Best sexual stimulation for a gay male

For gay males, what activity gives the greatest sexual stimulation and satisfaction? Oral sex or anal sex, both as the giver and receiver?

I would think that's highly subjective. In my case, receiving oral sex feels really good, so it's purely physical. Giving anal sex usually feels good physically. Giving oral it obviously completely mental. Receiving anal is a combination of mental and physical.

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For me, I like giving a man a blow job, because the satisfaction of having him ejaculating is my greatest stimulation.

I haven't had anal sex get, so my opinion is definitely not my final answer.

Mutual masturbation and frottage are pretty amazing too, and there's no distinction between giver and receiver.

Sitting down reverse cowgirl on a substantial penis and rocking front to rear until it no longer stays hard and slithers out.

I find that the greatest sexual stimulation and satisfaction is a bare finger going up my bottom. In terms of giving rather than receiving, I think it's exactly the same.

Similar to a poster above, my go-to is mutual masturbation (either jacking ourselves off or lending hands). Not only do I usually find hand stimulation the most pleasurable, I like being able to look my lover in the eye, kiss, and be comfortably affectionate throughout the lovemaking. Of course we dabble in both oral and anal sex — as well as lots of kink and roleplay — but j/o is far and away the most common.

I am open to anything with a man because mostly everything gets me horny and turned on but I will always if they do anything to my butt I will immediately melt in your hands and literally do and let you do anything to me. Other than stuff beyond my limits.

My greatest satisfaction comes from kissing and touching. Anal sex isnt necessary to me.

I love butts but I dont really appreciate mainstream sex (f*ck)

I like to be horny, edging I must say. I dont need an orgasm, I like the arousal phase better.

My greatest stimulation would have to be playing with my pierced nipples. Depending on how hard or soft a person does it, it will drive me wild.

Although there is scientific evidence that the anus is the most erogenous part of the male anatomy it doesn't mean that it is the most satisfying for everyone. Luckily there is no answer to this question. it is strictly a person choice agreed upon by you and your partner.

I totally agree with Bithesea, that we are all unique and react differently to different types of stimulation.

I've said elsewhere on here that for me personally, being naked on all fours, giving someone full access and views of my arse/anus and penis is a very big turn on; like-wise with him getting in the same position giving me full views of his most intimate parts is a big turn on, and brings me emotionally closer to him, because he's allowed me to view what most people never see or touch!

I enjoy giving oral satisfaction to another guy but also enjoy receiving. Woulds also love to reciprocate on anal but have not done so for years.

Our bodies are positioned like in a beginning wrestling position. I am naked on all fours. The guy reaches thru my legs brushing my asshole with his one arm, and his hand massaging my balls. With his other hand reaching around my body to stroke my erect penis to orgasm.

I would say it depends. Your mileage may vary LOL But for me, having my prostate rubbed while being sucked off is the BEST so I always try to do that to whomever I am with. The P-spot, cocksucking orgasm is the biggest and hardest I have ever had... but I will have to say that just being lightly touched all over is sooo good. Your skin is your LARGEST sex organ and slow, feather like sensual touching can drive you crazy... Try it sometime LOL

It’s the setting that makes the difference, not a single thing. I love to suck and rim, but receiving is wonderful as well.

I agree 100% with bootyloverryan. My rear end is by far the most erogenous zone that I have. I love the gradual increase in stretching the sphincter as the dick begins to find its mark. Anticipating the full length as in inches deeper is a real turn-on. Another thing though that I really love, and the other person too loves, is when th. cock is in and I try really hard to clench and squeeze down as if he's trying to cut off his Dick. Listening to the partner moan or scream out as I do this is the ultimate reward.

For me, receiving anal sex.

For me there is just something pretty amazing when the chemistry is just right and my job is to get the guy to cum.. I don’t do this often but sometimes I’m just in the mood and I love watching a guys cock get hard in my hand and mouth. I prefer to see him have a nice orgasm and sometimes I’ll get one in return but it’s not very often which is fine with me most of the time

I am a bottom gay bear and love feeling a tall hairy man topping me, but before that happens I have 2 turnons...I love making out and being manhandled and controlled as I am a bit sub...as I am getting kissed if he starts playing with my nipples I will be in such a state of heightened arousal my body just goes into a relaxed state and he knows that, I'll start to suck him but he knows that my ass is his and ready for him.

It's highly personalized matter, since everyone have their own kinks. But for me it's giving blowjob. Exploring partner's penis with my lips and tongue, savor it's smell and taste (speaking about kinks, yeah), watching how partner reacts, watching his mimics in every tiny detail...

I love the progressive feeling of my anus being stretched, and slowly feel him go in and out and then deeper in! My anus is my turnon!

I love it when someone whispers in my ear, breathes on me, or plays with my tongue there. It truly makes me feel what I think is the closest thing I can get to being intimate with another person. Generally, I prefer not to say it and let the other person discover my secret; it's more exciting for me. It's not so easy, and then they get the reward of being able to do whatever they want with me.

I find that deep oral and ball massage is so erotic and to have your mouth filled with the sweet nectar is wonderful.. as fgar as anal i think a few spanks some oil as lube and it feels wonderful.. a true bottom here to serve

When I was in my early twenties I dated a guy twice my age who was so flexible that he could fuck me and suck me off at the same time. I've never known anyone else who could do the same. Now it's getting a blowjob while riding a dildo, nice but not quite as hot as the real thing.

For me oral both giving and receiving and receiving anal. We also play with water sports and other ass play.

For me? Hands down (or in?), receiving anal. Which is not to imply that giving oral is not, butt comparatively, giving oral is almost foreplay. i qualify "almost" because sex for me ideally (vitally?) is the symbiotic blending of need/desire between two guys. I.e., if He loves receiving oral, but is not into anal, i have desire/need in me to pleasure and release a Man both ways that i can easily connect to His need/desire that way. Just because anal is ultimate for me, doesn't make it exclusive for me.

It's a lot more complex though. i don't think there is such a thing as 'just sex,' which i think often translates into an attempt to keep sex as "just" physical. i think it's connected to our intellectual and emotional self as well, though i know a lot try to fragment it, or simply are not aware or integrated. i want and love what i perceive as holistic sex. For me, sex is a vast, infinite topic lol.

Anal for me has the potential to connect to and bond with another in more ways, physically, intellectually and emotionally. "Mind fuck." Though, again, so much is in play here. One of the most profound mind fucks i've experienced was giving oral to a Man Who managed to regress me using 'just' oral between us. Still, in my imagination, had He been equally anally penetrative, it would have been even more profound as i'm wired.