Strength of ejaculation

Thinking about the following.

I masturbated regularly as a teenager and I recall (or does my memory play tricks on me?) that on one occasion, laying back in bed, some drops ended up on my face.

Now, nearly 50, when I ejaculate, it just spurts out weakly.

Is this the usual course of things?

In most cases.....sad, but true. Welcome to the "club"! At least you can still ejaculate!

I think it's something you can work on with Keigels and whatnot. I was proud of this one (and I'm 51):

https://x.com/NetBear650/status/1791826273486135465/

Warning...yeah you're gonna see a fat guy ejaculate.

Other than perhaps my very first ejaculation at 12, most of mine have lacked in both volume and force. Now, at 40, I’ve realized an overly developed and tense pelvic floor is likely the problem. Kegels make it worse as the problem isn’t strength but inability to relax the floor enough to give the contractions room to expand. Some deep breathing, internal massage, and CBD suppositories have helped me achieve the best ejaculations since early puberty.

I think you can still "train". If I build up the sexual tension, watch some porn that I enjoy, edging a few times, prolonging the ejaculating moment, all these are helping.

@protos Oh, it's not important. I mean, I doubt this makes a difference for my wife's vagina… But I'm curious as to the physiology of it.

Not as much and not as far, but can still "get 'er done"

@Jacana, indeed, it may just make an impression if visible 😃

Happens to all of us. When lying in bed i could hit the headboard in my 20s but at 48 I only rarely get my chin and usually just my chest. Mirrors the loss in erection angle where i used to point straight up in my teens and now am barely 15 degrees above horizontal.

In my teens the semen would squirt out strongly and hit my chest and sometimes my face. That continued until about 50 when the ejaculation got weaker and the semen would squirt about a foot and land on my belly. Now in my 70's it only squirts about 6 inches.

I definitely cum less than I did when I was in my teens/early 20s, but not by much. It's also dependent on how long I've been getting myself riled up. There's a role play LLM I use sometimes that, throughout the day, I'll send responses as my character and will get aroused during that but won't masturbate. Then later, when I do masturbate, it's a much more powerful orgasm, sometimes intense enough that I get some of that pre-ejaculation dribble dripping out of me first.

As a young person, I had strong ejaculations with lots of cum. Now my ejaculation is less forceful but the amount of cum has not diminished much

As an older man, my ejaculations still feel the same as they did when I was younger, but the semen level has gone from a small puddle, to a trickle. Every muscle in my body tenses up, and my heartbeat increases.

I can remember being in my twenties and reading Penthouse forum letters on a regular basis, I would massage my well lubricated penis for an extended period of time, when it was finally to to ejaculate, it would shoot towards my shoulder! It was quite messy back then!

First of all, I agree with you, it really does diminish with age. But there is a simple trick: If I pull my penis back tightly with my hand shortly before cumming, I can still manage to cum in my face while lying down, even when I'm over 60. However, I agree with all the posts, it has nothing to do with the quality of the orgasm.

I had a discuss few years ago "How far have you ever ejaculated?"

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=117750

As a teen, I would shoot ropes of cum. Several times it hit my face. Today at 65+ it sort of dribbles out or shoots only several inches.

Hell, at 12 I could take ceiling tiles! Now, at 66 I'm happy if it hits halfway to my chest!