What are your preferences for other ladies features?

Just curious to see what you ladies like when it comes to other ladies features! Do you have a favorite hair type or color? Favorite eye color? Specific features or skin tones?

I’m most attracted to lighter bronze skin with dark straight hair, brown eyes. I definitely have a thing for asian and latina features. Weight doesn’t matter much to me as long as she looks like she takes care of herself in general.

Other than my recent fascination with Asian women, I actually don’t.

I’ve always prioritized the indescribable vibe or magnetic attraction the most. If something is THERE between us, it honestly does not matter what the person looks like.

But yes, the thought of a milk tea colored round bottom over my lap… 😇 that’s been on my mind lately!

I have always been attracted to women who are taller and at least lightly tanned, well proportioned, but usually with larger breasts than my own. I think this preference started with my first real crush on another person who happened to be tall, tanned, more developed than I was at the time, brown wavy hair with natural blonde streaking, and big green eyes.

While that may be a physical “look” I am into, I have to say I need a true emotional connection where communication and socially contentment are present.

For some reason I've always had a thing for dark-haired and dark-eyed ladies, and it's even better if they're a little dusky. Often they're not a hundred percent French or not from here altogether, I can't bring myself to really want a fellow Frenchwoman. I had a big thing for Asian girls but not so much anymore due to consistently shitty experiences with them, I find myself more attracted to sharper features. I think Indians, Latinas, Persians and Native Americans would be closest to my type (but there aren't many around me at the moment, haha!).

I also like them shorter than me or my height (average on the short side), and plain rather than overly attention-grabbing. Think, natural makeup or no makeup at all, not the type to do crazy things with her hair or makeup. A good old grounded girl. Small to average boob size.

But beyond the physical I'd want someone who gets me and who I get, too, over someone who is a hundred percent my physical type. I love smart girls, those who have some depth of personality (which I find many to lack), those who aren't overly invested in politics (sadly hard to find among LGBT people today) and even more those who I can have respect for. I'll be turned off by someone who I'd otherwise be hell into if she doesn't have a single functioning braincell or if she is shallow.

White women with pale skin, dark brown or red hair. No or minimal tattoos/ piercings, proportional built, full because natural breast, but I’m with Grace in there there needs to be a connection as well!

I love all women but I get so weak for the women that are mean to me or like to bully me in playful kink scenarios.

@CinnamonRolls I know what you mean!!

I don't really look for things like skin tones or builds, it's more like markers for being part of the alt community.

Colored hair, witchy tattoos, demon sigils and Mjölnir pendents, alternative clothing choices like goth or lolita styles.

These things typically say "this person is safe and you likely have a lot in common" so those are the people I tend to approach.

I’d love a woman that’s older than me and taller than me (not that hard when i’m 19 and 5’3 lolz) but other than that not much of a preference. i’m really into the stereotypical american hottie (blonde hair, big boobs, strong dominant personalit. ala Joy from My name is Earl) but asian woman have always caught my eye, probably because i grew up around them. Long dark hair and a strong build are so sexy hehe. Latina women are always so beautiful, and always have amazing personalities. japanese women are so sweet but it’s hard to find any lesbians here.

@SofiaCutie I guess I probably assumed a lot of East Asian countries had less lesbians than the west. Is it just less common or is it less socially acceptable? I got really lucky, as my girlfriend is half Korean and half Hispanic. I got the best of both worlds haha.

I like dark hair and eyes, hot girl next door types. Think Mila Kunis, Sandra Bullock. That being said, Nicole Kidman could do anything she wanted to me.

@Nurse_Phillips Mila is gorgeous. I always had a thing for Emily Browning too. Brett Cooper is my latest celebrity/influencer crush.

My first gf was thin & brunette & had an adorable round bottom. But I’ve since been attracted to other different features. I think I’m more attracted to a personality than a body type.

I always look at another woman's eyes and mouth. Not in a thirstful way, but by how beautiful her emotions and expressions are. The way another woman's eyes light up when she's happy and the corners of her mouth perk up. Maybe she is feeling stern, fierce, or serious and her eyes and eyebrow muscles focus into a laser concentration. Her lips are probably a neutral straight line of intrigue and mystery across her mouth.

It's stuff like this that makes us beautifully human in my opinion 😊

@SofiaCutie I guess I probably assumed a lot of East Asian countries had less lesbians than the west. Is it just less common or is it less socially acceptable? I got really lucky, as my girlfriend is half Korean and half Hispanic. I got the best of both worlds haha.

it’s seen as more of a gal pals sort of thing 😢.

more of a phase or a quirk rather than an identity.

my goodness you really did get the best of both worlds! haha

I get attracted to women with beautiful breasts with large areolas and big nipples. I just want to make her nipples hard and play with her nipples and suck on her nipples for days. I think that women don’t get their nipples played with and sucked on enough.

I get attracted to women with beautiful breasts with large areolas and big nipples. I just want to make her nipples hard and play with her nipples and suck on her nipples for days. I think that women don’t get their nipples played with and sucked on enough.

Mine are not that sensitive, a couple of minutes of attention and I've had enough. I feel like I'm pretty unusual though, most of my female partners have seemed to enjoy it way more than I do.

To me its just their personality and sence of humour. I dont classify my sexuality into any chatergory but I have been married to a man for many many years. However, I must admit that I have had some wonderful sexual experiences with women throught my life!!!

I like dark hair and eyes, hot girl next door types. Think Mila Kunis, Sandra Bullock. That being said, Nicole Kidman could do anything she wanted to me.

@Nurse_Phillips Mila Kunis is perfect. But have you considered Penelope Cruz?

When I watched Wednesday I definitely had some naughty thoughts about Jenna Ortega and Emma Myers.

@Nurse_Phillips Mila Kunis is perfect. But have you considered Penelope Cruz?

When I watched Wednesday I definitely had some naughty thoughts about Jenna Ortega and Emma Myers.

Cruz is beautiful but I think Kunis’ personality is more to my liking. Yes Jenna Ortega is very beautiful (mouth to die for) but she’s sooooooo young 🤣. I literally have kids older than her.

I'm almost 6' tall, pale, red headed vampire. I've been on the cover of every Gothic Horror novel ever. Or so I'm told.

Preferences. Hmmm.

I have a very involved kink concerning petite women. (It could be discussed elsewhere)

I appreciate a woman that at least cares about her appearance. Sloppy clothes, whether making a statement or not is not a turn on for me.

As far as ethnicity I find all women fascinating. I appreciate the careful subtleties of Asian women. Both eastern and western. I love eastern European woman. Dark hair and dark eyes. Snapping eyes.

Latina women are amazingly hard to handle...lol. And we can't forget about those slinky women of color.

Sigh..so many and so little time.

So as of now. My current, if you can call her a significant other, interest is a 6'2" 205lb Amazon. She is active military, for how long who knows, rippling with muscle. A no shit attitude. And has no more fucks to give! And I believe has never worn a dress. Wow imagine her with me. My own walking body guard of intimidation. And they think she is the dangerous one.

Body type really doesn't matter. I have my preferences but if the personality is right that just makes everything more relaxed.

I have a few friends here on zity that if we ever hook up I'm sure it would be relaxed and enjoyable.

Cruz is beautiful but I think Kunis’ personality is more to my liking. Yes Jenna Ortega is very beautiful (mouth to die for) but she’s sooooooo young 🤣. I literally have kids older than her.

Oh, I guess that's a bit of an issue then lol. She's only 4 years younger than me and I definitely would!

So as of now. My current, if you can call her a significant other, interest is a 6'2" 205lb Amazon. She is active military, for how long who knows, rippling with muscle. A no shit attitude. And has no more fucks to give! And I believe has never worn a dress. Wow imagine her with me. My own walking body guard of intimidation. And they think she is the dangerous one.

Would love to see a photo of her physique. Purely from a professional perspective of course, I am a PT. 🤣

Honestly I have such massive respect for built women, I have been weight training for over 4 years and have only put on about 20-22lb of lean mass. It is like 10x harder for us than for men. I'm 5ft 5" but small built and was too skinny when I started out. It is effort every day, for the last 4 months I have been eating 4,000kcal a day or at least trying to, to try and bust through a few plateaus in the gym. I'm about 128lb now and finally feeling properly strong, I love it.

@JT1999 she says doing twenty miles with a 50lb back pack and other gear might get you over the hump...she was kidding...she has been in the service some 16 years now. Trying to make 20.

And she looks like this ever since I met her. Her training is ridiculous. I'm a runner. I try to do seven miles a day. No marathons but dark early morning runs to clear my head before the days starts...

She says I'm the crazy one. I turn 45 this fall and have been running since I was 16. Just something you do.

Have a good day.

@JT1999 she says doing twenty miles with a 50lb back pack and other gear might get you over the hump...she was kidding...she has been in the service some 16 years now. Trying to make 20.

And she looks like this ever since I met her. Her training is ridiculous. I'm a runner. I try to do seven miles a day. No marathons but dark early morning runs to clear my head before the days starts...

She says I'm the crazy one. I turn 45 this fall and have been running since I was 16. Just something you do.

Have a good day.

@Faith Its nice to meet a fellow runner. In a twisted way I'm looking forward to those dark early morning winter runs when its not much above freezing and raining. I love it that I can step out of the door and do it where most people would give up before they'd started. And the hot shower after feels so much better. I've been fell running for 10 years. I've never done a marathon either, have done a few halfs. But I think if it was a flat marathon I would ace it, I have done a competitive 16 miler with over 5,000ft of elevation on rough terrain quite a few times, never made podium but I have come close. But running comes naturally to me, it suits my body type, I'm not carrying much and have good cardiovascular fitness. I don't think it helps put on muscle though, maybe even hurts it if you're outrunning your appetite. I definitely was. For the last 18 months I have cut the miles down and trained for 1 mile runs, I am consistently just under 5 minutes now. It was a slog, took me 6 months to get from 5:20 to under 5. The only distance running I do now is a 6 to 8 mile up and down probably 3 times a month just to keep it up. Pushing through the burn is addictive. Maybe I should take that advice seriously and get a weighted vest...

But getting back to the topic, I think pretty much every kind of body is attractive on a woman. I like both significantly taller and shorter than me. Slim or athletic or curvy is all good, as long as it is healthy. Funnily enough I am way more picky about the male body than I am about women.