Need advices

Hi, some weeks ago I meet a girl who is interested in enemas and anal play like anal toys and fisting but she is shy about that.

So I need some advices to convince her to get her first enema. She doesn't know this site so If she were here, what advice would you give her to get into this world?

Just start with enemas and have her give you some first,

When she sees your sexual arousal she should be more willing, start slowly

I would invite her to join this “community” where she can ease into learning from other women’s experiences with enemas and the fact that her shyness is not unusual.

I also would urge her to make a friend or two with other women on this site who could advise her in private messaging. Being in touch with other women with similar interests, I think would benefit her, and you will be rewarded.

Be a little patient. Oftentimes, women do not want to dive in so quickly to such things like most men do.

@Nameless_Slave try seeing if she would want to try a small fleet sized enema that is just plain warm water. Nothing to aggregate her tummy or too much volume to turn her off. Be kind and gentle while injecting the water slowly. Make sure she has a short walk to the toilet when she feels she has to empty.

Repeat at her discretion, not yours. Maybe rub her back, bottom, gently while injecting and her holding it. To help her stay relaxed through the experience.

Read about what goes on here try what interest you and explore other things in community that arouse you

Suggest she try A butt massage leading to external anal massage easing into an internal finger. Once she’s comfortable with anal play, then suggest she try a a small enema after some massage. I wouldn’t jump right to enemas, let her become comfortable with you playing with her ass. Baby steps!

Hello to everyone, I'm Claudio, italian and I want to say "hi" to everyone

I'm new in this chat but enemas are my fantasy that I'd like make come true 😃

Hello again

not really easy to find a woman who likes to get enemas... I also think that most are shy about that. I hope I can find good friends here. Perhaps anyone from Italy?

I agree with the other posters here.

Start out by casually exploring why she is interested.

Not an interrogation session, just some gentle questions about what she finds interesting about them.

I would then ask if she knows about equipment, bags, nozzles, bulb enemas, how to give them, etc.

Show her a bulb syringe first, and let her hold it. Tell her how it works and how gentle it is.

Don't squirt it forcefully, just gently so you don't startle her.

Is she comfortable seeing you naked or being naked around you?

If so, ask if she would like to try giving you one and you prepare the solution, soap etc.

Take it slow and you may make an enema convert! Good luck.

I'm available to talk some more.

We talked at length some time back.

Well she telling you is a good start.

Videos or pictures can stimulate conversations

Ask her if she has ever looked or held an enema bag, show her yours

Tell her about Zity.biz, let her explore. This site shows those interested in enemas they aren't alone or weird

Tell her you would like to give her an enema

I hope this helps

Let us know

Her shyness is not surprising even if she has shown an interest in anal play involving enemas.

If it were me, I would first ask her, what IF any anal insertion she may have experienced, particularly of a medical nature or necessity. Apparently she has not experienced an enema in a medical circumstance.

NOTE: I would ask as well if she has had or does have any issues that enemas could be dangerous for, such as anal or colon issues.

Go from that point slowly and see her response.

Yeah, @Nameless_Slave, it has been half a year since your original post. Do let us know how things now stand!