Starting the spanking over pants? Undies? Bare?

I hope I'm not duplicating an earlier post, but I did a search and nothing on this came up.

I know some people like starting on jeans/pants/ then undies, then bare. While others like going straight to bare bottom. Personally, I like the middle ground. (Get it? Because I'm a middle! lol) Hey, if you can't make yourself laugh, what's the point? 😉 Anyway... So, I like the sense of dread that comes with having ones pants lowered. You know what's coming, you know you are not going to like it (or at least that it's going to really hurt), and now it is feeling inevitable and totally out of your control. However, I am also very big into boyish undies, and LOVE the thought/experience of being spanked in them first. Of course they will come down soon enough too, but a spanking that starts on my briefs just puts me in that headspace so much more.

Would love to hear others' perspectives on this whole topic.

As a spanker, I agree with you the best part is the pace and timing of removing your subject's pants layers to personalize their embarrassment. I'm a spanker who likes to remove their spankee's pants and underwear right at the start, with them standing in front me with their arms helplessly behind their head. No doubt their bare butt will be on display, but I get a peek at what's going on up front 😏. Seeing both sides adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

@AzureJuniperNYC What proportion of your spankees are hard before you bare their bottom? 😃 But perhaps just the gesture of baring it gets them hard. I suppose the hardness vanishes when they get their bottom reddened…

@jersey-jim I'm also a fan of cute undies and like the idea of keeping them on at first. I imagine this in a more planned, maintenance spanking scenario, maybe starting with pats/rubbing while talking about how I need this as a reminder to be a good boy. Of course, they'd need to come down at some point!

@AzureJuniperNYC your way is also very good, and there's nothing like the threat/carrying out of a bare-bottom spanking 😃

@Alittlenaughty Thanks, I am really glad you like that as well. I agree it would work very well for a maintenance spanking. Which is a practice I am *very* in favor of, btw. I definitely like the idea of pats or rubs over undies too 😄

In our house the only time it starts with my pants up is if we’re playing. It’s akin to a warm-up spanking which is something I also only get only when we’re playing. Although, the right pair of jeans with the right thickness and tightness to the skin can actually almost be worse with certain implements than bare-bottom.

When it comes to actual serious punishments, they’re always started either on my panties or with them already down. No warm ups. If I’m wearing a dress or a skirt, up it goes. Anything else would be considered too lenient lol.

Bare bottom from start to finish.

I switch but for both situations I prefer to start clothed and then drop underwear to ankles. I always think there is a higher degree of humiliation when stood with your underwear round your ankles rather than fully naked.

The only spankings I received over clothes were in high school, mom always on the bare, same from my aunt and to this day from my wife who is also naked.

A spanking has to feel like a real punishment - albeit consensual - for me. That means it has to be hard and it has to hurt. I find the first few strokes if administered full force can be the hardest to endure and the most effective. For that reason, it has to be bare from the very start.

For me growing up it started on underwear and finished naked

It have to be bare bottom for me. I somehow feel it not right if I don’t get a bare bottom spanking.

I cannot explain it maybe I be conditioned to it since young.