Sex after spanking?

I don't talk about sexual spanking, but about punishment spanking. For example, you go see a Dom and he spanks you for a punishment and after that you have sex with a someone else while your butt is always red because of your spanking. Have you ever done that? How were you feeling? What was the others reaction? What happens next?

Basically, if warranted, my wife will provide a punishment spanking using a paddle. I will be bent over stool naked and she will tan my backside until its very very red. Afterwards, I have the demonstrate I'm sorry by having sex with her. She will sit on the stool naked from the waist down and I have to satisfy her needs.

Its always very satisfying and quite emotional.

As I only received punishment spankings from my mom and my aunt, I definitely masturbated after my spankings and I definitely would have fucked my aunt which turns out she probably wanted to have sex with me but only being 14 I was too dumb and scared to actually pursue her sexually, I have regretted that for a very long time.

Now a days my wife paddles me but it's not punishment and we definitely have sex afterwards with my bottom bright red and a great feeling after burn.

The other day I ran accross one of our videos and there was a view of me from behind fucking my wife doggie style and It had to be right after a paddling because my ass was bright red and is was pounding her pretty hard from behind

Sometimes yes and sometimes we would just cuddle

If we did not have sex after a spanking, I would be disappointed. A good over the knee spanking lights up a fire for both of us! Denise

@Denise

I have play patients and enemates who love getting a butt reddening spanking before we move forward with exams and treatments. I think they would be disappointed if I didn’t spank them.

Growing up, my best friend slept over at my house more often than he did at his own. Whenever either of us had been spanked, we would rub the spankee's sore butt and then rub them elsewhere to orgasm. Since we usually had both been spanked for the same mischief, we usually did this for each other before we fell asleep.

As an adult, both my wife and I have incredible sex on nights after we have given one or more of our boys and / or their friends a good ass warming, and sent them to bed to do what my friend and I did as kids.

When we are alone, my wife and I spank each other to let out any frustrations we have developed between us. These are full on bottom scorchers, to the point of becoming a sweaty, snot and tear choking mess. Afterwards my wife likes for me to finger her anus while I lick her clitoris, and for me, she will finger my prostate gland while she gives me oral.

Ironically, I’m not a big fan. I know that’s super weird because it’s SUCH a turn on, but for me it takes something away especially if it’s a real punishment. We have a rule that whenever I am actually punished for something sex is never allowed to follow it. If we’re talking a play spanking, then yeah sex or masturbation is likely going to follow, but even then sometimes I prefer to just hold the feelings inside myself. Maybe that’s like some sort of self-chastity denial type thing. Idk, depends on my mood.

The one time I saw a professional disciplinarian, I paid her to spank me for 2 hours. Afterwards, I was stuck with a hotel room for the rest of the evening so of course I took advantage and played with myself as much as I could. I even brought my toy bag so I could do some self bondage and self corner time afterwards. That was a different situation though. I wasn’t seeking out real discipline for real reasons, I was seeking out a pro who could give me a real spanking the way a spanko wants it during a time in my life where I had a drought of such experiences.

There were a few times I masturbated after my mom spanked me growing up, but there was something that never quite felt right about it. It wasn’t really about the fact that it was my mother, it was more like I felt guilty for not taking the punishment the way it was intended? I’m not sure if that makes sense, but the sense of satisfaction I got from obeying and cooperating with a punishment + holding onto the sexual excitement was worth a lot more to me than getting off and has always just been more gratifying.