Any females out there that enjoy Chastity?

Any females out there that enjoy Chasity? Never done it but the idea of it excites me. With the right person of course. Must be a kind but dominant male

I know one particular woman that I am going to put in a C belt

Then i will edge her until her toes curl and her eyes rollback

If she behaves I will unlock it when I think she has worn it long enough

I am sure she will beg to have it come off sooner, but she knows I will not be swayed

How long would you think is appropriate?

You are a bad boy specialuse and I enjoy that lol

I love chastity and I think female chastity is very underrated though for me the fantasy is often hotter than the practical execution. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being in chastity a lot but hygiene and comfort becomes an issue, even more so than with male chastity imo.

My favorite thing about chastity is the submission and loss of control. I find a lot of times chastity get represented as a fast track to making a sub mindlessly horny as possible. And while that's fun, what I really like is the slow burn mindfuck of handing over control of your sexuality (or having it taken from you). Not necessarily being unbearably horny but knowing that part of you is out of your hands now. And I looove rituals, ritual unlocking, ritual cleaning, ritual teasing, ritual orgasms, ritual praise for being such a good girl that makes you want to break down and cry due to your utterly helpless position...

@lunamoth2 On this site, I've seen male chastity belts… and in comics I've seen supposed "medieval" female belts that have nothing historical. I'd be interested in knowing more about the real stuff. What do you use?

I like being out in my pink chastity cage for a lady who calls in her sissy boy

@Jacana I don't actively engage in chastity but in the past I have used a cheap metal belt from Amazon, which was fun to play in but not suitable for everyday wear, because it was bulky and visible under clothes, and also quite uncomfortable. If I really wanted I could have dropped $1000 on a high quality Fancy Steel belt, but not only am I not a billionaire it also seemed to me that any high-waisted metal belt was going to have most of the same issues. For everyday purposes my keyholder often had me wear an athletic groin guard which was more low profile and covered the relevant parts, but obviously I could just take it off so it was more about having a physical reminder that those parts of my body belonged to someone else. I also had a little plastic cover of some sort that I could wear between my labia that would shield my clit from accidental rubbing. Again, not secure. But wearing them felt good.

And as for hygiene... it's really impossible to get clean in one of those things and good luck if you have to pee. Kind of the same problems as with male chastity but worse because the belt covers a lot more and women produce a lot more secretions than men. I know there *are* women who wear chastity belts long term and have their workarounds but it's really not for me. Reality is never as hot as the fantasy I guess.

Oh and since I'm in a sharing mood here's the story of my longest period of chastity. I had a friend who was very into chastity, and I had experimented with short term orgasm denial and was curious about something more serious. One day we happened to be talking about it and I asked if he would like to be my keyholder and we ended up in a dynamic for about 6 months. I was never fully locked up (see previous comments) and got to orgasm about once a week, though I did eventually get denied for a little over a month, so sorry to anyone hoping for a more "hardcore" story haha.

Equipment: As I mentioned above I wore a groin protector most of the time which covered my clit and pelvic area, which is an erogenous zone for me. Originally I wore nothing but we found my hands wandered far too much, while having the groin protector on just felt different on a visceral level. Technically I could remove it (and I did remove it to shower) but wearing it felt right and made me much more obedient. It was pretty easy to hide under most clothes, but if I couldn't wear it I had a little plastic shield I could tuck between my labia to prevent any accidental rubbing on my clit, which made me feel very snug and secure. Later on my keyholder also started ordering me to wear silicone nipple pasties 24/7 and from then on the only pleasurable stimulation I could get was from the constant throbbing in my clit which could be very intense at times.

Routines: We would meet up once a week and he would generally bring me to orgasm during these sessions, provided I had been good during the week and kept my hands to myself. I loved the ritual of being "unlocked" and cleaned. Although I did remove the shield to shower, I was expected not to directly touch anything underneath and just kind of let water run over the area until I was satisfied that it was clean. When my keyholder visited I would undress and stand in the shower with my hands on the wall while he removed my shield and soaped me up between my legs, methodically running his fingers in between my labial folds and retracting my clitoral hood to clean my clit. He liked to push a finger into my vaginal canal to "make sure I was clean" and then dry me with a towel, all while I was still standing with my hands on the wall. Then he'd bring me to the lounge or bedroom and do whatever horrible thing he'd planned, and hopefully I'd be allowed to orgasm at the end. My favorite was being laid across his lap while he alternated between spanking and fingering me. I never cared much for spanking before but that felt amazing, and being wiped down and re-locked afterward felt amazing too. Unfortunately if I had been bad or he was in a devious mood he would just edge me, let me cool down and put the shield back on and I knew it would be another week before I had another chance to orgasm.

Submission: Obviously I have a submissive streak but believe it or not my natural inclination is mostly dom leaning. However, being in chastity made me INTENSELY submissive like nothing else ever has. I'm not a particularly good sub most of the time, I usually feel like I'm just larping. In chastity I loved feeling controlled, I loved being called a good girl, I wanted nothing more than to please. Really strange experience for me but not at all unwelcome.

That time I didn't cum for a month: Toward the end of our time together my keyholder expressed interest in denying me for a longer period. Each week he would still tease me but really dialed back the intensity, e.g. instead of the rougher bdsm stuff/edging we would normally do, one week he spread me open and lightly stroked my clit with a lubed up q tip for half an hour, another week he used a suction pump on my clit and nipples on the lowest setting, another week he oiled me up and used rubber exfoliators on my whole body. I don't know why but it sent me absolutely wild. Physically it wasn't particularly arousing, mentally it made me feel so so helpless and submissive. A couple of times I nearly cried because I truly felt like I was just someone else's plaything. During the week I didn't feel acutely horny so much as utterly controlled, though my clit did still throb constantly and my groin shield and nipple pasties were constant physical reminders of my denial. This went on for about 6 weeks and I consider it my "true" chastity experience because I was in such a different place mentally.

Unfortunately around this time there were changes in other areas of my personal life that meant I could no longer fully focus on our rituals and dynamic. My keyholder also got a job opportunity that entailed a lot of long hours and time spent out of town so we decided to call it off. During our last session together I had my first orgasm in 6 weeks and predictably, it was one of the strongest I've ever experienced, but what caught me off guard was how *long* it went on for. It felt like I came for a solid minute and he continued to stimulate me mercilessly for another minute afterward, which left me suitably shattered. These days I'm the dominant partner to a very submissive slut. My old keyholder and I are still in touch and technically the door is open to resuming some of our old dynamic but realistically I don't think either of us have the bandwidth or headspace required for that, nor will we, so this is just a happy memory and a very special experience.

I always found the idea really exciting, but the options out there for us ladies are too cumbersome and too expensive.

About the only time I’m really sexually interested in the idea of a man though is when he’s locked in chastity. Most of the cages look cute, and I appreciate the humiliation is often part of the fetish for them. Total sissification isn’t necessary but I like the idea of making them wear panties or a dress, forcibly painting their nails and just laughing at them or taunting them. Maybe forcing them to worship my feet. Mmm.

I agree with @PutMeInTheCorner. Chastity for women is nowhere near as readily accessible and fun as it is for men. But I specifically agree with the fascination with seeing men wearing a chastity cage.

My current partner isn’t into wearing any chastity, but I have helped male friends and ex partners stay locked up in the past. One of my uni friends found it particularly exciting having a mostly submissive woman as his key holder. Unlike most key holders he had met or spoken with online, me being horny for dick didn’t have any impact on him being unlocked.

I have an interest in it but the conventional options aren’t very accessible as seems to be the consensus here. Belts are expensive and must be removed frequently for sanitary reasons. At home one might be able to use the toilet through the belts with access to a bidet, or if one was committed to shower (with a removable showerhead to get water up in there for an extended time to rinse any residue out) after every bowel movement and urination. And one would still have to take it off and clean it daily, as water passing through from the outside can only do so much.

If one is doing this on the weekends or as a full-time slave, sure, but seems impractical to me.

Now piercing chastity is an option I could almost go for. You would simply get a number of outer labors piercings, and then when they’re healed, start either using one ring through every side-by-side pair of piercings, or perhaps more likely join the rings together with either more rings or perhaps small padlocks. Combine with a clit shield to prevent masturbation and I think this could keep me hot and bothered for days. Still would require special care when peeing to avoid urine going down between the labia and becoming trapped.

But that’s rather drastic and the piercings alone are probably a turn-off to a sizable number of sexual partners. So I hesitate.