Ladies - How and what age did you achieve your first orgasm with another person

Ladies, i would like to hear from you how and what age did you achieve your first orgasm with another person.

12 through exploration with a same-sex partner during a sleepover.

14 with a boy through receiving oral sex.

At 13, when my boyfriend was fingering me.

14 or 15 at a sleepover with a gf. Started talking about our boyfriends and she asked if I was wet and one thing led to another....

I think I was 13 or 14. I was with a female friend and we’re fooling around after school, she was clearing up some misconceptions about how I thought masturbation worked… porn had given me a little bit of a skewed view of the female orgasm. She told me that she would teach me how to do it properly, and oh boy did she.

I often think back on that afternoon and how happy and satisfied I felt afterwards. I feel like my parents and siblings must have been naive or purposely avoiding saying that they knew I’d been upto something once they got home and I wasn’t alone with my friend anymore. Thinking back I really feel like it was obvious, but maybe I’m just misremembering.

My first couple of sexual experiences were good, but naive. This one changed my entire view of my body. With all good partners since, I’ve never found it hard to orgasm. I know a lot of women do struggle to, but I guess I’m lucky.

In light of recent discussions on this site, I was 18, all legal and above board

Teen. With my closest friend. Sadly we lost touch.

9 with my bff during a sleepover. she was a year older and she initiated it. she showed me how to rub my clit. she introduced me to a dildo, she used it on me while i rubbed myself. that was my first real orgasm

I was 16, nearly 17. I was sharing a bed with a friend. Before then we had only ever kissed once, to get some guys attention. Cringe. But she told me how much she liked the kiss as she was moving closer to me. That was my first time with a girl, after a lot of time just kissing, touching and maybe a bit of grinding on each others legs she slipped her hand in my pajama shorts. Her fingers were magic and I was so wet. Not only was it incredible, way better than I had achieved on my own, it also happened a lot faster than it normally did, it really took me by surprise. I had a boyfriend when I was 16, a few months before then and had lost my virginity with him but nothing he did felt half as good as that. He was the same age as me, I can forgive him for not knowing what he was doing but not for his unwillingness to listen or learn.

My first orgasm with a guy was around the time of my 19th birthday with the man who is now my husband. He was so different to my first boyfriend, like his sole focus was my pleasure.

@JT1999 very lucky you i didnt know such men were real I am glad you are happy and it was a good match. My own experince with boys I think convinced me girls were better. My first real orgams was 17 at boarding school with my first girl friend. I didnt know sex could feel so good.

@JT1999 very lucky you i didnt know such men were real I am glad you are happy and it was a good match. My own experince with boys I think convinced me girls were better. My first real orgams was 17 at boarding school with my first girl friend. I didnt know sex could feel so good.

He was 28 when we met, I was 18, in my first year of uni, so there's quite an age gap. Almost ten years. I was on a night out with some mates from the rugby team I played for, we ended up running into the men's team who were also out and randomly me and him just really hit it off, you know when everyone else around you seems to just disappear? It was like that. Not really sexual, but just really good conversation. We had a lot of shared interests, sports, gym, running etc. We talked all night, swapped numbers and kept in touch, I'd call him late at night or he'd call me a few times a week because I lived in another city at the time and was only home every few weekends. But when I was at home we always made time for each other, he took me out, treated me well, we flirted but he was never touchy-feely or anything. But just being at ease around him got me thinking that I would like to try being with a guy again. Well, a real man, not a boy like my ex-boyfriend. Before meeting him I had lost interest in guys. I don't think he would have ever made a move, so it took a while for anything to happen, I had to take the lead. Which I was always comfortable with when I was with another girl, but I felt a bit out of my depth with him. I think I nearly ended up in the friend zone. The sex was good right from the first time, he was great with his hands and mouth but the actual penetrative bit took some getting used to. I'm not sure if he even finished the first time. We both took the time to learn what the other liked and it just got better and better from there, it is pretty incredible now.

I do miss being with a woman, I hope I get to again. It's still my main fantasy if I'm on my own.