Does anybody else struggle...

Does anybody else struggle with finding a compatible play partner and the people in the vanilla world being "intrigued" about your medfet and wanting you to teach them?

I come across this OFTEN and they don't seem to realize that if you enjoy something you're probably already into and pursuing it. I can't begin to "teach a fetish" and even if I could, how much fun would that be with all the lights on and I'm sitting up showing some guy a speculum for his very first time saying "So this is how this works... it goes in the vagina this way, then you press here to open it... blah, blah, blah" wow what a big turn on. NOT

Anybody else feel my frustration?

I would love to find some to teach how to be a good play doc

You're talking about a situation that's totally the opposite of what FeistyFox has written about, bijenni: she doesn't want to have to teach somebody how to be a good play doctor. She wants someone who already knows the ropes.

This fetish is quite rare compared to other fetish. You really need to learn something first before you can practice safety for the person you are inserting a catheter. If it normal anal examination is fine but inserting something

I absolutely agree that it's important that the "examiner" be confident in both their approach, tone and practice of the examination. It should feel like a "real" examination, even if it is exaggerated a bit for medfet role play. That means using gloves, mask perhaps, scrubs perhaps, know the instruments and how to use them properly.