Although my partner(s) and I explore the gamut of sex — anal, oral, frot, kink, etc. — as I stated in a recent post, mutual j/o is our mainstay and probably accountable for 90% of our orgasms. Even if we start with other activities, we usually wind up lying next to each other or facing each other on our knees, sensually jacking off until we ejaculate (sometimes ourselves, sometimes each other). One of the benefits of this is we’ve gotten really adept at achieving simultaneous orgasm, which we love.
For me, this fascination goes back to early puberty. Before I could admit to myself I was gay, all I fantasized about was jacking off with classmates or other crushes. In my fantasies I would find a way to convince or coerce a friend into beating off with me, and spent countless hours under the sheets in my bedroom, bringing myself closer and closer to orgasm until I finally ejaculated.
I did on two occasion reach my goal of convincing friends to join me. The first was at about age 14 when, after lots of sex talk snd sharing of info, I convinced a fellow boy scout (age 12-13) to masturbate alongside me. We did this under the privacy of our sleeping bags, wordlessly until he muttered, “I’m about to sperm.” This was the first time I’d heard that expression, which made me wonder where he’d heard it. This was in the late 90s, and we went to the same schools, and it wasn’t common vernacular. Made me wonder if he had older relatives that joined him or taught him. Long after he was sound asleep and lightly snoring, I reached my hand into his sleeping bag and fished my fingers through the fly in his boxers. I first felt his sticky semen and then the light bush that was developing. We never shared this experience again.
My other experience was with a classmate of the same age with whom I jacked off regularly through senior year. We never touched but enjoyed ejaculating in front of each other.
Back to the matter at hand — who prefers masturbation to other activities?