Releasing Enemas in private or not?

I prefer to do the expelling in private.

I have only had one session of "play" enemas, many years ago - a wonderful memory. After receiving each of the three enemas I really wanted the giver to hold both my hands as I released into the toilet. This would give me a sense of "completion" of the enema., It didn't happen, but it would have been very enjoyable somehow. To this day I do not know why I had that feeling, but it was very strong at the time.

@Tabitha32 No, she was not from Louisiana. She was born in England. She enjoyed watching me pee and expel my enemas, but preferred privacy herself.

Most of my patient love having my belly in front of them when they expel and usually end sucking on me...this is a fairly recent evolution. In a previous life privacy was usually required. With my wife, we had the door open, but the expulsion phase was only something we did as fast as possible, just because we had to... and reconnected then under the shower.... personally I was not interested in the actual expulsion, but sometimes it can be fun, depending on who I'm playing with. the partners reactions are what make things interesting for me.. on the other hand, if they like to watch me when I let go, why not, nothing to hide..... and I really am an exhibitionist...

Hi there!

Warm water for everyone!

That’s a damn good question. There’s no (subjectively) clear-cut answer to it. I don’t like enemas. And I only give them to my husband. We’ve been doing this for years. So here’s my answer.

For us, a great deal of “enema play” depends on trust, which is closely tied to shared experiences and the years we’ve spent together. And there’s another very important individual factor: the nature of the play. I’ll try to elaborate on that last point. So, if it’s a dominatrix-style enema with elements of mild humiliation, coercion (all on a voluntary basis—this is an important aspect) to experience shame or psychological discomfort (as predetermined by the pre-agreed rules of the game), then the presence of a partner (in this case, me, in the role of a dominatrix or a strict female doctor) is absolutely essential for achieving a positive outcome in the role-play.

If the role-play involves something else, for example, a nurse and a patient in the classic (subjective) understanding of a hospital setting, then the partner’s presence is not required.

When we first started exploring the “world of enemas,” I had a huge psychological barrier regarding the presence of someone else at the moment the water leaves the body—and not just that. But over the years, I’ve come to view it as normal and calm. You can get through a lot. And this isn’t the worst thing.

Life is too short—why deny yourself and your partner this pleasure? For what?

I wish everyone warm water.

With respect.

I was actually surprised at the setup at my colon hydrotherapist's practice. The toilet is inside the treatment room next to the table, screened only by paper-thin drywalling. She always gives me a final deep fill which I have to release on the toilet and remains in the room while I noisily blast away on the toilet. She can hear everything - every last spatter, fart and plop. I heard her giggle when I let rip a particularly loud fart some time ago and we both broke down laughing when she followed up with exclaiming "good one!" I think her personality, sense of humor and the way she puts patients at ease with the whole process makes all the difference and removes any feelings of shame.

I enjoy having my abdomen and lower back caressed and massaged while I release and I enjoy doing the same to my partner.

I don't necessarily need to watch the expulsion but I will if they want me to. So not private.

I don't mind at all if someone has given me an enema and is present while I'm expelling it. I don't mind having a regular bowel movement with someone else present either, if I know them well. Although I have been given enemas by other people and have been seen while toileting, I haven't had anyone wipe my butt. I would definitely be okay with that. In fact it's something I have fantasized about but it's one of the very few things I have been too chicken-shit to ask or suggest that someone do.

I wouldn't get any enjoyment at all from wiping anyone's butt. I would help someone that wasn't able to wipe themselves but I wouldn't look forward to it.

I have received enemas several times in the past where the therapist was present during the evacuation, watching what was being expelled from the bowel—and when and how—in order to adjust the subsequent procedure.

In principle, I have absolutely no problem with that; on the other hand, I cannot hold the enema back—it has to come out, whether I am on the toilet alone or in the therapist's presence.

Over the years ive given many enemas only woman asked me to leave while she emptied out, she was already sat on the toilet, i could see she was desperate, but i took my time getting of the chair and carrying the empty bag to the sink and slowly walking to the door , id only half closed it when her ass exploded ! So i might as well have stayed...

@sirwilliam55

That is exactly what I mentioned in my post: if the enema has been administered properly, it does its job and wants to come back out. It makes no difference whether other people are present or if the person receiving the enema is alone on the toilet. If the enema was done right, no one on earth can hold it in.

I LOVE the idea of watching others expel, and expelling in front of them if they are so inclined. The look of relief of their face as all the water and poop loudly gushes out of their bottom is one of my biggest turn ons. Even better if some wet sputtering farts happen along the way!

My fabulous colonic hydrotherapist puts on music when I use the toilet in her ensuite after she has finished with me. She observes and comments on everything she sees coming out of me during the treatment but that final release is done in private. Having said that, she asks that I don't flush the toilet so she can have a quick look at what I have produced.

She is particularly sensitive about this having been for a colonic where the toilet was located beside the treatment couch. The, male, therapist did not see the need to vacate the room when she voided at the end of the treatment.

Having administered an enema to a friend, I suggested I’d like to see him release whatever wanted to come out; he laughed but was happy to oblige. I put a chamber pot in the middle of some plastic sheeting in case of spills, and asked him to squat and release as he wished. I helped him position himself so as to get the least spillage, then knelt down behind him to watch his ring pucker and release his liquids and solids.

I suggested he could do the same with me, but he didn’t suggest it when the time came, so I let it go.

I enjoyed it and would do the same again under the right circumstances.

I’ve done both… one play partner would let me use the restroom in private and if further discipline was needed, she was going to force me to release in the tub… never happened! The other dom made me pull out the inflatable enema plug and release in front of her on the toilet. It was extremely humiliating however, I had an erection the entire time and was t allowed to do anything about it until finished.

@ssgrill77

You didn’t say how you relieved your erection after the “not-so-private” enema release. Hopefully, you planted your erection DEEP into her hiney hole until you were totally relieved. It’s called payback!

@southeastpete

I always love to watch my buddies release their enema loads from their sexy hineys and never have any problems letting them watch me do the same. Friends are friends and should not hide anything from each other.