For guys who masturbate and ejaculate semen: where do you usually shoot it? Has it changed from puberty? Is it the same if you masturbate with a partner?
My first ejaculation came by surprise and landed on my stomach/torso. This seemed the way to do it so for a long time I’d let the cum fill up my belly button and then wipe up after. When I jacked off with a buddy for the first time, I saw him shoot directly into a tissue (he shot with force and didn’t want to risk a big splash). I did that for some time and then realized I missed seeing and smelling my semen so I went back to having it land on my torso. I usually continued to use a tissue but sometimes used a sock.
Thirty years later, I still do those but don’t jack off alone as much these days as my partner and I have a very active sex life. When we orgasm by hand, we either swallow each other or just let it land on our bodies and leave it there. Something about immediately cuddling up and letting the semen bind us has proved very comforting. On the chance I’m alone, I usually use a towel or lick it up if it’s not a big load.