Wife at prostate exam

I have a medical fetish. I love being probed and looked at by the doctor. Nothing excites me more than to undress at the doctor and drop my knees to allow entry into my private places.

But part of my medical fetish is also seeing men be physically examined and I love watching men get prostate exams. I’m married but my husband doesn’t like butt stuff. So I won’t be able to ever give him a full examination myself. And honestly if I could even just observe him in that vulnerable position with the doctor, it would be enough.

I go to all his appointments with him because he can’t remember things well. Eventually he’s going to need a prostate exam and I will probably be there. Has anyone ever accompanied their husband to more intimate exams? Does it turn you on? Does it turn him on?

The question was for women, but I will write what it is like from a man's point of view. I have never had a prostate exam in front of another person. However, if I were examined in the presence of my woman, it would be both embarrassing and... exciting for me.

I once read online the memories of a man who visited a uologist with his wife. He neglected his health and did not go to the doctor. He once lied to his wife that he had been to the doctor. His wife forced him to see a urologist. She accompanied him to the waiting room and went with him to the doctor's office.

He was examined by a female urologist in the presence of his wife. The man protested, but the doctor said that his wife had seen him naked more than once, and both ladies smiled. The worst thing for him was the prostate exam. He felt humiliated, but still had an erect penis during the examination. When they returned home, they had sex. Both he and his wife were extremely excited. His wife probably found the sight of her husband examining his rectum arousing.

I love watching my husband get a prostate exam. It is such a turn on for me. In fact, he is having one this Wednesday. The anticipation is killing me!

@Cndylckr

Your husband has no idea the absolute incredible pleasure and orgasmic delight that he is missing out on by not allowing you to massage and milk his prostate.

My wife and I both go to eachothers exams. It's an incredible turn on. My wife and I both have female doctors, mine is young. Maybe mid 30s max. When I get my prostate exam I get rock hard and you can see my wife squirming in her chair. I never liked butt stuff but after having my wife at my exams I became open to it and occasionally we play at home as long as it's as thin as her finger. Lol so you never know!!

I guess the appropriate response here is " to each their own".My wife and I have been very open with each other over the years, slowing down now, to enemas and spankings. But, medical stuff with us is private.

My wife and I both go to eachothers exams. It's an incredible turn on. My wife and I both have female doctors, mine is young. Maybe mid 30s max. When I get my prostate exam I get rock hard and you can see my wife squirming in her chair. I never liked butt stuff but after having my wife at my exams I became open to it and occasionally we play at home as long as it's as thin as her finger. Lol so you never know!!

This is the exact experience I’m hoping for.

@Cndylckr

Your husband has no idea the absolute incredible pleasure and orgasmic delight that he is missing out on by not allowing you to massage and milk his prostate.

I wish he would let me show him. Maybe one day he’ll loosen up lol.

I love prostate exams and pretty much all other butt stuff too. It's wonderful you find it exciting too. My wife is a nurse and very adept at giving me unscheduled prostate digital exams, and she goes to all my appointments too. I was seeing my urology team so often earlier this year we are on a first name basis with the receptionists, nurses AND doctors, and we got a whole bunch of my med fet boxes ticked in the process. Great stuff!

My experience was with a younger gf. I had to have a Dre before settling up my first colonoscopy. The pa took me back she followed into an exam room. Right from the start it was lower your pants and basically mount the table I had to bend over. My gf and another woman who’s about to stick her finger up my butt I got erect. She was initially embarrassed as was why and the car ride home was awkward but it lead to her letting me go to the gyno with her.

My wife and I go to each others exams and have since we’ve been married so she has seen annual prostate exams so far all done my male doctors. My wife did enjoy it when my pants are dropped and I bend over the table for the exam. (Perhaps she will like it again once the new female pa does the next exam) When we did have sex, (we haven’t had it for years) she would have me talk about that when she was near an orgasm. I had radiation for prostate cancer and now I’m treated to two exams a year. While I thought that once the prostate was radiated down to nothing I’d never need another exam. Wrong! The oncologist recommends two a year plus the PSA blood test. The exam could pick up any potential changes within the area of the radiated prostate before the blood test. In November I have my annual physical which will now be with a new provider who is a 30’s something female PA who will have the chore of doing the prostate exam. I’m fortunate in that I am still able to get erections and I fully expect one when she’s doing the exam. I could actually enjoy this one!!

I'm not married but one of my most fav erotic written exam stories (I found on the internet several years back) is about a husband who's good friend is a real doctor and the two of them arrange for the man's very shy & bashful wife to undergo a fully-nude physical with the smirking, grinning husband sitting there watching & enjoying her embarrassment.

Especially fun is when the doc thoroughly probes her anus in front of the husband.

So I completely understand the intrigue of a situation where this scenario is reversed, & it's the husband being probed up his butthole and the grinning wife is quietly, innocently watching it all, enjoying seeing her husband deal with the felt humiliation.

My wife and I go to each others exams and have since we’ve been married so she has seen annual prostate exams so far all done my male doctors. My wife did enjoy it when my pants are dropped and I bend over the table for the exam. (Perhaps she will like it again once the new female pa does the next exam) When we did have sex, (we haven’t had it for years) she would have me talk about that when she was near an orgasm. I had radiation for prostate cancer and now I’m treated to two exams a year. While I thought that once the prostate was radiated down to nothing I’d never need another exam. Wrong! The oncologist recommends two a year plus the PSA blood test. The exam could pick up any potential changes within the area of the radiated prostate before the blood test. In November I have my annual physical which will now be with a new provider who is a 30’s something female PA who will have the chore of doing the prostate exam. I’m fortunate in that I am still able to get erections and I fully expect one when she’s doing the exam. I could actually enjoy this one!!

If i can’t be in there, if he would even just talk about it i could just use my imagination. But he probably will cheat me out of a proper description and make light of it. Haha.

I go to most of his appointments anyway. He’s always welcome to mine. But he gets jealous and starts asking if things the doctor does are necessary. But he knows I will enjoy it and I think he will kick me out. Although I’ve begged him to let me stay. He knows i have this fascination but doesn’t understand why. Not sure I do either.

Anyhow, I really appreciate the feedback, stories, and advice I’m getting. Y’all are great!!