Do any of your friends know you have a medical fetish?

Do any of your friends know or have any inkling about your interest in medfet?

One time I had a picnic with a friend, and both of us had a bit too much to drink. Eventually we started talking about sexual experiences and I mentioned that one time I’d used gloves.

He asked why that had happened, and I said that I used them for some anal fingering, but also vaginal fingering, and my significant other had liked how it felt.

We never really got into more details about it, but I sometimes wonder if he suspects anything.

I told one of my close friends. There was a time when we would chat about our sexual preferences and such and we kind of told each other what we like as a kink/fetish. I even got to listen to her, and she did listen to me, too. We only did this once, as auscultation/stething is something sexual to me and I don't want to get "sexual" with a friend, you know. I'd much rather do it with someone who I can be sexual with, like a play partner.

Sharing experiences at the pediatrician’s office with my bff in our early teens, that led to us playing doctor together. So yes she knew everything. But we didn’t know the term Medical Fetish.

A few years later my closest guy friend admitted his fascination with doctor exams (among everything else he thought about, he was an open book and loved sharing very intimate thoughts with me). I told him of my similar interests too.

As an adult, no, none of my friends know. Only play partners.

Nope.

None of my friends IRL know, but I’ve made friends in the medfet community (here, and on fetlife, among others) who know, obviously. Not sure if that counts, but friends are friends nonetheless as far as I’m concerned.

I've kept my fascination with medical exams to myself. However, through the years I have had friends who casually drop the news that they are going for an exam or just had one... so I may have a friend or two who secretly have similar desires. I think that because why would you be discussing music or Wpolitics and then state "oh I have my annual check up on Friday." Why would I need to know that?

Only my play partners.

I have a sneaky way to decide if I should reveal my kinks and fetishes.

Over a casual lunch with a lady I’ve known since college - a lady who has modeled nude for me on a couple of occasions.

We were recalling those sessions. We were both smiling with happy memories so I asked her if she had any kinks or fetishes.

Her smiles turned into a serious frown and she told me, “I’m not going to talk with you about any of that.” I said, “Ah, come on, we’ve known each other for more than 50 years and we’ve talked about who we had sex with through the years and you won’t tell me a kink or fetish?”

Still frowning, she looked me in the face and said, “it’s time to change the subject.”

So, as our casual lunch ended, I have no idea of her fetishes and I knew better to share mine.