Does Anybody Else Not Use Lube?

I’m not a fan of lube honestly. I actually like the feeling of someone pushing something into my bottom unlubricated. It adds to the embarrassment and humiliation for me, especially if I’m in the diaper position or forced to have my chest down, sitting on knees on the bed/table with my bottom high in the air. Inserting an enema tube or butt plug would have to be my favorite. Having to force it in my tight little hole is so exhilarating! Does anyone else like to play with no lubrication?

It's the sort of thing I'm VERY interested in, but I never had the chance to do this in real life with someone. With the right person, and once I knew her body and various thresholds very well, it's most definitely something I'd do.

We flip-flopped on using lube or not. Most often anal was preceded by oral and/or vaginal which provided enough slipperiness to not have to use lube. Other times we started out with a butt rub using lotion and anal fingering which did provide lube. Occasionly we went right to anal with no lube, never had a problem. As a guy, I preferred the sensations with some sort of lubrication, be it saliva, vaginal juice, lotion or a sex lube.

I tried anal sex without lube once. Neither of us liked the feeling and thereafter kept the lube close by!

In my experience this is one of those things that always sounds really hot but isn’t nearly as fun as it sounds. A buttplug or strap-on with no lube is just straight up painful and not in a good way.

@PutMeInTheCorner, I totally agree. Without lube is def a Pain in the Ass! Besides, I love the whole lubing process from positioning to make her butt accessible, to spreading the cheeks, seeing her private lil rosebud, teasing the opening with a lubed finger tip and finally... slipping my finger into the tightness to gently tease her in there as I prep her for more things to come

I have a highly-educated (Ph.D.) female submissive (D/s) play partner who has some very specific opinions on the lube/no-lube thing. For anal sex, it's 100% no-lube. She wants the full experience and sensations, feelings, challenge, etc. She's not a fan of the "painal" concept or thing per se, she just wants every feeling, sensation, and challenge possible. The no-lube thing is her badge of honor. Same approach with "figging" - 100% no-lube, she wants the full sensations of the burn, tingle, and the no-clenching signal. Up to a medium butt plug and/or dildo all falls into this category too (ie, no-lube). For the larger anal toys, etc., she wants lube and the amount varies by toy size, intended purpose, etc. — it's a whole thing! She's a real sensations Queen, and almost Ms. No-Lube, and always with sweet sensations as a goal.

Lube or no lube depends on my disposition and intent. I am very dominant and sometimes have a nasty streak show up, Sometime I will not use any lube anally, sometimes just enough to tease his rosebud before slowly finishing the insertion. If the implement is going to be in for an extended period of time, every so often I'll apply a little more lube to keep his butthole from getting too dry. Too dry for too long can cause some potentially serious problems. Sometimes I use a copious amount of lube and make his whole butt and genital area very slippery. If he is playing with himself, I don't allow him much lube, he has to beg for more so he can finish the job. Afterwards I lube him and continue to masturbate him as he is super sensitive. Using the strapon on him usually requires more lube to make things run smoother.I on the other hand am post-menopausal, have had a double mastectomy and take meds to keep my estrogen levels even lower, so my ability to self lube is greatly reduced. Therefore I do use some lube or my husband's saliva to help me cum. I do not receive any back door insertions, but my husband's tongue is talented and can be very exciting. When playing with BIG toys (diameter or length), I use a good amount of lubrication. Everyone needs to find what works for him/her/them and play around with what feels best for them. Enjoy ! ! ! DommeOB

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Informing a woman that if she wants lube, she’s going to have to make it herself is a fun game to play. If you want it to go more easily up your ass, you’re going to have to let yourself get wet and take it up your cunt first. If you relax on the way out, hopefully there will be enough to make it more comfy.

My Laura was going to do my regular DRE just now when I read this thread. I suggested she try it dry, no lube. It didn't work and I was quite relaxwd and mentally prepared for it. Give me my coconut oil every time.