Does anyone else feel like they're forcing it while listening to non-cardiophiles?

This hasn't happened in all my relationships, but it can really almost be a deal breaker if you don't think your partner is really into the heart stuff as well, even on some level. I don't like things being about me all the time either. I've met another cardiophile before and the experience was incredible. So I wonder sometimes if I need to seek out a cardiophile relationship. What have your experiences been with this?