Daily Enemas in S&M Relationship

Having being into receiving enemas for the past 35+ years, both self-administered and administered by partners, for the past 3 years, while in an S&M based relationship, I started using large volume retention enemas regularly (self-administered), usually 4 days a week during the days I was staying with my Mistress.

Purpose for these enemas were for preparation of my body for use by my Mistress as well as a sort of psychological training to assist with developing a deeper mindset of submission and obedience.

For the past 5 months or so, I have taken enemas more frequently and regimented, mostly for developing the deeper mindset of submission and obedience. At 6AM, every morning, I have been self-administering 3-4 quart soap sud enemas, alternating Dr. Bronners peppermint and desolved ivory bar soap every other day.

The enemas are administered from a 4 quart black open top silicon bag with 5 foot large bore black tubing; an internet find from approximately 12 years ago. Nozzle varies but is usually a 10 inch long black douche style nozzle. The hose clamp broke a few years ago so flow control is accomplished by crimping the hose (the hose diameter is too large for a standard clamp.)

The experience of these enemas are meant to be painful, difficult to hold and to encourage inward focus towards the discomfort of the procedure and retention. Especially when using ivory soap, I usually prepare the solution the night before in a clear one gallon measuring pitcher with the soap and salt added to water. Prepping occurs the night before to have enough time for the overall procedure the next day so to be finished and ready for the day by 7AM.

By morning, the water is usually very milky (bar soap) and at room temperature on the coolish side. The bag, hose and nozzle are always assmbled and hanging in plain sight in the shower stall. Inside the shower stall, I hang the bag on a low grab bar and fill the bag from the pitcher as I keep the nozzle high to avoid flow; the scent of the soapy mixture and sight of the soap sud head always excites me at the same time as filling me with dread.

The nozzle is self lubed by sucking on the tip and inserted prior to raising the bag. The bag is raised and hung from a hook about 5 feet above the height of where the nozzle will be; I take the knee-chest, bottom up position on the floor of the shower.

Due to the height of the bag and large hose bore, water surges immediately and cramping starts within seconds. I pant like a dog trying to accept as much of the enema as possible before needing to grab and kink the hose to slow or temporarily stop the flow. I try to make the bag volume a promise.... A promise of what I must accept in that session. No matter how I try, 1 or 2 mornings a week, I am unable to take the whole bag and then need to let half a soapy quart run down the shower drain.

The retention period of 15 minutes, as measured by a stop watch counting down, starts once the enema has been taken. I reposition to standing and facing a corner of the shower stall and start the countdown. I have learned to keep any radios, music or any other audio reference off during this time so the stop watch is the only time reference letting the enema do it's work on my body and mind.

The 15 minutes seems like forever while holding those solutions and I actually get lost in that time and the pains of the solutions inside me. When the stop watch finally signals completion of retention time, I dash to the toilet and feel such gratitude for relief and such pride in accomplishing the procedure. The ordeal is such a challenge that, most day, nothing can get my mood down.

While getting added fullfillment and a deepening mindset of submission, interestingly, I have developed a hope of enema dependnace as a deep and intimate gift of control over my body to my Mistress.

I deeply desire and thrill over the thought of the next day's morning enema as much as I dread the anticipation when I wake up and know it the experience is a few minutes away; 6AM has become a sort of execution time of a serious punishment. Yet, I need and love this in my daily life.

Anyone else with similar experiences or interest, please chime in below.

I have only used enemas for cleansing, so have no experience. But I have heard as a slave, you must do what your Mistress tells you to do.

That is intense I have to try it sometime

I am not sure that 3 or 4qts of soapy solution is a good idea, especially when used on daily basis. I think it will lead to irritation of colon lining that may lead to inflammation. Few months ago I was given number of enemas and one was 3qts of soapy water. For three following days my colon was seriously irritated, mildly painful and I had diarrhoea. I have been diagnosed with IBS, and I am most likely more sensitive then most, but I think exposing your colon to irritating solutions on daily basis will lead to similar reaction.

I had no such problems when using plain or salted water, even with number of large enemas (3qts+) in a day for few days in a row.

@Ms_Lindas_slave,

Compared to plain water enemas, what is it about your 0600 QD enemas produces the substantial pain for you? Peppermint solution? Very concentrated Ivory soap solution? Very large volumes - 3-4+ quarts? What pain are you having - just cramps or cramps plus stinging, burning, heating type sensations?

Eric

Hello @ericmacson:

The pain from cramps and burning is the combination of the soap solution as well as the pressure from the height of the bag and volume at full unrestricted flow.

The filling sensation is immediate. The discomfort effect starts within the 1st quart. By about a quart and a half, the soap and quick filling starts shifts from mild discomfort to fairly strong cramping. Approaching 3 quarts, cramping become very effective punishment. Between 3 and 4 quarts I may need to pinch the hose to stop flow for a few moments. From here on, quick release of the hose and repinching as needed to accept the full punishment and then the retention duration.

Hello @gauguin:

I would agree if enemas are a smaller interest and still gaining experience without knowing/consenting to possible long term effects, the frequency I mention, especially with soap, is not suggested. I have been at this for many years, have no health issues and consent and accept (even desire) the possible long term effect of possibly becoming dependant. Being dependant puts a lot of power into my Mistress' hands.

@Enema_lovin and @Joe2349: thanks for sharing. (yes @Joe2349: doing as my Mistress says is the foundation of O/our relationship.) 😃

@Ms_Lindas_slave, thanks for the nicely detailed explanation of your submissive pain enemas. Does she know in any detail that you’re doing this for her? Your idea or hers? When you’re together, does she also give you enemas for any of a number of reasons (pain, humiliation, sexual stimulation, etc.) or do you only give them to yourself? I’m very interested as I’m never interested in any but the very mildest pain with enemas, but my exes and I are Switches and I’m extremely fond of my partner giving me very large long held enemas as her sub for both distention and embarrassment and humiliation. Thanks,

Eric🍑💦

Hello @ericmacson ;

The daily enemas was my idea and She does know that I do this each morning. I get up early and need to administer and finish before she wakes each morning. This helps with reminding me of my submission to Her as well as keeping my body ready for Her use. This was discussed between Her and me several months ago to be part of my daily routine.

She does not administer the enemas; only sends me off to administer to myself. I would love if She would administer but this activity is something She prefers to have me do to myself (from my point of view, there is a certain level of humiliation in this being beneath Her to do to me.) I think it takes a 2nd person to administer to really make it a true punishment.

Enemas are mainly punishment (pain, humiliation and submission) with secondary function to be prep for Her use in pegging and similar activities.

Thought I would add a followup since about a year from the original post:

Still at daily morning large volume enemas and no negative health effects as far as I can tell. They do center me each day. In the very rare case when I need to miss an enema, I feel a bit less spirituality connected to my submission....

The 15 minute holding time has not gotten any easier though a daily habit. The soap and pressure and volume and cool temperatures causes such intense cramps only a masochist (like me) could deal with it.... But after those 15 minute and release..... I find such calm.... Such peace..... I am so grateful for my Mistress and Her checking after the fact that I have completed my 'Tasks. '

I did purchase a 6 quart open top bag a few months ago. Haven't been able to go past 4 quarts.... I experience such pain and cramps and beginning of nausea.... I try to push past it but then the 15 minute retention time seems impossible to accomplish.....

Thanks for all prior input. Looking forward to being on here a bit more.