"Mom" paddling fantasies-normal???

I'm 34 years old and my favorite fantasy is a woman in her 50s who is my mom(not my real one) paddling me with "mommy's paddle." And getting hard because you're about to get popped and may cry. Guess it's because mom was the main female authority figure in my life. However, I fantasize about other women in authority paddling me-teachers, babysitters, mom's friends.

The only "normal" I know of for fantasies ... is that they can get really weird! I wouldn't feel bad about it.

Cool. lots of dominant women and men paddle their subs.

I'd love to get paddled. It will surely make me wet between my legs.

Such fantasies are as normal as possible. Regardless of whether someone got a beating as a child or not. The woman here is the authority administering corporal punishment. This is an activity associated with pain and fear, and at the same time the culprit must submit to punishment. The punishment has an intimate aspect - usually the person being punished has his buttocks exposed.

My husband admitted to me a little while ago that he’d like me to treat him as my little/baby girl.

Of course I was quite shocked at the time, but having read up on it I think the desire to be spanked and humiliated is quite common, especially for men in stressful jobs.

I’d never considered myself really dominant, but it has brought it out of me more. It’s a wonderful feeling of power ordering him over my lap, lifting dress, pulling down his knickers and spanking his bare bottom.

Fantasies of being spanked (and variants: paddling etc.) by a woman, and more specifically a motherly figure, are commonplace, aren't they?

I think fantasies are normal. I am an example of one who likes the motherly figure, i.e., a mom, an aunt or grandmother to take this bad boy to task and I wish it were a regular basis. I like mom types, the June Cleaver, the Donna Reed, Aunt Bee moms who have common sense and care but if you cross the line would definitely take you task. These women are out there. I have found several.

As long as it is a consensual experience between adults who are not related, I see nothing wrong with the idea.

Think a lot before actually commiting, have a safe word set up to end the encounter, talk about what you are comfortable with doing and having done, and discuss afterwards what was good and what you would change for the next time. Then experience can be hopefully, the best for each of you.

I have always been attached to older mature women, best memories to this day is the last spanking from mom when I was 14, pants down bare bottom with a belt and later that year from my older mature aunt bare bottom with a paddle and her with just panties on.

Amazing post by Eman. I think that receiving CP with pants down from my mother would have aroused me unbelievably but to be followed by a similar punishment administered my my mature Aunt only in panties would have been heaven!!

Seems natural to me, if one has spanking fantasies then it’s often going to be linked to people in positions of power/authority figures if there’s a punishment element to it, and who is more likely to spank a bad boy than their mother?

While I’m gay, my own experiences make this particular ongoing fantasy/interest, particularly where the scene is strict mum still needing to spank her grown son. I guess it seems one of the most submissive things a man could accept.

Bieng paddled by a mature woman is a dream which I have often had but never experienced. I personally had this fantasy about my father's sister which would have trumped any other older mature woman but unfortunately it never came to fruition. So disappointing!

Having been spanked growing up by mostly women I have vivid memories of the spankings. The woman spanking was definetly an authority figure

@MissStress well said lady

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I've never fantasized about my mom spanking me, but I fantasized about my friend's mom spanking me. I had always had a crush on my friend's mom who was a beautiful blonde with brown eyes.

I was about nine years old, when I was at my friend's house for the afternoon. My friend's little brother was teasing and being a jerk, trying to get in the middle of our afternoon. Finally, my friend punched his little brother who went crying to their mom. A few minutes later, their mom entered the family room, held a brief courtroom to determine the facts, and then passed judgment. My friend, not his teasing brother, was found guilty of not acting with more maturity because he was three years older and violating the family rule of no hitting, punching, or biting a sibling.

The penalty was set and carried out post haste. My friend was frogmarched out of the family room and down to the master bedroom with his cries of innocence ringing in the hallway. Two minutes later, the smacking sounds of a spanking on the bare bottom were ringing in hallway where I was standing so I could hear the proceedings. Immediately, my friend's cries accompanied the smacking sounds.

As his pleas for clemency fell on deaf ears and the smacking and crying sounds filled my ears, a warmth filled my loins and bottom as I pictured being placed across her beautiful lap. I could feel her pulling down my pants and then my underwear. I could feel the cool breeze on my bare bottom. I could feel my heart beating faster with the anticipation of the first smack and the pain. I didn't care about the pain because it was her beautiful hand that was administering the pain.

It was a vivid fantasy, especially for an nine-year-old boy.

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You should have confessed, @Vasbyt !

Who knows what might have happened. Maybe she would have hauled you across her lap as well, and pulled down your trousers and underwear to spank your bare bottom.

@Mummy Alison

Yes, I could have said that I was teasing the little brother and so it was my fault.

If that didn't earn me a spanking from her, then I could have said that I lied about teasing the little brother, and rather than telling my mom that I lied, and then I would get spanked by my mom when I got home, maybe she could just spank me.

If that didn't earn me a spanking from her, then I could have said that I feel really bad and guilty and ashamed because I lied and I know I would feel better and cleansed and purged if she would just spank me.

If that didn't earn me a spanking from her, then I could have begged her to help me feel better and cleansed and purged by giving me a spanking.

If that didn't earn me a spanking from her, then I could have yelled at her and started swearing at her and telling her she a mean, horrible, wicked woman until she finally took me over her knee and gave me a sound spanking on my bare bottom.

Thanks for the suggestion. I can play that all out in an extended fantasy.

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I could say the same… “ I've never fantasized about my mom spanking me, but I fantasized about my friend's mom spanking me.” Yep, neighbor who was at our house from time to time. I used to fantasize about her a lot, and not just spankings.

@GraceT Isn't it pretty common to fantasize about friends' parents, or schoolteachers?

@Jacana Isn't it pretty common to fantasize about friends' parents, or schoolteachers?

Don't forget the aunts.