Holding-time

Why ic it a special kick to hold an enema or being in the middle of the waterflow.... and be logged in here,chatting or writing......?

does this ,beiig watered, intensivate feelings....

I like to hold an enema and chatting a long time on Zity or Skype

Holding while chatting here is very erotic. It also makes it easier to hold for a longer time.

I only chat while holding a coffee enema. The others aren't long enough. SSE are held a few minutes and rinses are quick. So 10-30 min while holding coffee is a nice time to enjoy chatting with others.

I usually don’t hold my enemas more than a few minutes, except for coffee, which I usually do a minimum of fifteen minutes but have held for more than an hour and a half a few times. When I am holding my coffee, what else is there to do other than check what is new here?

I have held enemas longer while signed in and chatting. I did it with my cell phone on the bathroom floor and in front of my computer in the living room. In the living room, there is a two-door cabinet next to the desk one, door on top of the other. If I want a fast enema I can hang the bag on the top door. For a slower one, I hang it on the bottom door.I also have cameras outside so I can check from my phone or computer if I hear someone or something. So when I say my sister or her girlfriend caught me taking an enema that is because I let them. The girl who started me on Enemas loved to cam with me. We would watch each other. Sometimes we would hold for a very long time. One time we had a sort of competition to see who could hold the longest. I don't remember the times but I won. She had to let hers out and I still held mine. I was trying to make her want to return or visit again.

I usually take my enema on my back while lying in bed. I pump it in with a higginson pump for extra volume and stimulation. By the time I'm done pumping it in i am usually Very Full With an inflated tummy and extremely satisfied. Once I hear that last

slurp from the water exiting the deflated bag i know I am done. Now it's time to get to the toilet without leaking and it's usually a very swift but careful walk from the bedroom to the bathroom without a big accident.So far I've been lucky,No explosions yet.

@Tabitha32 said,

One time we had a sort of competition to see who could hold the longest.

My girlfriend and I started swapping enemas at fourteen when she got bad period cramps. Both our parents worked, so it became a routine thing we did each month, lasting until we finished High School. As a rule, she held her enemas for five or ten minutes, and I did likewise when she gave me enemas. I don’t recall exactly how it got started. But one summer, when we had plenty of time, we tried to see which one of us could hold a two-quart enema the longest. We didn’t do it all the time, just occasionally, and she generally beat me hands down most of the time. On a good day, I could last twenty-five or thirty minutes, and she usually went forty or forty-five minutes.

My usual is 10 minutes but I have the last in series of three for about 20 minutes. If I hold too long, I don’t leak but get violent cramps often followed by naseau

I go for 10 minutes. Not trying to set any records.

Somewhere between 5 to 10 minutes is about all I can manage. I cannot imagine trying to chat and have a meaningful conversation while holding because my mind would definitely be distracted by the growing urgency of the enema.

@Sweet_Julie said,

I cannot imagine trying to chat and have a meaningful conversation while holding because my mind would definitely be distracted by the growing urgency of the enema.

When my girlfriend and I were swapping enemas as teenagers, we would normally hold a soapy enema for ten minutes, and a rinse enema for five minutes. However, occasionally when swapped enemas, we’d get really playful. And did things we wouldn't normally do. Like trying to see who could hold a soapy or rinse enema the longest. Learning quickly, that it helps to be distracted while holding an enema.

I have been known to distract myself while holding. Sometimes with electrostim, other times a phone call with a friend (innocent). Reading forum posts. It all depends on what I am after, longer relaxing hold, or HFO and release. Or rarely an actual cleanout needed for constipation. Usually somewhere between 10 minute and nearly an hour.

I’ll be holding my enemas tomorrow for 15 minutes(liquid glycerin J&J hot water), 1/2 hour(sea salt very warm water) and at least 1 1/2 hours for my yummy finish(green tea)😍🤪😈

For me, if I plan to hold my enema more than about five minutes, I need to do something to take my mind off of how bad I need to go. Whether I rub one off, or read about what you are all doing here in Zity, I need a distraction. If I can get past the first round of urges to expel, each round of urges is a little weaker and sometimes after a while I need to initiate the end when I want to be done.