Can we co-exitst with normal people, my normal gf?

Hey I'm new, I'm not the talking type but i don't know where else to go. and i would think that this is some thing that a lot of ppl here struggle with. ok a little backround we been together for 1.5 years and she has known im a dl for almost the whole time. Its confusing (women are) but half the time she says she is cool with it and the other half she is fet up with it or grossed out by it, she swearers its no big deal but i know she is totally turned off by it (and it affects our life between the sheets). and sure i can understand why but i cant help it I CANT, its a part of me and i try not to but i keep sorta pushing it and my fantasy's on her cause part of me cant help it and another part of me keeps thinking maybe she will get use to it. i guess the reason i think this is a lot of the time she spends teasing me with my fantasy's and like i said she tells me she is cool with it.

ok so this is where i go deep, we love each other, yes there are other problems (she is CRAZY)but i could see us being together for a long time day to day we get along great but out sex life isn't great and i think it is because her idea of fun and mine are 2 different things and so if we go away for a special weekend it ends up being a big let down, its very frustrating.

you must know by now i have been thinking about breaking it off but if i did what would be my next step i don't think i could try doing the same thing with another normal girl cause id end up in the same spot so i guess that means signing up on the web sites like alt.com and hoping that 1. there is a girl in my area as freaky as me and 2. she is also compatible in all the normal ways

ok that's enough for now I know u guys can help cause its always easyer from a 3rd person point of view. sry about the spelling and plz if you are going to put a reply please put thought in to it. like i said i don't have anywhere else to go so i will be putting serious thought in to your relpys

That's actually a pretty large amount of talking!

Well, seeing as how you asked us anonymous strangers on a web site, I'll tell you some things that I think.

What jumped out at me was "Our sex life is not that great because we want different things." IMHO, it is just fine for two people in a relationship to have some differences of opinion as to what is fun in bed as long as they don't really give a rats ass if they ever actually get them because what is going on is effing fabulous.

Does not sound like the case for you. Sounds like the DL issue and probably other things get in the way of a positive sexual relationship. I speculate that you both know the other partner wants things that are not interesting for you, and that romance and sex get all complicated, to the point of not working, because of it. Not good.

I've been married to the same woman for decades. People ask us occasionally how come were still together when everyone else is divorced and remarried at least twice over. We usually mumble something about being great friends and having common interests (both true), but the straight answer is : Fantastic sex. Its not the "only" thing, of course, but when times are challenging, it is very helpful to look at your partner and honestly think "Well, he/she may be being a complete ____ at the moment, but he/she is the best lover I'm ever going to find!"

You can figure out what I think. What you do is your own choice.

Thanks for the reply that was very cool of you. if you are wondering, things are back to normal now and we happy again but it still stews in the back of my head

Welcome to the REAL diaper world. Like me and most others you’re stuck with diapers like it or not. The reality is most other people in the world can’t get far enough away from diapers. They’re just plain GROSS. (so what. I LOVE em)

Anyways from what you posted my guess is it’s time to move on. I read way too many deal breakers in your post. The good news is there ARE women that will love you and accept your diapers. The bad news is you’re gonna get burned looking for the right girl. Beware though. Even the right girl might think she can save you from your love of diapers. (My wife thought that lol).

Us diaper lovers got dealt a nasty card in life. Bad. But not as bad a life deals to others. So my thoughts are, it’s time to see who else is out there in this big strange world that finds your style of living something theyd like to try.

There’s actually women who LIKE diapers. Unfortunately there’s no billboard with their phone number. UGH.