Best sexual stimulation for a gay male

For gay males, what activity gives the greatest sexual stimulation and satisfaction? Oral sex or anal sex, both as the giver and receiver?

I would think that's highly subjective. In my case, receiving oral sex feels really good, so it's purely physical. Giving anal sex usually feels good physically. Giving oral it obviously completely mental. Receiving anal is a combination of mental and physical.

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For me, I like giving a man a blow job, because the satisfaction of having him ejaculating is my greatest stimulation.

I haven't had anal sex get, so my opinion is definitely not my final answer.

Mutual masturbation and frottage are pretty amazing too, and there's no distinction between giver and receiver.

Sitting down reverse cowgirl on a substantial penis and rocking front to rear until it no longer stays hard and slithers out.

I find that the greatest sexual stimulation and satisfaction is a bare finger going up my bottom. In terms of giving rather than receiving, I think it's exactly the same.

Similar to a poster above, my go-to is mutual masturbation (either jacking ourselves off or lending hands). Not only do I usually find hand stimulation the most pleasurable, I like being able to look my lover in the eye, kiss, and be comfortably affectionate throughout the lovemaking. Of course we dabble in both oral and anal sex — as well as lots of kink and roleplay — but j/o is far and away the most common.

I am open to anything with a man because mostly everything gets me horny and turned on but I will always if they do anything to my butt I will immediately melt in your hands and literally do and let you do anything to me. Other than stuff beyond my limits.

My greatest satisfaction comes from kissing and touching. Anal sex isnt necessary to me.

I love butts but I dont really appreciate mainstream sex (f*ck)

I like to be horny, edging I must say. I dont need an orgasm, I like the arousal phase better.

My greatest stimulation would have to be playing with my pierced nipples. Depending on how hard or soft a person does it, it will drive me wild.

Although there is scientific evidence that the anus is the most erogenous part of the male anatomy it doesn't mean that it is the most satisfying for everyone. Luckily there is no answer to this question. it is strictly a person choice agreed upon by you and your partner.

I totally agree with Bithesea, that we are all unique and react differently to different types of stimulation.

I've said elsewhere on here that for me personally, being naked on all fours, giving someone full access and views of my arse/anus and penis is a very big turn on; like-wise with him getting in the same position giving me full views of his most intimate parts is a big turn on, and brings me emotionally closer to him, because he's allowed me to view what most people never see or touch!

I enjoy giving oral satisfaction to another guy but also enjoy receiving. Woulds also love to reciprocate on anal but have not done so for years.

Our bodies are positioned like in a beginning wrestling position. I am naked on all fours. The guy reaches thru my legs brushing my asshole with his one arm, and his hand massaging my balls. With his other hand reaching around my body to stroke my erect penis to orgasm.

I would say it depends. Your mileage may vary LOL But for me, having my prostate rubbed while being sucked off is the BEST so I always try to do that to whomever I am with. The P-spot, cocksucking orgasm is the biggest and hardest I have ever had... but I will have to say that just being lightly touched all over is sooo good. Your skin is your LARGEST sex organ and slow, feather like sensual touching can drive you crazy... Try it sometime LOL

It’s the setting that makes the difference, not a single thing. I love to suck and rim, but receiving is wonderful as well.