Having a female chaperone in the room for a physical exam on a guy

I have a female PCP. I have had this happen a couple of times. Once with the chaperone in the room for the whole exam and once or twice when they called in the chaperone at the end for the male exam. Some men would not want this but I kind of like it..... part of my medfet I guess. So , I would like to hear from guys who have had a female doctor use a chaperone of either sex for a complete physical exam on a man.

I had chaperones called in on few occassions. The doctor was female usually would go find a nurse right before my genital exam. Once she called someone I think it was a girl from the office area. Guess it was quickiest person she could find.

When I had a female PCP (wish I still did) she called in female chaperones at the point of my GU and rectal exams. Kinda liked it too. 😉

Not a chaperone but an intern. I was seeing this urologist for a circumsiciom surgery when oh surprise, he had a young female intern. She saw everything and the doctor was explaining to her as he was doing his exam.

Since I have no problem with nudity in front of doctors it was no big deal.

I got asked to chaperone once. I was working in the ER and a female ER Dr was about to do a rectal exam

Occasionally, my company contracted with a female doctor for our annual employment physicals. Whenever a female had the contract, she would call in one of the nurses to chaperone the genital and rectal portion of the exam. The company only had female nurses staffing the medical unit that I ever saw. When it came time, the nurse would hold the drape up between herself and me while standing behind me. The doctor would then instruct me to lower my underwear and perform her various exams. It would appear that the nurse would go out of her way to give the appearance of not “looking” while the doctor did her work. I felt like it was weird for the nurse to hold the drape between us the way she did. There was never a chaperone when the doctor was male. Interestingly, the company went through many doctors while I was with the company but always had the same three nurses on staff.

Never had this happen, in the military, or civilian life. Guess they don't care about modesty too much in the military though.

When I go to the dermatologist there is always a young lady in the room entering the data in a computer. She sees everything the doctor does.

At the dermatologist, seems common to have another person, usually female, entering the dermatologist notes during a skin exam.

At the urologist, having the medical assistant or nurse (typically female) present during procedures, like a cystoscopy, and subsequent genital/rectal exam seems like a moot point when she already prepared you by sterilizing your genitals prior to the procedure. At that point not so much a chaperone as someone assisting with the procedure.

My dermatologist requires a medical assistant in the room during the exam. She sits at the desk so can't really see anything during the genital exam because I am on a gyno like chair facing away from her. She does get to see my bare chest when I lower the gown for the back/buttocks exam.

The only time anything close to this ever happened with me was when I was young and the doctor required a parent in the room.

Three female doctor/PAs have examined me intimately and none called in a nurse or chaperone. The most recent a few months ago. Most offices here have a sign in the exam room stating you can request a chaperone and one will be provided. Several specialists (dermatologists, orthopedics, any ophthalmologists) have assistants to take notes for exams, but they aren’t there as chaperones.

If a female doc calls in a chaperone I assume it’s to protect herself from either unwanted advances from the patient or to protect against false complaints about inappropriate touching. My wife’s gyno oncologist has the sign in her exam rooms (may be the clinics poloicy) and I think she only treats women. The office could also be used by other male docs.

I’ve had mixed experiences, and it really just depends on the provider.

The woman DO I saw in my early 20s would never call a chaperone, but did a genital exam at ever visit.

The urologists I’ve seen never have a chaperone, but almost always have had an intern or student in on the visit.

The women PAs I see now never have me get undressed for a physical, so don’t regularly see me naked. The few times I’ve been in specifically for a genital/pelvic concern, it’s been 50/50. The visit starts alone with them, and when it comes time to drop my pants for the exam they will ask “do you want me to get a chaperone?” To which I reply “I don’t need one, it’s up to you.” Some of the PAs will then go fetch a tech or MA then to stand awkwardly in the room, while other will glove up and do the exam. It’s always interesting when they get a chaperone though, because everyone there knows what is about to happen when they come back in the room as the rest of the visit is done. As soon as they come back it’s wash hands, glove up, and out come the dick and balls. Some of the chaperones will look away and other will watch.

Interestingly, the testicular ultrasounds I have gotten, which are very intimate, have almost always been alone or rarely with students accompanying.

I have had many different chaperones over the years and in the 80s it was customary to use anyone that was available such as a receptionist or other office worker and 99% of the chaperones were female and on the younger side and that is still the case today as they often use a medical assistant now and its usually women just starting out. I can remember having an STD test at the small college I was at by a female doctor with her appointment setter a female student looking on. I also remember having a testicular ultrasound later with a tech in her 40s and a young female office worker watching while being called a "chaperone". I had erections at both times.

I now have a female PCP I am comfortable with. On my first physical with her she asked if I wanted a chaperone and I told her no, that I did not need one.

I have only had the experience of a chaperone being present in the exam room once during an examination. This was a number of years ago in an office I was sent to for a preemployment exam. The doctor was a middle aged Caucasian male who kept his female nurse in the room throughout the exam. It really added a lot to the anxiety and embarrassment I felt during the exam and was terrible to go through but has given me tremendous pleasure thinking back about it over the years since it occurred. I do not know how others feel about it, but I find it embarrassing for staff members in the doctor's office to know what I have been through just because they know why I am there and what the doctor's routine is, but to have someone present to witness the proceedings and actually hear the doctor instruct me and see me submit is incredibly humiliating. Not to mention the fact that this particular female nurse actually watched the examination and got an unobstructed view of my genitalia and my anus since she positioned herself to have a full view of my body.

I've had female nurses or med-techs who were assisting with various procedures I've had over the years but have never been fortunate enough to have a female whose only function was to observe what was going on. There are signs prominently displayed in the exam rooms though that I have a right to ask for a chaperone at any time. But if it's a male doctor part of the fun has already been ruined. And if it's a female doctor it's unnecessary.

After college a female PA gave me a physical. When it was time for the genital exam, she asked if I had recently had sex without using protection. If so, I might need and STD test. I told her I hadn't, and she said that meant I didn't need to get tested. Not sure what the test would have entailed, but I was a bit interested. As was, she gloved up, asked me to drop my shorts and briefs. Standing to my side, she reached around and really quickly felt both of my testicles, then it was over. There was no discussion of a chaperone at all, though I would have been up for it.

More recently during a skin check I mentioned a small spot on my penis. The appointment was almost over, but the doctor asked me to let her have a look at it. I went behind a curtain, lowered my pants and boxers to mid thigh, and laid down on a table. She then came over, pulled on gloves, and looked at my penis with a dermoscope. While she was looking at me, the nurse in the room poked her head around the edge of the curtain, staring at my dick. Sadly she asked me to move my penis into the proper position. Since she was wearing gloves, I'd hoped she might have to touch it.

I'm yet to have that distinct experience at any of my exams. I've been seen by three different female NPs and one female derm PA to this point and it's always been a 1:1 thing. One of my NPs barely did any examination either, just mostly lab work and meds. Two of them performed hernia checks and genital exams and, to my (at the time) horror resulted in one chub and one full stiffy. I've never full stiffied at the dermatologist but I've definitely chubbed quite noticeably to me (probably not to her). That's been the most intimate one, though, because no other doctor has had to stare me eye to ass.

I see a female dermatologist every year for my skin exam. She always uses a female chaperone while looking me over. I'm undressed and in a gown but I have to stand so she can look at my backside. She usually lowers the gown while I'm lying on the table to look at my groin and genitals and the female chaperone is sitting there adding notes to my medical records.