plan a few days in advance by withholding my bowel movements so that I am constipated and uncomfortable to start my spanking and enema.

On the day of my spanking I'll gather all of the implements for the scene and lay them out on the bathroom counter. A short stiff bamboo back scratcher to spank myself and a two quart enema with the long vaginal nozzle.

I strip naked in front of the mirror and pull on a pair of panties. I spank myself 10 times for each day that I haven't pooped. By the 20th swat my ass is stinging and my penis is erect and sticking out through the panties.

I prepare a warm two quart enema. I pull the panties to the side and slide the long nozzle deep into my full rectum. I get down on my knees with my ass high in the air and release the hose clamp. Two warm quarts and two days of holding cause quite a bit of discomfort. When I pull the nozzle out and it's dirty, I am to spank myself ten times on each cheek while holding the enema and wearing the panties.

If I leak during the spanking and mess the panties, I am to spank myself ten more times on my testicals.

The swats to the testicals are unbearable. My belly is bloated and my penis is engorged. I am finally allowed to expel the hot enema while I masturbate to a large orgasm.

I used to stand in front of a mirror around 18/19 and spank myself on my bare butt, imagining that I was being spanked by someone else and trying to look at it from their perspective. Them seeing me as naughty boy who wasn't too old for a spanking. Even a bare butt spanking.

Later when I started getting spanked for real, I'd still look at my bare butt when I got home and marvel that they had just seen me like that. It's a very visual thing.

It just isn’t the same.

Exactly. To me self-spanking feels more like doing the spanking than receiving a spanking. Does nothing for me. I have tried it a few times when I have been in a distance relationship or away from my partner for some time, but it is never as fun.

I try to follow a strict schedule and diet, so when I don’t follow it correctly I always pull down my skirt and spank each cheeks 20 times with a hairbrush

This reminds me of that movie years ago with James Spader, “Secretary”. When the secretary character discovers she likes to be spanked, she tries doing it to herself with a hairbrush if I remember correctly. Unsurprisingly, it does not seem to satisfy her. I’ve never tried it, but I don’t think it would do anything for me either.

Honestly, I don't like spanking myself. It's like I want more. Personally, it's hard for me to hurt myself too much, so I prefer to be spanked by someone.

I tried a few times. Its not as exiting as spanking from someone, but still works.

I love selfspank when masturbating and watching spank pornvids.

I have spanked my bottom myself a few times (with a wooden spoon and/or a thin twig). Usually this happens in the bedroom in front of the mirror. All of these times have been at the behest of my play partner and I have had to do it myself because he is 2600 km away. It is always satisfying, with a mixture of thrill-excitement-a little anxiety.

When I am not in a play session, I don't even think about spanking myself, it feels somehow artificial and out of place.

I have an online Mistress and a Dom that have me self inflict spankings. I have a paddle as well as a leather strap that I am to use on my bare ass. The strap stings , especially when it grazes my balls. My last spanking was 60 on each cheek with the paddle. I’m hoping one day I’ll get an over the knee spanking from someone. The humility of it excites me even now.

I have done self-spanking but it has not really worked for me. I have also done self-imposed corner time as punishment to correct bad behavior. However, that has not really worked for me either.

When I have a girlfriend, I like to give her spankings and corner time.

Oddly enough, I’ve found that if I give myself several swats on each cheek just before going to bed, I sleep better. Does it release anxiety? Give me a small taste of the submission I crave? Is it purely physiological? I don’t know. I just know I feel relaxed afterward.

I self spank because I have no play partner or Dominant Woman to assign swats. I usually do at least 75 per cheek with my nylon backbrush which is enuf to get a tear. I love the afterglow....then masturbate!

Would love to find a real time spanker ...

...all fetishies you enjoy when you own up it whether selfly or with partner...fall in the momment & you enjoy it...yeah with partner it is a plus more fun of with...

Oh my gosh, I just beat my behind last week while my wife was away from the house for the day. She was throwing away some stainless steel grill spatulas and they caught my eye before she put them in the trash can. I took them to the bathroom, undressed completely (nude spankings increase the intensity because of the humiliation factor of having to completely bare yourself). I began by alternating hard swats on each side of my bottom. And I mean hard! To the point that you could see the imprints of the spatula design on my bottom. Needless to say, I needed to impose a substantial punishment on myself for my daily incessant playing with myself. I decided 25 swats - alternating sides of my bottom - would be a good start. The pain was intense. Why would I do such a thing to myself? Low self-esteem, that is why. A belief deep inside that it is deserved, even at 64 years old. It finally became so painful to do that I had to stop and touch my nipples and masturbate to soothe myself. It’s an interesting video to watch.

Oh my gosh, I just beat my behind last week..

.... It’s an interesting video to watch.

Is there a place where others can enjoy watching it, too?

I've occasionally self-spanked using a paddle, hair brush, or wooden spoon on my bare butt. When I've done it along with enemas, I've most often spanked before taking one. It can be enjoyable to self-spank but it's no where near as satisfying as having someone else do it.

Is there a place where others can enjoy watching it, too?

I would love to share it as it is just fascinating to watch me do these things to myself, and then to see me masturbate to calm myself after the beating. When I record this stuff, I completely reveal my face, along with showing me participating in the various acts mentioned, nude. At this point, as much as I wished I didn’t care who saw it and recognized me, there is still too much to lose.

Understood. Enjoy!