I have done this when I became incontinent. Trying and experimenting what disposable diapers work and which one's don't.
I had a very hard time finding good diapers that didn't leak and held together. The tape tabs always tearing off.
I would use the 3M brand of packaging tape. I used it all the way around the very top and mid way down. Basically over the top of the tape tabs.
I had no issues with the diaper stretching or pulling apart by doing this.It didn't help with the leaks problems.
Just understand that was with the cheap junk department stores diapers. Both cloth like and plastic backing disposable diapers.
With the premium plastic backing disposable diapers that I use today, it's very rare that I have any problems with tape taps and diaper stretching issues.
However they do swell a great bit the wetter they get. But it's not the diaper stretching out of shape or just falling apart.
My opinion is, you get what you pay for. By using premium diapers does cost a little more. But by having to change much more because of tearing tape tabs or busting out diapers it isn't. Not to mention the embarrassing leaks.
Oh, I almost forgot!! Make sure you have a good pair scissors to actually cut the diaper off down the sides for removing or changing. Medical scissors work great.