Starting the spanking over pants? Undies? Bare?

I hope I'm not duplicating an earlier post, but I did a search and nothing on this came up.

I know some people like starting on jeans/pants/ then undies, then bare. While others like going straight to bare bottom. Personally, I like the middle ground. (Get it? Because I'm a middle! lol) Hey, if you can't make yourself laugh, what's the point? 😉 Anyway... So, I like the sense of dread that comes with having ones pants lowered. You know what's coming, you know you are not going to like it (or at least that it's going to really hurt), and now it is feeling inevitable and totally out of your control. However, I am also very big into boyish undies, and LOVE the thought/experience of being spanked in them first. Of course they will come down soon enough too, but a spanking that starts on my briefs just puts me in that headspace so much more.

Would love to hear others' perspectives on this whole topic.

As a spanker, I agree with you the best part is the pace and timing of removing your subject's pants layers to personalize their embarrassment. I'm a spanker who likes to remove their spankee's pants and underwear right at the start, with them standing in front me with their arms helplessly behind their head. No doubt their bare butt will be on display, but I get a peek at what's going on up front 😏. Seeing both sides adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

@AzureJuniperNYC What proportion of your spankees are hard before you bare their bottom? 😃 But perhaps just the gesture of baring it gets them hard. I suppose the hardness vanishes when they get their bottom reddened…

@jersey-jim I'm also a fan of cute undies and like the idea of keeping them on at first. I imagine this in a more planned, maintenance spanking scenario, maybe starting with pats/rubbing while talking about how I need this as a reminder to be a good boy. Of course, they'd need to come down at some point!

@AzureJuniperNYC your way is also very good, and there's nothing like the threat/carrying out of a bare-bottom spanking 😃

@Alittlenaughty Thanks, I am really glad you like that as well. I agree it would work very well for a maintenance spanking. Which is a practice I am *very* in favor of, btw. I definitely like the idea of pats or rubs over undies too 😄

In our house the only time it starts with my pants up is if we’re playing. It’s akin to a warm-up spanking which is something I also only get only when we’re playing. Although, the right pair of jeans with the right thickness and tightness to the skin can actually almost be worse with certain implements than bare-bottom.

When it comes to actual serious punishments, they’re always started either on my panties or with them already down. No warm ups. If I’m wearing a dress or a skirt, up it goes. Anything else would be considered too lenient lol.

Bare bottom from start to finish.

I switch but for both situations I prefer to start clothed and then drop underwear to ankles. I always think there is a higher degree of humiliation when stood with your underwear round your ankles rather than fully naked.

A spanking has to feel like a real punishment - albeit consensual - for me. That means it has to be hard and it has to hurt. I find the first few strokes if administered full force can be the hardest to endure and the most effective. For that reason, it has to be bare from the very start.

It have to be bare bottom for me. I somehow feel it not right if I don’t get a bare bottom spanking.

I cannot explain it maybe I be conditioned to it since young.

Bare from beginning to end.

I have only had one spanking as an adult. It was recently and a lovely lady did the spanking. She had me take my shirt and shoes off before she started and then had me lay over her lap with my jeans on. She gave me a couple of swats over my jeans and told me to stand up. She unsnapped and unzipped my jeans and told me to take them off. She then had me lay on her lap again and spanked me for a while with my tighty whities on. She moved the back a few times to check on my bottom and then she told me to stand up and she took the tighty whities off. The rest of the spanking was totally nude in four different positions. I liked that approach but the next spanking is going to be a role playing punishment and I have told the spanker to make me stand facing her and totally strip. This is too add some embarrassment and then she will do the spanking with me totally nude. I think that will be enjoyable also.

Has to be naked from the start. Full force no marcy

I confess to a real attraction to a bottom in nicely fitting jeans, so my preference is to start a spanking that way before lowering them and continuing the spanking on the bare bottom.

When I spank my partner. It starts with a fully clothed bare bottom. Which then segways into feeling her dampness through her pants. Which then turns into removing the pants to either reveal she has on or doesn’t have on panties. Nice surprise for me and depicts the following. Continue the spanking of her panty clad ass while I make her hold a vibrator against her clit. Soaking her panties. Then using it as a juicy gag later. Or spanking her bare ass and making her finger herself to orgasm thus ending the spanking.

For a more erotic spanking, taking down a layer at a time can be fun. For discipline, straight to bare would be my preference.

Step by step !! - one thing will follows the other !!

The best spankings for me is to start out over whatever clothes you have on and progressively remove them as the spanking continues until the grand finale is bare bottom. When arriving to the point of being bare ibottom. the the tempo and intensity picks up until the bottom is at least pink as a minimum and all the way up to crimson red. Going beyond that where your bottom is bruised or worse yet the skin is damaged is further than what my husband and I would like to go. Spanking for us is for fun and "stimulating" as opposed to actually hurting one another. That does not mean the spankings do not sting though and many times you feel it for awhile and one might be tender the next day. Denise

In my opinion, over the knee and bare bottom front start to finish .

I like to totally undress the lady im spanking. Removing her clothing item by item while telling her how thoroughly im going to spank her bare bottom is a real turn on for me and for my lady who usually shows a little embarrassment and is usually wet between her labia by the time I have her naked. I spank her over my lap with my bare hand to warm her up. Then I bend her over a table, spread her legs and go to work on her red ass with my riding crop. When her ass is full of stripes, I turn her around, bend her backwards and spank her labia and clitoris. By now she is nearing orgasm and usually squirts.

My first adult spanking started in my boxers before the spanker arrived. It was our first meeting. In subsequent meetings with this spanker and others I’ve been required to be naked from the start.

The best spankings for me is to start out over whatever clothes you have on and progressively remove them as the spanking continues until the grand finale is bare bottom. When arriving to the point of being bare ibottom. the the tempo and intensity picks up until the bottom is at least pink as a minimum and all the way up to crimson red. Going beyond that where your bottom is bruised or worse yet the skin is damaged is further than what my husband and I would like to go. Spanking for us is for fun and "stimulating" as opposed to actually hurting on another. That does not mean the spankings do not sting though and msny times you feel it for awhile and one might be tender the next day. Denise

For sure true word's, simply spoken !! - many thank's for this comment !!

Flip up my skirt. Spank me in my panties. Then slither them off me and spank me some more…