Doms, what kinds of things do you like to hear when you're punishing your submissives?

Also: Subs, what phrases do you like for your dom to say while you're getting punished?

Let's see...when I'm spanking a sub I like to hear:

1. The initial embarrassed *gasp* or "oh!" when I tell them the spanking will be bare bottom.

2. The sub moaning and groaning from embarrassment when their pants and underwear come down and their bare butt and privates are on display.

3. Any "mmmm"s or "AAAHH"s during the spanking's impact

4. Anytime the sub says "Yes, miss" to me in response to any of the ^above^

That about covers it he he (◠‿◠✿)

I love hearing the sound of my hand against the sub’s ass and the subsequent moan that leaves their mouth after.

I also enjoy when my sub gets too vocal and requires my hand or some underwear to be shoved in their mouth in order to stifle their moans. I love hearing their slobbering and stifled noises they make after this happens as well.

Lastly, it’s so satisfying to hear an obedient sub call me sir and accept their punishment with adoration and contentment.

I wouldn’t describe myself as a domme, but when I role play with my husband (we like to play Mummy and daughter, with him as my little girl) I like to make him answer questions like:

Q: “What happens to naughty girls, Becky?”

A: “They get their bottom spanked, Mummy”

Q: “What happens to little girls who wet their knickers, Becky?”

A: “They get put back into nappies, Mummy”

Q: “what happens to little girls who use bad words, Becky?”

A: “They get their mouth washed out with soap, Mummy”

"You look pretty in that dress, now bend over my lap. This is going to hurt."

"I know it hurts, baby, but you're doing so well taking your punishment."

"Ssshhh, just let me do what I need to do."

"A few more, honey, you have to learn your lesson."

"I can give you a small break to catch your breath, but we are not finished yet."

When I'm a receiver, I like hearing:

"Stop whining and take it as a good girl, I know you can."

"Good girl. Just look at you! Taking everything I give you."

"I'm afraid I won't stop, you have just breathe through it."

But also I expect the main action followed by soothing aftercare.

I’m a text book girly girl!!!

Daddy preys on that knowledge.

He’s a non stop talker, and I’m a non stop whimper, cryer, complainer, and ultimately screamer.

“Come here baby girl, daddy wants to inspect your cunt.” That means I need to bend over his knees. I’m going to receive a spanking.

“Babygirl, why aren’t you wearing your little girl white cotton panties for daddy? You know you’re a little girl and too young to wear a thong. How many times have I told you not to wear sexy thongs? Now go to your room and change into your cotton panties. While you’re in there, bring your little butt plug. You’re in trouble tonight. I want you to crawl back in here with your head down and tell me you’re sorry.”

I go to the bedroom and change out of my sexy thong and put on my little girl white panties. The whole process makes me dripping wet. I get my favorite big dildo out of the drawer. I put the end of it in my mouth and start crawling back to daddy.

“Baby girl, what took you so long? I’m not in the mood for your nonsense tonight. I’ve had it up to here. Now turn around.” He spanks me hard with his hand over the panties. “What is wrong with you? I’ve told you over and over, you’re to do what I tell you. I know what’s best for you. I’m tired of this.” Daddy is angry tonight. I’m fucking dripping. I’m hanging my head in shame, and I say I’m sorry. “I’m sorry daddy, I forgot I had big girl panties on. It won’t happen again.”

“Pull down your panties.” I comply. Jesus, baby girl, your cunt is sopping.” He can see the wetness on my panties. “Since you think this is suppose to be fun and feel good, I’m going to change that.” Daddy spreads my checks wide. He spits on my butt hole and starts rubbing my hole around the out side.

“Baby girl, I’m glad you brought the big butt plug. I’m holding your checks wide for you, and because you’ve been a really bad girl tonight, you’re going to insert the butt plug without lube. So you’d better use as much spit as you can, because you’re not getting up till it’s completely in your little girl ass.”

He’s fucking torturing me. He knows inserting the plug without much lube is going to make me cum, and I’m not allowed to cum without daddy's permission.

“Daddy, if I do that you know I’ll cum. May I cum?! No baby girl, you may not. If you do, you’re going to receive a hard spanking and corner time.” “But daddy……” wack, wack, wack. I’m whimpering, crying, arching my back. It hurts so good.

“Stick the butt plug up your ass now!!! I don’t want to hear another word.” He spreads my checks. Knowing he can see my butt hole, so turns me on. Knowing he’s watching me sends me into ecstasy, heaven. I’m whimpering, crying, moaning. I’m out of control. I start to insert the dildo in my ass. “Daddy,” I cry, I can’t stop myself. I’m going to cum.” I insert it deeper. Damn, it hurts so good. I stop because I feel an orgasm building. I can’t cum. I won’t give daddy the satisfaction. He knows I can’t help myself. I won’t let him win.

“I want that butt plug all the way in. Stop taking so long.” I’m so fucked. I’m trying with every ounce not to cum. Daddy knows I will.

“Put it all the way in NOW babygirl. Now!!! Do you hear me.” I’m breathing really hard. In pure ecstasy. With one final push, which causes pain, I start to convulse. I’m having one intense orgasm.

Daddy is spanking me while I’m orgasming. I’m on another planet. I’m screaming, crying and screaming, daddy, daddy, daddy.

When I’m in a puddle with my ass still in the air and in daddy’s face, he grabs me by the hand, and throws me over his knee.

“I told you, you weren’t allowed to cum. You didn’t ask permission. You’ve tried my patience all day, baby girl.” He’s spanking me. Harder and harder and harder. With each slap he’s telling me how much this is, because he loves me, and he’s spanking me because it will make me a better baby girl.

He yanks me off his knee, grabs me by the wrist, and pulls me running after him into the bedroom. He throws me on the bed. I’m on the bed. He grabs the paddle, lifts my legs and starts paddling my ass. I’m crying and begging him to stop. It really hurts.

After about 30 swats he stops. He grabs my body and positions me, so my head is off the bed. His cock is rock hard. “Baby girl open your mouth and suck daddy’s cock. I want to feel my cock all the way to the back of your throat.” I can deep throat daddy in this position. He sticks his cock in my mouth. It slides down my throat. “Oh baby girl, suck daddy’s cock like a good little girl.” Daddy is moaning and breathing hard. I can feel his balls getting hard. He’s fucking my mouth harder and harder. “Oh, baby girl. Daddy is going to explode in your mouth. I want you to lick it all up. Be a good little girl, and suck daddy dry.”

He cums, I lick it all up, what didn’t go down my throat.

“Now go stand in the corner, with your hands behind your back. That night I had to stand in the corner for an hour. Every once in a while daddy, would walk by and swat my ass. I’m whimpering.

“Cum here baby girl.” I walk to daddy. My head down in shame. “You made daddy angry tonight. You need to do what daddy tells you. Daddy loves you.” Because my head is down, and I’m not looking at daddy, I hear the vibrator turn on. “Now turn around baby girl, bend over and spread your legs. Daddy is going to make his baby girl feel good. Baby girl may cum for daddy.” I turn around, spread my legs, and daddy starts fucking my ass with the big dildo which is still in my ass. He puts the vibrator on my cunt. In about 45 seconds I’m having a screaming orgasm.

I love daddy.

@Assme 's daddy is doing the right thing for such a naughty girl!

@assme OMG you are awesome!!!!I saw it all play out in my mind.

"1. Thank you Sir. Please spank me harder"

"2. Thank you Sir. Please spank me harder"

I like silence, or moaning/screaming. The thanking I find annoying, personally. Silence is magical, and so hard for subs to manage.

@Captain_Caregiver - Gag em' - Doesn't quite guarantee silence but reduces any noise & pleading to a very low level. Something latex & inflatable, maybe a stubby penis shape works well 😃

Cries, whimpers, and even screams. All are intensely erotic and, so long as your playroom is well insulated or soundproofed, the ultimate in sexual gratification can be experienced. Especially when punishing the inner pink recesses of her pussy, clit, perineum, and tender asshole. 😈

I like it when he tells me:

"Good girl."

"You're doing very well."

"Very good, you're back to my girl."

"Good girls take their punishments without complaining."

In general, I like it when he gives me clear instructions and talks to me while I'm being punished.

I cry very easily. In those moments, he says things like "breathe," "calm down," "we're almost done." Those phrases usually bring me back from crying.