99% of the video's on this subject are (in my opinion) rather weird or bizarre. Here's an example of what I'd love to see. A nice lady, grandmother, nurse administering a real enema to a young man ... or young lady, in a real life situation. No weird costumes, whips and chains... unrealistic situations. A natural dialog also would add to the realism. You're opinion is welcome. I understand this is just one point of view.