How do you feel about your partner's sexual history?

How do you feel about the sexual past of your partner or spouse? Is a secret or an open book? Does it cause jealousy, disgust, no reaction, or even turn you on? Is there a specific event that affects you most?

My partner’s number is higher than mine with more in his youth than I had in mine.

I like that he was a little bit of a slut. I like hearing some of the things he did. I get a vicarious thrill out of them. I met one of his former partners once and I gotta say, my claws were out lol. No, I was nice, but I made damned sure I pissed on his leg to show ownership (that’s a metaphor BTW).

Never something that's bothered me! Everybody has a past, and as long as they're clean and you're open about it, I don't see a difference.

Never bothered me as long as she was since tested and clear. I was a total male slut in the past and certainly wouldn't be the one to cast aspersions on any new partner's history. I would prefer that she was experienced and knew what she wanted sexually, rather than someone who is inexperienced and unsure of what they would like to try. I'm getting too old for that. Not to say I won't be patient and coach someone along if necessary.

Well, she can tell me or not tell me, either way it’s history!! And since she’s with me I have to figure she found me more desirable than any historical relics.

Otherwise she’d be with them.

Our prior experiences were not secrets, we openly talked, joked and made comparisons about them. My wife and I met at work while er were both separately married. Her husband worked at the same facility of about 200 employees. When it became public we were leaving our spouses and moving in together, it became awkward. The only reaction I worried about was a confrontation with her husband - or soon to be ex. Fortunately, it didn’t happen, at least not on the job - but it was tense at work for the three of us.

My wife keeps her past largely a secret, though I aren't led to believe it was overly wild. I assume this is partly because she's not a fan hearing of mine. Aside from being somewhat insecure, she's not a fan of the people mine includes. But as has already been pointed out, it's past and I'm with her in the present and have no intentions of changing that. Despite her thoughts on mine, I thoroughly enjoy hearing of hers. I find it quite a turn on thinking of her exposed for others to see and what she did in return.

Never really bothered me, the past is in the past. We discussed our pasts and just kind of let it all out there, no secrets and She obviously thinks more of me than those of the past so i dont worry about it.

We didn't really discuss it at first. But it came out eventually in later discussions. Never was a problem for us.

I find it VERY erotic to hear of my partner's past and current sexual experiences! O love hearing/reading about the details of their encounters, and I usually have a thousand questions to find out even more details.

My wife has had a long, and perhaps in erotic past - including MMF and MFF threesomes - which I would LOVE to hear about in great detail, but she has not been forthcoming in sharing. On the other hand, I have a secret "buddy" who shares lots of details of his sexual past, and he willingly gives me ALL of the delicious details!

I would love to watch & hear my wife (or buddy) having sex with someone else - male or female - and participate as well.