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Many of us on this site share a common start in enema involvement in that we were given an enema at a younger age by our mothers. For me this was about age 5 when after many days of constipation my mother got out of her sick bed and without any explanation that I recall, removed my panties, bent me over a clothes basket in the bathroom and with a higginson syringe administered sufficient liquid to my bottom to well and truly cure my problem.

This was a total shock to me at the time but a further event some years later, cemented the relationship when my Mother used her syringe to noisily empty her bowels in circumstances that I was completely aware of which led to an ongoing relationship with the enema process that has continued on ever since and a red higginson syringe still resides in a toilet bag in my panties drawer and is still pressed into service as required.

I can not think of many personal health products in that area as reliable and predictable as an enema. From the moment you remove it from the drawer you know what is going to happen. Your bowels are going to be emptied. Not the next morning perhaps but then and there and completely related to the amount you decided needed to be injected.

Over the years since my mothers action which by the way was the only time I received an enema from her, my interest has continued in this method of bowel control and in spite of many experiments with other devices that injected into my bowels ( I was a pretty constipated kid), I have always returned to an Higginson enema syringe for reliable relief.

By my teen years I was regularly self administrating with my own purchased syringe (you could buy Higginsons in the local chemist shops) and although dating at that time an enema was not a subject that I ever discussed with others.

In later years as maturity set in, and I had made decisions on my sexuality the sexual nature of my favorite constipation cure became obvious as I was flatting with another girl who discussed her sluggish bowels one evening and without getting into the details I ended up using my syringe on her with excellent results. This was the first time I had ever given an enema to someone else and I realised that I enjoyed not only the preparation and actual injection but especially the very satisfactory results achieved. Once we had had a discussion on how "rotten" she felt I really wanted to help her feel better and it was only a small deviation from our existing sexual relationship to giving her an enema for her constipation relief ( I enjoyed helping her and I know that she enjoyed the relief) and this altered my perceptions of my association with enemas and their use forever. I think I was 19 at the time.

So here's my question for discussion.

Have you given an enema to someone besides yourself and what was the outcome and circumstances?

How old were you when it first happened? What effect did it have on you?

Food for thought?

Lynda

chef

Unfortunately I have never given an enema to anyone except myself. I have been given enemas by ex, but could never talk her into letting me give one to her. I think it would be wonderful to have someone give themselves to me in this manner. I would especially like to take turns receiving and giving to each other.

draino14

The 1st time was just 4 years ago to a woman I met on line who was looking to sub to someone. Her main kink was being spanked but was very anally oriented. Keep in mind that for 25 years I had been a sub always on the receiving end of the hairbrush and enema nozzle. I thrive on the shame and humiliation of being spanked and subjected to enemas by a member of the opposite sex. This was my 1st run as a top and I loved the idea of turning the tables and wielding the hairbrush and enema bag.

In our second meeting as she laid bare over my knee, I brushed her anus with my finger and she winced. I decided to give her poor bright red bottom a break and play with her anus. She was mortified but loved it. She confided in me that she always wanted some anal attention but her ex husband wanted nothing to do with it. She was embarrassed and excited all at once. After probing her rectum quite extensively I announced at our next meeting she would be getting an enema. Her faced went ghost white and she protested. In texts the week leading up to our next meeting she begged not to be subjected to such an embarrassing procedure.

I arrived at the hotel with a gym bag carrying a 4qt bag, large pear shaped nozzle, 32” colon tube and an inflatable nozzle. I truly loved the feeling of power and control. I had all the equipment laid out in plain sight for her to see as I blistered her poor bottom. I kept teasing her about her impending treatment. Once her rear was a bright red color I marched her into the bathroom and made her watch as I prepared her 1st enema. After adding the Castile soap I ordered her on all fours at the bottom of the bed. She took all 3 enemas like a champ and we had many more meetings that always included a clean out for that naughty girl

Vasbyt

The first person I gave an enema to was my wife (JillyBot on Zity) about ten years ago. Over a few weeks, I gave my wife about a dozen enemas and I loved giving her every single one of them. She always started on her left side. Having learned on Zity, I inserted my lubricated finger to get her anus to relax. With her bottom hole loosened up, I inserted the nozzle and began the flow to fill her rectum and lower intestine. After she took a quart, I stopped the flow so she could turn onto her back with her knees up in order to fill the upper intestine with a second quart. I loved the process and this view in particular.

Al200

Unfortunately, I only had one occasion when I gave my wife an enema. It was during pregnancy. It all happened after stomach problems. The doctor came, examined my wife, and said all sorts of stupid things. But there was one thing - I had to give her an enema.

The doctor left, my wife didn't feel any better, so we went to the enema. It was in the bathroom, I was very interested and I was very excited.

There was another small one, which is difficult to call a real enema. I bought a manual enema pump then, which allows you to pump water from any container. So I tried this thing on my wife when we were playing. She quickly realized what was happening and ran to the toilet. According to her, orgasm overtook her on the toilet. But it became taboo for her, so I didn't do it anymore.

Cheryl77177

The first enema that I gave to anyone was my sister. We were six and eight at the time. We loved taking bubble baths together and would play around in the tub until our skin was all wrinkled and the water was cold. The enema bulb was kept under the sink, near the bottle of bubble soap. We sometimes took the bulb into the tub with us to use as a squirt gun, to squirt water at each other. I remember mom telling us to “ put that thing away, it’s not a toy “ of course we knew what it was for since we both had been on the receiving end of it several times.

So, one time my sister was on hands and knees, butt towards me, probably threatening to fart in my face when I squirted water directly on her little butt hole. She didn’t move away so I touched the tip of the bulb to her butt hole. She still didn’t move so I slipped the nozzle into her and squeezed. She still didn’t move so I refilled the bulb, slipped it in again, and squeezed. After second bulb that I gave her, she turned around, grabbed the bulb from my hand, and said now she was going to do it to me. At first I said no, but then she said she would tell mom what I did, so I turned around and let her give me two squirts with the bulb. Then it was a mad dash to the toilet. A few minutes later when mom came to tell us to get out of the tub, she scolded us for all of the water on the floor, saying we should use the toilet before we get into the tub so we don’t get water all over the floor. I don’t think she knew why we had to go to the toilet in such a hurry. We did that several times until when we got older and sprouted boobs and hair and started talking showers in private rather than baths together.

Red bag user

I’m a mature male who has had an interest in enemas and anal play since childhood. I gave myself enemas and masturbated afterwards (fairly routine for users on this site it seems). I married at 27 and told my wife about my interest and she took it in stride since she had some kinks of her own. When I asked her to administer to me she agreed to do it but in the process she made it clear that she thought it was rather disgusting. So over a period of almost 20 years I received only 5 or 6 treatments from her but continued to take care of myself on a limited basis. Only once did she allow me to give her one and complained and whined so much that she only took one small bulb. We divorced and I soon after met my second wife on-line in a chat room about, you guessed it, enemas. The rest is a watery history.

Vicki V

Apropos to this subject, two weeks ago my husband had surgery to repair a hernia. I was giving him a mild laxative afterwards so he didn’t have to struggle in the bathroom, but yesterday afternoon he admitted that he was still uncomfortable.

So I got him to lie down on our bed and I gave him a couple of bulb enemas that he was able to retain for a few minutes, which made all the difference in the world.

We were joking about the first enema that I ever gave him after we got married, and how nervous I was, and now we had a big argument beforehand, and then later that day we had an amazing lovemaking session that lasted for hours.

We were both pretty inhibited when we got married, but after I was in that accident two months later, and my husband would give me enemas because I was constantly tied up from the pain meds, I think those sessions with a tube up my behind brought us closer together.

If there was ever an interesting way for a couple to get to know each other better, buy a good quality syringe and learn to give each other enemas!

Allinic22

My first time administering an enema was to my female partner at the time. She was really shy but loved to get kinky at the right time! I floated the idea to her a few months prior, we watched videos together and said she’d do it when the moment was right. Well, I came home from work to find her in the bedroom with a fleet bottle on her nightstand ! She was so nervous but wanted to try it out. I promised to only do as much as she could take. I got her into the knee-chest position and yanked her bottoms and underwear off.

I snapped on a pair of white exam gloves and did some anal stimulation, a rectal exam and some clitoral attention as well. Ironically enough I realized she could use an enema feeling how back up she was! I slowly inserted the lubricated tip and waited for verbal confirmation. She counted down and I gave that bottle a big squeeze! She could definitely feel the rush of water enter her because she let out a big squeak and moan!

She almost immediately after her initial shock of the water she relaxed and laid her chest on the bed only poking her butt highest in the air! She surprisingly took the whole bottle, I was so proud of her! I had her lay on her side while retaining the water to do a quick rectal exam. Her rectum was drowning in water! I could feel a mix of water and waste just floating around! That must’ve made her need to use the bathroom worse because she told me she needed to go now!

It was an overall amazing experience and the first of many of times I’ve administered an enema on someone!