Have you ever had contact or a relationship with a bedwetter?

I've never had any problems with my bladder control and have no idea what it's like to be a bedwetter.

Many years ago I was dating a woman for a few months who was about 22 at the time. When we spent the night together at her place, I immediately noticed that she had a film under the sheet. When asked about it, she said that the foil was there because her cat often peed in the bed. I found this explanation plausible at the time and didn't ask any further questions.

A few weeks later I suggested giving her an enema. She agreed and had a lot of fun and we had first-class sex afterwards. However, she insisted on going home afterwards because she didn't want to sleep at my place. The next time I met her she told me that she wet the bed that night. She confessed to me that the foil wasn't because of the cat, but because she was a bedwetter. It hadn't happened for a long time but that night she wetted.

I felt guilty about it and believed that it was me and the enema's fault. That's why I ended the relationship and didn't see her again. Today I think that was a big mistake. I think we could have had a lot of fun together if I had been more open to my like for enemas back then and if she had told me straight away about her problems with bedwetting. I would have loved to put her into a diaper before we went to bed together.

This why I think it's important from the very start of any relationship to be upfront on any possible issues.

I wear diapers 24/7 because of a spinal cord injury causing urinary incontinence. I would be upfront about this at the very start.

If the person couldn't understand or deal with it, then there's no wasted time. It's just the right thing to do in my opinion.