What I want to see in an enema video...

99% of the video's on this subject are (in my opinion) rather weird or bizarre. Here's an example of what I'd love to see. A nice lady, grandmother, nurse administering a real enema to a young man ... or young lady, in a real life situation. No weird costumes, whips and chains... unrealistic situations. A natural dialog also would add to the realism. You're opinion is welcome. I understand this is just one point of view.

You must be finding different videos than I do. Whips and chains? Costumes? Maybe you need to limit or revise your search terms. At least use "-BDSM" to get rid of a lot of that.

It's fine that you like what you like, of course, but it's not at all close to what I like (which is also fine). I suspect that if what you'd most like to see were what lots of people want, there'd be plenty of it. Instead, there's a good bit of faked "force" or punishment to a young female on the receiving end, and not many with an older woman administering. (I can't recall any, but that's just me.) Scenes with a male on the receiving tend to be with another man administering, intended for gay viewers.

Although the videos I see rarely pay much attention to who's giving it. Sometimes they're not on camera at all except for an arm or hand. So maybe for many people that part isn't important, even though it is for you and no doubt others.

I suspect few of the people who appear in fetish videos are capable of acting skilled enough to perform realistic dialogue, though. That's certainly true of more garden-variety porn. How I've cringed when two people on camera can't manage a simple exchange of dialogue when meeting the cable repair guy or inviting the dude delivering pizza to come inside while she gets her purse.

You know, I hope, that some fetish performers will custom make what you want, for a price. Try saving dimes in a two liter bottle--when it's full you'll have about $500. It's a start!

@downsizing what about this vid?

https://xhamster.com/videos/ahwb-8181266

I agree with both Pinot and downsizing, I would like the "realism" instead of quite strange situations. Beside this - maybe I'm kinky - I like to see the gush of coming out water, especially if the water is clear. I find it really nice 😃

I came across a video recently, “Home from College,” showing who I assume is supposed to a mother giving a water enema to her daughter.

There's no audio, so I couldn’t hear what they were saying. However, I actually found watching the video enjoyable because it resembled a time when I gave an enema to my own daughter on her bed when she arrived home sick after a college biology field trip.

After mom gave daughter the enema, she sat with her next to the bed for a few minutes before helping her up and into the bathroom where the release was shown. From past experience with my own daughter, this video was about as realistic a home enema scenario between mom and daughter as I can imagine.

I found this video totally by accident and didn't think to copy its URL. Maybe someone else can help with this. Thanks!

A URL would be very nice if you have it. Thxs

I have stated in several posts over the years that most enema videos on the Internet fall in the category of stupid, low-end porn. That's why I don't make much effort in watching any enema videos anymore.

I prefer an enema given in a clinical, realistic setting. Preferably a voyeuristic video captured in a real-life situation. But please, puleeeeeze not a "hospital enema" where the focus is more on the nurse's tits spilling out all over the place and the patient's blowjob that follows after. Not my cup of tea.

Realism. I've all but given up finding a video that depicts the well-known effect of the warmth and pressure of good enema administered by a like minded partner. Scenarios can vary greatly, but should always include a prolonged and satisfying orgasm.

Dialogue. I was brought up by a mother that would talk to me throughout our frequent enema sessions, using the word "enema" frequently, explaining the necessity and benefits of a "good" enema. Understandably it became a sex word and trigger for me that continues to this day.

Location. The bathroom with toilet and tub along with the bulging bag with the long hose hanging from the robe hook, or the bulb by the sink, all in full view surely brings back memories of past sessions for many of us.

Giggles, milk enemas, scat spraying, punishments and gals wearing high heels during sessions are not my thing.

@carlienet, great vid,really like the mother, id like enemas from her, and also like seeing quite a way up her skirt !

This is the most realistic enema video clip I have ever seen.

I agree, very realistic enema video from a loving mother!

First is that the recipient actually is being given a significant volume of solution. The best are evidenced by some visible distension and the more's the better. Positions that emphasize the fullness are a plus. Verbalization is good if it's not inane and repetitive. Showing the release is optional and solids are ok if not the focus. The worst are the obvious fakes, clamps still closed, bags with no contents, supposed receivers who are no more than nozzle holders. Currently, one called Aphrasia (spelling?) checks all my boxes. Older videos by Ana Likes It and Reiina Pop are fine too. No games there. PS: Oh yeah, what's with the milk?

I agree with many of the comments posted. I don't care for the phony ones with crumpled up paper in the enema bags to make them look full. They must be realistic and it's ok with me if some expulsion occurs preferably with clear returns. I like dialog where the E word is used frequently along with rhetorical questions from the giver as in " What's Daddy putting up your bum ?" and the receiver saying things like "Daddy's giving Babygirl an enema to make her poop". I don't care for all the dildo insertions that show up in many enema videos nor do I like gaping. I find many of the Japanese ones have too much BDSM. Usually some poor girl is tied up and subjected to more water than given in a Colonic except in the latter you don't have to hold it.I sometimes feel sorry for those girls who appear to be tortured against their will. I find most of the guy to guy ones -Locker Room Enemas- are too rough with the use of garden hoses and urine enemas or a bunch of goons raping some poor guy while they taunt him .I don't find those erotic.Too much hypermasculinity for my liking. Guys can be gentle too ! In short rough does not equal erotic for me. That being said there are some good ones out there and thanks to Zity members for posting these links. I also find some of the amateur ones more realistic if the sound is audible. The gender of the participants does not matter,For me, quality is more important. I'm sure many Zity members could write better screenplays with more realistic dialogue than that found in a high percentage of extant Enema videos.

Two things that really get me going when watching enema videos.. the first is the realism that’s already been mentioned. The second is perhaps even more important…. Arousal. I want to see and know that the recipient is enjoying the enema… a lot. I also enjoy seeing and hearing heavy expulsions. Those little streams shooting out don’t really show the intensity the way that deep gush does.

I fully agree with @flburst58 and @downsizing.

I put a photo of what seem realistic in my album called realistic with not a lot to see but would love to see the video.

Real not faked but if it incorporates self play or couple play with sex a video like that would be a real purchase