It has been impossible to find a play partner to explore things with

It's getting more and more difficult to find a suitable woman for exploring medical things. Small communities outside here over run by financial content sellers who only keep spreading while genuine Femdoms who seek to explore things are disappearing. I'm frustrated that submissive medfet enjoyers are used by sellers of medfet content purely for gaining money and forcing us into it, not being able to experience the kink itself inside a safe space