First time masturbatory in front of the opposite sex

There is another thread here about the first time you saw someone of the opposite sex masturbate in person. I wrote about my experience here: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=123531;firstnew;cell=591

So this is the converse - tell us all about the first time you masturbated (to completion) in front of a member of the opposite sex.

Good question. I don't think I took a note of this. Most likely I was horny in bed with a sleepy girlfriend.

My wife before we were married. We were laying in bed one afternoon talking and I just asked her if she had ever seen a guy do it with his hand? She got embarrassed and said no she had never seen a guy do that!!! I asked if she wanted too? She got all sheepish and said if I wanted to, to go ahead, so I started doing it while she was laying beside me. She has seen me do it quite a few times since but that was the first time in front of a female.

For me, after Ellen introduced me to the art of female masturbation (as detailed in the link in the question), she dared me/insisted that I return the favor.

To be completely honest, I didn't know what I was doing. I was a late bloomer and was part of a pedophile doctor's "developmental study" that had me doing daily "therapy exercises" - basically dry masturbation - that I'd have to demonstrate for the doctor.

Anyway, back to Ellen. We were playing truth or dare, and after masturbating for me, she dared me to masturbate for her. Now, I knew about jerking off, or thought that I did. Likewise, I knew about ejaculations, but only in theory.

So after being dared, I stood up and dropped my jeans to my ankles and pulled my tightie-whities to mid-thigh and started stroking my newly larger erection. Ellen stopped me and told me to get completely naked and stand in front of her. So I did, and stroked my dick the way my pedophile-pediatrician had taught me.

After a minute or si, Ellen stopped me again, and got up and went into the bathroom. She came back with a tube of hand lotion and handed it to me. I stood there and looked at her for a minute and she said something about lubrication makes it better. When she realized that I didn't really know what I was doing, she coached me through it - and this was clearly not her first time. She had me stand between her knees and resume. She'd tell me to speed up or slow down, to squeeze my balls or let them go, and when I came, it was explosive - I had no idea what was happening - I mean, I knew in theory, but really didn't know what to expect - and I shot my load on her bare tits. I wanted to apologize again, but she rubbed my cum into her skin and over her boobs.

That was not the last time I masturbated with a member of the losers table, but it was the first time I masturbated to completion - and having Ellen introduce me to incorporating lotion created a masturbation fiend!

Surprisingly, I've never done that. 🙄

The first time was when we did it together as described in the previous thread. I haven't ever done it again, and that was 42 years ago !

It was early 1990. This was only the second time I went to private strip club (the ones where you and the dancer are in a private room alone) and I was still a virgin. The dancer did her usually moving and undressing but then she asked me, "aren't you getting undressed?". I told her, "I don't need to" but she insisted. I asked her, "Do you really want to see me?" and she shook her head. I proceeded to undress as she continued her strip act. "You can go ahead and touch yourself but you can't touch me", she instructed. As the session went on, she told me that I could come move my head in closer between her legs for a good view at which point, she pulled her lips apart and pushed her finger from her other hand into her vagina. I was stroking myself and no longer feeling the embarrassment of being in front of a stranger when she did that. She finally pulled her finger out and it glistened. She continued to dance while continued to masturbate and then she gave me the 5-minute warning until the session would end at which point I came into the supplied Kleenex. To this day, I feel so bad for not having given her a tip, which was customers did at these places.

Strangely enough, considering how promiscuous I was in my teens and early twenties, I was about 28 the first time it happened I think.

I was living with a woman a few years younger than me, a virgin when we met. She gradually became more experimental sexually as we grew more comfortable with each other.

She had masturbated in front of me a few times, after some coaxing. One day she asked me to masturbate for her. I lay back in the bed and masturbated until I ejaculated. She had said she wanted to see me come on my chest. Well old stiffy decided to out-do himself and I ended up with a load of come on my face, and hair. She was quite amazed. 😃

The games graduated from there to me coming on her boobs, on her pussy and on her butt. She also liked me to pee on her pussy and boobs. As she put it. She liked to be messed on. And no, that didn't mean scat.

That was over 50 years ago and I still see her occasionally, but the subject never comes up now. I often wonder how far she went with that desire. No way I am going to ask her after all these years though. 😃

It was early 1990. This was only the second time I went to private strip club (the ones where you and the dancer are in a private room alone) and I was still a virgin.

@ds20e I had a similar experience. However, much to my regret now, I was too shy to take out my penis and masturbate. To this day, I still sometimes picture her pussy in my mind's eye when I do masturbate.

That was over 50 years ago and I still see her occasionally, but the subject never comes up now. I often wonder how far she went with that desire. No way I am going to ask her after all these years though. 😃

I met up with an old girlfriend from our teens - 51 years later and 3500 miles apart for all that time. We'd had an active sex life but I don't remember much about it except for one major detail. We went for a week's holiday and I bought some condoms so I could come inside her for the first time. When we re-met it was magic and we spent 5 wonderful hours together, walking and talking. I didn't dare potentially ruin the day by mentioning our past sex life. And she never said a peep. Giving her up was the most regrettable thing I've ever done.

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We had just gotten married and we were on our way over to the groom's luncheon. We were both virgins and didn't have sex until a few hours later after the luncheon and before the reception that evening.

However, we made a quick stop at my wife's mom's house to change clothes. We didn't have time for sex, since we knew she would need a lot of warm-up time and we would be taking it slow to minimize the pain on her part. But my bride wanted to see me "squirt" and she thought we had time for that little diversion so I obliged and masturbated until I squirted into the bathtub, which didn't take long because I had a beautiful girl in front of me and I'd never masturbated in front of anybody before.

We were a few minutes late to the luncheon and my mom was mortified because she was just certain that every single guest at the luncheon noticed we arrived a few minutes later than most of the guests. And she was certain that every single guest was thinking that we were late because we were so horny that we couldn't help ourselves and we had to stop to have sex on the way over to the luncheon. I doubt any guests thought that except for my mom. Well, maybe a few thought so, but they would have smiled and thought, "Well, of course, they did. It's their wedding day. Isn't that wonderful. I would be disappointed if they didn't do that."

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