Petting - Women where do you like? Tits or ass?

There is elsewhere a question for heterosexual men whether they pay more attention in a woman on tits or ass.

Here is another question, for women: where do you like your partner to pay you attention more? Tits or ass (or elsewhere?)

My limited experience: all partners loved buttocks petted (and kissed rubbed etc) while tits a more delicate issue (sensitive nipples)

I love him paying attention to both my tits and ass.

Just as much as I love him touching, fondling, petting and squeezing my big, round bum, similarly I also love him lightly, gently and lovingly touching, fondling, tickling, tonguing and nibbling on my nipples. Nibbling and sucking on one while gently fingering the other. Sometimes he teases them with a feather or fur too.

Drives me crazy, so he has to hold me down when I start moaning and writhing in pleasure.

I love when he plays with both but I love when he focuses more on my breasts.

This question is for women to say where they want to be petted not for men to say what they prefer

The title has been changed to specifically say who this topic is for. The two male responses have been removed as their opinion was not asked for. Gentlemen... let the ladies have their topic.

Sorry, although male, I have a clarifying question about the premise of this thread: why is the petting question restricted to breasts and ass? Does caressing a woman’s labia not count as petting? Follow-on: if it DOES count, is it excluded here because women don’t like to be caressed there? Have I been doing it wrong? ☺️

Sorry, although male, I have a clarifying question about the premise of this thread: why is the petting question restricted to breasts and ass? Does caressing a woman’s labia not count as petting?

The OP's question does permit other areas -

...for women: where do you like your partner to pay you attention more? Tits or ass (or elsewhere?)

My butt. I love to have my butt rubbed. I used to like my breasts caressed but since menopause my nipples are too sensitive

Definitely, breasts and nipples

Both are important and shouldn’t be neglected but breast are by far more sensitive. I love have my nipple pinched and manipulated

I prefer my tits to be given attention before my ass. I've said before my tits and pussy are connected in the most pleasurable way. So my sub needs to give them attention to get things "juicy".

But the occasional touching of my butt cheeks, a gentle caress and rub, can add to the sexual feeling we get started.

My boobs are nothing special. Got great hips and a big butt though. So any compliments and attention towards the latter is believable. Whats weird is my BF is a total boob guy. I can never figure him out. Must be attracted to my intellect😃

I love boobies of all kinds. Large areolas and pink protruding nipples drive me crazy - even the long saggy ones, which are totally erotic.

But, and it’s a big butt, when I have a vagina and anus/rectum available to me, it’s hard to concentrate or pay much attention to boobs. Weird huh?

One of my enemates told me last week that I had never touched her boobs. She has pretty, large breasts but I guess I haven’t paid much attention to them.

Normally, when we get together, I undress her, she isn’t wearing any panties and I immediately spread her legs to see if she’s shaven. If she’s not, she will ask me to shave her bare before I give her a first of a series of enemas.

By the time I have handled her vulva, labia and spread her hips, she’s sopping wet and trying to rub her clit while I’m adding the finishing touches.

Naturally, I sit back watching her masturbate, giving me the greatest show on earth. She’ll ask for a dildo or vibrator, which she adds to her activities. Then she will raise her legs high and wide inviting me to finger her asshole and stretch her until I can insert a button plug or the head of a fat dildo and begin fucking her with it.

Now, I have to ask you, when is there time to play with her titties?

After her initial orgasm, she’s asking for an enema. Who am I to disappoint her and her desires? Besides administering a large, warm soapy enema is more erotic for me than pinching nipples. It’s an embarrassment of riches, so to speak.

Ass - all day, every day. I find it annoying and irritating having my breasts fondled outside of the actual act of sex.

But my butt can be rubbed and massaged (delight). It's teasing and exciting when fingers or a hand slips between my legs, but nothing is actually stroked or penetrated. I love it when someone plays with me from behind and I can't see what's coming next.

I also have a great ass and think very highly of it, so I'm sure that attributes to my own appeal for it, too.

Ass - all day, every day. I find it annoying and irritating having my breasts fondled outside of the actual act of sex.

But my butt can be rubbed and massaged (delight). It's teasing and exciting when fingers or a hand slips between my legs, but nothing is actually stroked or penetrated. I love it when someone plays with me from behind and I can't see what's coming next.

I also have a great ass and think very highly of it, so I'm sure that attributes to my own appeal for it, too.

@tmitrue Yes you do have a great ass!!! 😜😜😜😉

Boobies when spooning. Butt when facing the person. A gentle carcass goes a long way. But, it’s error averse, as there is no wrong way to fondle the butt. Maybe, avoid pushing too deep too early into the sinkhole without an invite.

@Redxell -- I think the word you're looking for is "caress," not "carcass." :-)

I like him to play with both my tits and rub my ass while doing it. I love to be on top so I’ll put my tits in his face and he will slap my ass and rub it while sucking on my nipples.

@Jewles1217 I bet that feels good for you? Feeling your breasts and rubbing your ass! Joe Thom

Both are heavenly with the right person, though if I had to choose then I’d like her to pay attention to my bottom.