Stretching the second ring! How to do it!

So I love anal play and enemas and I know I love the feeling when I go deeper in but I was wondering how to work on stretching and working my way past the (second ring) what I have heard it referred to as.

I can tell you how I went deeper with a dildo, found the second ring and went past it. By the way, when you go through it, the feeling is great! My dildo was 15/8 inches in diameter, and 7 inches insertable, into my ass. Using plenty of lube, I slowly, but steadily applied more pressure, my dildo stretched my ass hole, and it went in about 2-3 inches. I stopped for several minutes, until my ass felt comfortable. Then moving the dildo slowly, and applying pressure, I pushed into the second ring. Maintaining the pressure I had applied, stopped moving the dildo, and waited. Shortly there after, the second ring relaxed, and I moved the dildo through it, until I had a total insertion of 5 inches. Then I stopped, and let my rectum get used to the feeling. When my ass felt comfortable, I moved the dildo until it was fully inserted into my ass, and stopped for 5+ minutes.After that, I started moving the dildo, and fucking my ass. The rest is your own preference for sensations. It takes about a month for your ass to become used to a dildo in it, but it will love a cock!!

I can tell you how I went deeper with a dildo, found the second ring and went past it. By the way, when you go through it, the feeling is great! My dildo was 15/8 inches in diameter, and 7 inches insertable, into my ass. Using plenty of lube, I slowly, but steadily applied more pressure, my dildo stretched my ass hole, and it went in about 2-3 inches. I stopped for several minutes, until my ass felt comfortable. Then moving the dildo slowly, and applying pressure, I pushed into the second ring. Maintaining the pressure I had applied, stopped moving the dildo, and waited. Shortly there after, the second ring relaxed, and I moved the dildo through it, until I had a total insertion of 5 inches. Then I stopped, and let my rectum get used to the feeling. When my ass felt comfortable, I moved the dildo until it was fully inserted into my ass, and stopped for 5+ minutes.After that, I started moving the dildo, and fucking my ass. The rest is your own preference for sensations. It takes about a month for your ass to become used to a dildo in it, but it will love a cock!!

thank you so much for the input and recommendations i will definitely be trying this.