Releasing Enemas in private or not?

Hello.My apologies if this has been already discussed. I have given and received many enemas over the years ,the vast majority involving women. Like myself, the majority of women I have played with wanted to eliminate in private,& then play later. Several years ago I had a girlfriend who wanted me to give her a fleet enema the evening before some type of lower GI exam.I was surprised because we had only met recently.However ,she didn't have to ask me twice since I had long been an enema devotee. We did the fleet in her bedroom and I was really taken aback when she took asked me to "come visit me while I poop." I did and she asked me to stand in front of her while she released the enema the same time as she began to use her hand to deal with the erection that began when she used the E-word. To add insult to injury LOL she asked If "Daddy" would wipe her bum. Since then I have always asked other enema playmates if they wanted privacy or the complimentary bum wiping. As mentioned, most wanted privacy. I have had 3 or 4 that were very nonchalant about my presence and wanted to play while they were pooping. Many couples think nothing of leaving the bathroom door open while they do their business in front of their partners while other couples prefer not to share that experience with anyone.My questions are for those who do enemas with others -married or otherwise (enema nurse,friend,playdoc etc.) Do you and/or your enema partner eliminate privately or in front of each other? Have you ever wiped one another afterward ? and finally Do you ever play while one of you is letting out the enema?

I’m into enemas but I’m not interested in scat. So, I don’t like anyone watching me release my enema unless it’s subsequent enemas where the content is clear water. In that case I do like to watch a subject release and don’t mind being watched as well.

When I was younger and traveling for work, I went to several enema nurses around the country that advertised on Beth Tyler's web site. There was one that I only saw one time, who after giving me the first enema, ask me if she could sit with me while I expelled. I said yes so she followed me to the bathroom. She sat on the edge of the bathtub while I sat on the toilet and expelled. We talked while I expelled. I was not embarrassed and actually enjoyed her being there. I mean she had already seen me naked, pushed a nozzle up my butt, watched and talked to me while the water filled me, so why not let her sit and talk with me while I expelled. It was a good visit with three enemas and she gave me a hand job at the end. I would have gone back to her but I was not in that area of the country after that.

I wish there was a site like Beth Tyler now that listed enema nurses. I would enjoy another visit with one and some good enemas given by a lovely lady.

If the person giving me the enema or someone with me when i take the enema can put up with the smell i dont mind having someone there to talk to wile i push out all the water and poop.

When I was only a boy I had to be given enemas because I would not go to the bathroom ever. My parents needed to do regular enemas for a few years. I remember it being quite traumatic. I was usually fussing and crying the entire time. When it was time to get me on the toliet I was usually crying harder. My mom was there for me. One as a coach to tell me to let it all out honey. That is a good boy she would say as my bottom exploded on the pot. She wiped tears from my eyes and said I was doing so great. These memories stayed with me...

When Daddy is kind enough to give me an enema, he will usually need to witness the expulsion with me on all fours in my large garden/jacuzzi tub. Then I know I'll need to be thoroughly flushed with the bulb before being sodimized well.

I would be willing to have the giver with me while I expell. My ex always waited in the living room while I released my enemas. I have fantasized about orally pleasuring my enema giver, man or woman, while I sat on the toilet expelling. I think this would be best after a couple of enemas so the return was mostly clear, and after receiving a large 4 quart enema.

When I was a kid my mother always stayed with me while I was expelling my enema, whether I was expelling it into a chamber pot set on a stool beside my bed or expelling it into the toilet. Then she checked how much waste I had expelled and decided whether that was enough or whether I needed a second enema to clean me out completely.

When expelling the first soapy enema myself or receiver would have the giver present preparing the rinse from the sink but would be left to expell solo post rinse.

As a young'un I was always watched whatever I was expelling be that an enema, a suppository or just trying to poop ordinarily. I begged for privacy but never got it. I hated having to go on the pot or toilet full stop (filling my pants or a diaper were my preferred methods) and I would try to hold back and cross my legs to prevent expelling, so either mum or dad would remain with me and hold my legs apart and rub my stomach if I attempted to hold back. The humiliation of having someone in such close proximity, seeing my mess and smelling the stink was almost crushing at the time but is now a huge turn on. I would now happily make someone expel for me and embarrass them in the process - hmmmm.

I would prefer for the giver to hold my hands as I expell the enema she or he had just given me. That completes the cycle of giving and finishing as a "together" kind of thing. I would be pleased to do my own "wiping" with them still there, then on to the next enema.

Since I haven't had one yet I think it would be hot to have the giver in there reassuring me that it's ok and emphasizing their control of the situation. I would probably want to flush before I get up though.

Only self administered enemas means expelling in private😍

Having spent time in the military, pooping in front of others was common so it doesn't really matter to me.

When we were kids, up to and including teenagers, my sister and I often did the whole process together. It would not be unusual for one of us to be on the toilet while the other was filling or refilling their butt with water. When we were little, the resulting gushes, splashes, and farts would be met with lots of giggles and laughs. Later the giggles and laughs would more likely be a comment like, "Good one!" Or maybe, "Oooh, that felt good."

As an adult, playing with my husband, we did expel in private. No particular reason other than we did not usually poop in front of each other. Not part of our game.

I am open-minded to many things. To do it I'm public are no problem for me . Maybe someone would learn something new regarding Enemas. And be a member in this to .

@Foxie

My first Enema was given to me by my Aunt Helena in the OTK position with a Rubber Bulb in front of my cousin Victoria who was waiting for her turn.🍑🍑🍐🍐😋😍❤️

We were both 8 years old and since then I like Enemas with people.

Only 2 doesn't excite me much.

There are many of us at our Enema parties and it is wonderful.👌😋😋😍❤️

I wish they would give me some great Enemas in a square, a beach... and a lot of people watching.👌❤️❤️

My partner, Laura, and I don't make a big deal of releasing enemas. If one of us is releasing and the other is doing something else in the bathroom, so be it, we just do it. The only exception is if there is some concern about the 'quality' of the release, then we do pay attention.

Some things should be done in private.

That depends if I’m in the submissive role and you’re in control leaving me with no say in the matter . Same when I’m in charge

My siblings and I grew up getting enemas laying across our bed or in the bathroom together. With only two bedrooms and one bath, it wasn’t any different when we were expelling an enema. Nudity wasn’t an issue, because we shared a bedroom and saw one another every day. So, using the bathroom with someone else present was a nonissue. Even at grandmas, when she gave us enemas in private, it was the same. She was in the bathroom with us. Then there was our teenage aunts, and like mom, they gave us enemas together in the big downstairs bathroom at evening bath time. Primarily, because the bathroom had a large dual head walk-in shower. Enabling the girls to put us in the shower together, then get in with us, to keep order while they bathed us. So, nudity, getting enemas, or using the bathroom in front of someone else was never an issue, we simply didn’t give it a second thought. It was part of every day life in the nineteen fifties.

Well there are three of us who live here full time and if my sister's girlfriends niece stays that makes four of us. There are two toilets. Yes, we all like enemas. It is no big deal to be letting an enema out and have one of us other girls walk in. My bathroom like I have said has an arch doorway so no door. If you got your enema in my bathroom chances are you are not going to run clear across the house to the other bathroom. Most or I should say all enemas are given in my bathroom due to the size. I also have heat lamps in the ceiling and heated tiles on the floor. You can stretch out on the floor. Actually, four people could stretch out. I had it made this way to be an open plan. Also, I started with sun lamps in the ceiling where you could get somewhat of a tan. But I have had people like my sister, her girlfriend, and the girlfriend's niece sit on my bed and talk while one of us is letting an enema out. It didn't happen overnight but now it is no big deal.

I have no compunction about releasing in private, but when Isa and I first stated playing about 8 years ago, she was petrified by the idea of me being there as she released. She would, however let me view her results. Now, we usually sit on the side of the tub and talk about just about any and everything as the other loosens their bowels into the loo.

I had a friend who liked to watch me expel enemas, but she like to watch me doing nearly anything intimate.

Although I am an enema freak, I don't care for scat. It is just a necessary result of the good part. I don't want to watch or be watched expelling.

I have had enemates who wanted privacy to expel and those who did not. It’s no big deal to me either way.

When I’m receiving, I head for the toilet when I’m ready and my enemate can stay around or excuse herself. Again, no big deal.

Usually, for whatever reason, if there’s three or four of us getting soapy treatments, everyone seems more relaxed about who’s coming or going.

My husband and I greatly prefer private.

I respect your choice.

@Denise said,

My husband and I greatly prefer private.

My wife was like that when I first met her. However, it didn’t take long before she adjusted being around me and my siblings. Growing up, we shared a bedroom seeing one another on a daily basis, consequently we didn’t think twice about nudity. So, being in the bathroom with someone else present wasn’t an issue. The first time she noticed it, she was appalled and said something about it. Once we explained our situation growing up, she somewhat understood. But by the time she and my sister shared an apartment, for the most part, she was over it. Then one Friday evening, when she came in from work. She told my sister, "I feel like I'm coming down with the flu." So, my sister suggested a couple of enemas would help make her feel better. An after some discussion, she agreed, and let my sister give her a soapy followed by a rinse enema. Afterwards, she told my sister, “Those enemas really helped. I feel a lot better now. But the weird thing is, I actually enjoyed them, and that's never happened before.” That per se, broke the ice for her regarding enemas realizing they weren't just for health, but pleasure too. Afterwards, the two girls started giving one another enemas on a monthly basis or whenever needed or wanted. The following year, once we were married, like my siblings and I growing up. We never gave it a second thought, because between foreplay, enemas, and sexual intercourse, what was the point.

I don't prefer to have a person present when I throw up an enema. It's not because I'm shitting, although I feel a little ashamed, but it's the smell and I'm not sure it's pleasant for the partner.