Finger in anus

To heterosexual (or bi) men here (or women who describe what happened to their husband, partners etc)

Do you like receiving a finger in your anus / rectum?

If so, when did you realize you enjoyed this?

How did you obtain this from a partner?

How do you do it? (Position, glove? coupled with masturbation? etc.)

Sometimes a finger in my butthole helps me to get hard

I discovered I liked a finger in my anus (rectum, ass) about 2 years ago while showering. While soaping up my body, for some unknown reason, I stuck a finger in my asshole. Being soapy, it went in easily. I knew that gay men were fucked in the ass, and being I had recently begun having oral sex with men, I knew that I would also. So, using my middle finger, I kept moving it into my rectum, until I had passed my second knuckle. I had passed my sphincter and my rectum was available. Moving back and forth, I liked the sensations I was receiving and now incorporate finger fucking my ass into every shower. It is a very nice activity that encourages frequent showering! Who knew that finger fucking my asshole could have positive hygiene results!

I think I always liked having something penetrate my anus. My earliest memories of it happening was while playing doctor with friends. I also enjoyed returning the favor.

I was introduced to the sexual aspects when a high school girlfriend was giving me a blow job. She wanted to make me cum (as did I) but it just wasn't happening. Then she licked a finger and slid it up my ass. Ka-pow! I exploded with a bell ringer of an orgasm enhanced by my anus contracting rhythmically around her finger as the orgasm continued.

@John_Sitter So your girlfriend was experienced in this manner! Do you know how she learned this trick?

@John_Sitter So your girlfriend was experienced in this manner! Do you know how she learned this trick?

I don't think she had any direct experience but I would assume she had learned about it from her girl friends. We were both exploring new territory sexually.

@John_Sitter That was quite daring of her! Did she ask for permission?

So your girlfriend was experienced in this manner! Do you know how she learned this trick?

Maybe she simply read a good book on sexual techniques. It's not as if it's much of a secret that a finger up the anus helps achieve both erection and orgasm in guys.

I definitely enjoy anal fingering and have for many years, even in childhood when I did it to myself.

Fortunately my wife will fairly freely indulge me in anal fingering, with me as the receiver. She does not like being the receiver herself, and at this stage I don't think I'll change her opinion.

My wife and I schedule sexual encounters, just as the sex therapists recommend. When I'm on the receiving end, she massages me for a while (not genital massage), then she fingers me, and then does penile massage. It's enjoyable and relieves a lot of sexual tension. For the anal fingering, I'm usually either standing up and bending over our massage table or I am lying on my right side on the massage table, with my knees and hips drawn up.

@agracier I think that John is from an era when such books were not readily available, especially to teenagers.

I think that John is from an era when such books were not readily available, especially to teenagers.

I bought all my sexual education and history books back when I was young and often enough in my late teens, which would have been from around 1968 onwards ... they were not really that hard to find if you put your mind to it. I never had a problem buying anything, even when still 16 and most definitely underage at the time (21).

The first time I had sex with anyone (who was my gf and later wife), she thought I must have been very experienced because of the things we did. I wasn't experienced at all, but I was well-read and was simply finally able to sexually do all I had been reading about. It gave a false impression of my supposed experience but I didn't really mind.

@agracier I think that John is from an era when such books were not readily available, especially to teenagers.

Actually @Jacana, @agracier has it right. The book, Everything you ever wanted to know about sex* was published before I started high school. My mother had a copy (but she had covered the book cover with some brown paper) and hid it from me. (I found it anyway). My girlfriend also had a copy (provided by her mother, who was about 25 years younger than my mother). Goes to show you the different attitudes of parents from different generations. I'm sure my girlfriends mom was motivated because she got pregnant right out of high school.

I love a finger in my anus! I love two fingers inside me even more!

I knew I loved it the first time I stuck a finger up there when I was a little boy. I can remember a few times my mother taking my temp rectally and enjoying her gently putting a little Vaseline on my anus with her finger before inserting the thermometer.

I asked my ex to give me an enema and pleasure me with her fingers. She was much more willing when she realized I would be thoroughly clean inside from the enema so there would be no smell or poop involved.

I prefer anal play, giving or receiving, on the knees ass up and head down. Yes, of course it included having my cock stroked and sucked until I was milked dry.

I have always felt that the best part of an enema is the insertion of the lubricating finger. Unfortunately, in medical surroundings this rarely happens. I discovered the pleasure when I was very young and was experimenting with another boy. Also unfortunately, this is a no-go area for my wife.

There used to be a time when you could safely use an unprotected finger on someone else, and they could reciprocate, but I fear that this is no longer an option. Great pity, though, as the feeling was much better.

Many moons ago I had a session with a man who said, 'I'm going to put my finger up your bottom and I want you to do the same to me. Very exciting.

@Dr_Higgs Doesn't a glove ease penetration, avoiding problems such as fingernails?

Either the first or second time my wife and I had sec she pulled out one of those old tee-shaped butt plugs, and I used it on her. After that, she initiated with a finger while giving me a blow job. It became part of our normal sex life, on my stomach, back side during 69 and PIV. Never used gloves, we had hand lotion or lube on the nightstand.

A finger in the anus is a pleasurable addon to any shower. This is a good common sense way to get an arousal this is totally hidden

I push a soapy finger into my anus every time I shower. I finger the outside first to get that part clean and then I do the inside. I can just touch my prostate. The first time I had sex with a co-worker (me male; her female) she surprised the hell out of me when she pushed a finger inside when she was sucking my cock.

Since then 3 male docs have done it and my wife won't even touch the outside. The male docs are so fast there isn't enough time to enjoy it.

During play sessions with a friend of mine in my middle teenaged years he’d regularly push one or two fingers into my anus, which I thoroughly enjoyed, before repeating the exercise with his penis. I discovered at quite an early age that I enjoyed anal stimulation and still do now.

I love having a finger in my anus and rectum! My wife will almost always finger me or penetrate me with a plug or other device during sex. The first time I was fingered during sex was by my high school girlfriend. Apparently she had been told by her friend that most guys enjoyed it. I was more than happy to give it a try!

I was in my early 30’s divorce for a while. Started dating my now second wife. When out of left field one afternoon in the bed room I was giving her oral sex she asked me to also slide a finger in her butt she came unglued so to say. All but ripped my ears off 😂. So later on another day she did the same to me slow easier I guess she hit the spot . In a short time we discovered we liked a lot of things .

I enjoy being stroked or tickled a little down there but for me having anything inserted bigger than a thermometer is very unpleasant.

Do you like receiving a finger in your anus / rectum? Yes very much so!

If so, when did you realize you enjoyed this? I was introduced to it as a kid.

How did you obtain this from a partner? In the past it was simply part of our foreplay, especially when coupled with oral or masturbation.

How do you do it? Depends on whose doing it if a glove is involved.

Yes I enjoy a finger in there. Usually my partners or my own gloved finger. I think gloves are a must in this situation. And they add to the excitement!

I suspected I was really into this after a visit to my university's clinic, years ago. I'd gone in because of sharp pains in my rectum. A lovely MD in her early fifties asked me to lower my pants and lie on my side so that she could "get a feel of" me. Her gloved and jellied finger inside me felt wonderful, despite the electric pain when she touched my prostate.

Years later, I found just how much I was into receiving a finger inside me. In one of my sessions with a female licensed massage therapist ("Sirena," whom I've posted about elsewhere) — who was *very* open-minded — she introduced me to prostate massage.

Early in that session, I was face down and naked on her massage table. The sheet was already gone. Sirena was massaging my hips, which was always heavenly. She surprised me by saying, "I'd like you to raise up and get on your hands and knees."

I remember thinking, "*This* is new!" But of course, I complied.

I heard her put more oil on her hands and rub them together. Then I felt her place her right hand on my right hip, then use both hands to spread my cheeks. I felt my anus open and let in the cool air.

I could feel Sirena leaning in, and for a moment, I wondered if she were going to kiss it.

She didn't, but she did blow air from her lips, to caress my sphincter in that way. Then I felt her oiled fingertips touch my ass lightly, then start making circular strokes there. It felt so good that I couldn't keep from rocking my hips a little.

She whispered, "Let me know if this is OK," stroked my anus again, and then gently and slowly dipped an oiled finger inside me, with a slight corkscrew twist. I remember that it burned slightly, and I spasmed, but it felt wonderful, as she dipped her finger in and out, and I told her, "That is VERY ok."

We fell into a rhythm, with her penetrating me, slipping out and back in, me rocking slightly, and she soon started slipping two fingers in and out, and using her left hand to stroke and tug on my oiled balls, with strokes to my perineum, at the same time.

I was breathing hard and rocking against her firm oiled fingers as they came in, and felt a few drops of pre-cum dripping from my stiffening cock onto the massage table. It still burned a little (it made me think briefly about a novel I'd read, where the American male hero is raped by a ninja, and how the penetrations burned), but unlike Nicholas Linnear, I was in heaven.

Deep inside me, her fingertips found and circle-stroked, then pressed against my prostate, which felt electric, though somewhere halfway between pleasure and discomfort, at first. It felt a little like I needed to pee, and I spasmed against her fingers, again, but she kept stroking and whispered, "Shh. It's OK."

More pre-cum leaped from my glans. I felt her left hand catch the drops and use them as lube to start stroking my cock, as she continued to press rhythmically at my prostate.

I usually didn't cry out when cumming, especially not at her clinic (she didn't want her secretary to know what was going on), but I did that time. I came against her fingertips in my rectum at the same time that I came with my penis, shooting all over the sheet. I dropped down and she held on while I did so, her left hand smoothing my hot cum across my belly, squeezing me there, and then sliding up to insert one cum-slicked finger into my ass.

I was literally gasping, and I said something like, "That was like being male and female at the same time." She "mmmm"ed in response, then patted me on the hips, removed her finger, stroked my ass one last time, and went to wash her hands... then returned with hot washcloths and wiped and scrubbed me down.

As she was toweling me off, Sirena mentioned, "That's not for everyone. But I could tell how much you enjoyed it. We can do it again next time, if you want." So that was the first of many times Sirena penetrated me...sometimes, with me on my back, holding my knees.

Weeks later, thoroughly hooked on our new 'routine,' I asked Sirena whether she would fuck me with a strap-on. She said that she would have to draw the line, there, but recommended that I try a prostate massager, while masturbating. I ordered one, and found that the climaxes that come with having my prostate vibrated while I jerk off, are orders of magnitude more intense than usual. Highly recommended.

When I was only 5 my parents became concerned because I just would never poop. I held it in for long periods of time... I could go days if not weeks without going. My mom decided to take me to see a doctor about it. The doctor did all the normal exam things first. He also pressed on my belly which caused me to giggle as I was quite ticklish. Then the doctor rolled me onto my side and slid down my shorts and underpants. I felt him split my legs apart and felt a cool slippery in my bottom. Then I felt something slip in my butthole. It did not hurt at all but I was surprised as you can imagine. I did not cry or fuss much but remember wiggling around a bit on the exam table as he had his finger in my butt. The doctor moved his finger around in my butt and as he did this It felt like he was tickling me inside. The tickle sensations I noticed came in waves. Kind of like an intense tickle and then it went away. I remember his finger being very slippery as he moved it around. I really wanted the doctor to not stop doing this. I also looked sort of forward to the doctor doing this again at the next visit. I remember thinking I wonder if the doctor will put his finger in my bottom again. I remember feeling uneasy about it but wanted him to do it as well. Most of the visits he did this to me. I felt the same way each time. Nervous and scared a little bit and also hoping the doctor would do the finger in my butthole again.... I believe that having this done and being turned on before I knew what was happening wired me to like to poke around in my bottom which has been lifelong for me....

@eforenema1 Did the doctor do it again?

Im 67 now, we left a house when i was 5, so what happened was in that house and me being 5 or younger. My mother called me in, took down my shorts and underwear and pulled me over her lap, she then pushed a vaseline coated finger up my bum ,this was withdrawn and a ball of soap was pushed right in, i dont remember being constipated, but i must have been, clothes were replaced and i ran outside crying . Remember wanting to poop badly, but sitting on the pot and pushing, so i guess something happened as im here now. Anyway, that was the trigger for my anal interest,and i recall me pushing a finger in and it feeling good, but i didnt know why till many years later.

Are you men all trying to make us females upset or inadequate as we dont have prostate glands that obviously give you guys such a good feeling when it can be touched by insertion in your anus? lol

AHHHHGH low rumbling noise. In bored tired voice "This again?"