@JT1999 very lucky you i didnt know such men were real I am glad you are happy and it was a good match. My own experince with boys I think convinced me girls were better. My first real orgams was 17 at boarding school with my first girl friend. I didnt know sex could feel so good.
He was 28 when we met, I was 18, in my first year of uni, so there's quite an age gap. Almost ten years. I was on a night out with some mates from the rugby team I played for, we ended up running into the men's team who were also out and randomly me and him just really hit it off, you know when everyone else around you seems to just disappear? It was like that. Not really sexual, but just really good conversation. We had a lot of shared interests, sports, gym, running etc. We talked all night, swapped numbers and kept in touch, I'd call him late at night or he'd call me a few times a week because I lived in another city at the time and was only home every few weekends. But when I was at home we always made time for each other, he took me out, treated me well, we flirted but he was never touchy-feely or anything. But just being at ease around him got me thinking that I would like to try being with a guy again. Well, a real man, not a boy like my ex-boyfriend. Before meeting him I had lost interest in guys. I don't think he would have ever made a move, so it took a while for anything to happen, I had to take the lead. Which I was always comfortable with when I was with another girl, but I felt a bit out of my depth with him. I think I nearly ended up in the friend zone. The sex was good right from the first time, he was great with his hands and mouth but the actual penetrative bit took some getting used to. I'm not sure if he even finished the first time. We both took the time to learn what the other liked and it just got better and better from there, it is pretty incredible now.
I do miss being with a woman, I hope I get to again. It's still my main fantasy if I'm on my own.