Has transgender ever have anal sex with men?

I have watched porn where transgender have topped men, I think it's so hot! Does this really happen in real life? I actually find transgender rather sexy!

@Sex_patients

Maybe I have a problem to understand your post. What does it mean if a person is topping an other person. Does it mean penetrating?

Yes passive patient, I mean letting a transgender penetrate a man. And yes I would be willing to let a transgender penetrate me. It sounds so sexy.

I have watched porn where transgenders have topped men, I think it's so hot! Does this really happen in real life? I actually find transgender rather sexy!

If you go to sites like Chaturbate, with live streaming of sexual situations by transgender couples, at the appropriate times, you will certainly see anal penetrations by and of transgenders. For some couples you might have to wait long enough to chance upon such a scene or else tip enough to initiate one.

But going on the assumption that sites like Chaturbate do show real live actual sexual goings-on between partners then yes, I think it's safe to say such things do happen in real life.

Some performers are very open and relaxed about such sexual situations, others less so, but from what I have seen it all seems real enough to happen often enough.

The same goes for some transgender performers on reddit. They often post short clips of a sexual situation between transsexuals and these look real enough.

The same goes for Onlyfans vids of transgenders.

"Transgender" is an adjective, not a noun. If you're referring to porn, usually they specify "FTM" or "MTF". The polite terms are "trans man" and "trans woman".

@NetBear : "transsexual" as a noun (she's a transsexual) or adjective ( transsexual person) is far more common IMHO, than trans man/trans woman. Perhaps the reason is 'transsexual' encompasses all trans persons. 'Transgender' is regarded as a synonym, perhaps because trans persons often refer to their 'gender' rather than 'sex'

Gender maybe encompasses the social status while 'sex' might imply what genitalia one has.

"Transgender" is an adjective, not a noun. If you're referring to porn, usually they specify "FTM" or "MTF". The polite terms are "trans man" and "trans woman".

@NetBear You are correct, transgender is an adjective. A few months back Webby changed the tag “Transgenders” to “Transgender” because it was pointed out the former was incorrect and offensive to the transgender community.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=123424

@NetBear You are correct, transgender is an adjective. A few months back Webby changed the tag “Transgenders” to “Transgender” because it was pointed out the former was incorrect and offensive to the transgender community.

They found that offensive?

Really?!?!?

@jonormal

Transgender people are not a uniform group. It has disturbed some. Others were not bothered by it. For me, I don't use any of the usual labels for people who have a diagnosis of "transsexualism" according to ICD-10. I don't need a category. I am simply a human being and of course a man (not a cis man). Everything else is my own business. I don't put other people into categories because people have individual characteristics. But to come back to your comment. Words can stigmatize. Personally, I never had and still never have the impression that minorities are treated with contempt by the administrator and moderators. I appreciate that very much and that is infinitely more important to me than the title of a section on this website.

They found that offensive?

Transgender, is a rather new word, historically speaking. Apparently it is from the 1960s, while other terms like transexual were coined in the 1920s by sex researcher Magnus Hirschfeld.

In any case, not everyone knows how to go about using them nor does there necessarily seem to be any overall consensus on how and when to use the terms or what they exactly mean to some and not to others.

In other word, the words are still in linguistic transition, to make a bad joke. Therefore best not to get upset if you think they are being used incorrectly, don't automatically go into an uncharitable mode. People are still collectively figuring it out.

They found that offensive?

Really?!?!?

It's less the grammatical construction itself that's offensive (although it does just sound odd - like calling someone "a tall" or referring to "the thins"), it's more that it's become a "dog whistle" for indicating transphobic views among certain sections of the media without actually stating those views directly. Pointing out that it's grammatically incorrect and asking if it could be changed is a good way of weeding out supportive people who just don't know the correct construction (like the admins here) from people who are trying to use it as a dog whistle.

Going back to the original question, I'm a trans woman who has occasionally topped anally (although not with men) and enjoyed it, although I'm possibly in a minority there as lots of trans women who have enough genital dysphoria that using their penis to penetrate would likely not feel fun. I also know some trans women enjoy topping using a strap-on but not using their own penis (either because of dysphoria or because after you've been on feminising hormones for a while lots of people don't get an erection that's firm enough for penetration any more).

Flipping the question around, there's lots of trans *men* who enjoy topping, either with a strap on or with their own penis after a phalloplasty, and I imagine that lots of them would find that gender affirming as well as fun

Does this really happen in real life

I was in a park (near a creek with trails) last year and I walked up to a guy "topping" a cross dresser. I opened my blouse to show them my bra so they know I'm safe. As the CD was getting "topped" I lifted my skirt, pulled my panties aside and slid my cock in his mouth. I believe that I just filled one of his CD bucket list wishes to be spit roasted.

It's less the grammatical construction itself that's offensive (although it does just sound odd - like calling someone "a tall" or referring to "the thins"), it's more that it's become a "dog whistle" for indicating transphobic views among certain sections of the media without actually stating those views directly. Pointing out that it's grammatically incorrect and asking if it could be changed is a good way of weeding out supportive people who just don't know the correct construction (like the admins here) from people who are trying to use it as a dog whistle.

@Ell3n Good informative post! My guess is most don’t realize the correct grammar … I didn’t and using transgenders as noun seemed perfectly normal/ correct to me until it was pointed out. While some people go out of their way to disparage transgender people, most are simply unaware of proper usage of the word and are not using it offensively.

@Ell3n Good informative post! My guess is most don’t realize the correct grammar … I didn’t and using transgenders as noun seemed perfectly normal/ correct to me until it was pointed out. While some people go out of their way to disparage transgender people, most are simply unaware of proper usage of the word and are not using it offensively.

I bet that in English and other languages, over time and perhaps even in a few years time, using the word 'transgender' will become used a noun. Why? Because of how language evolves through the force of large numbers and change.

Consider how there are examples of words like 'a Red' or a 'a Green' (denoting political parties/affiliations) that have come into normal usage in a fairly short period of time. Certainly 'a Green'. Some 30 years ago I am not even sure it was used in that manner, as a noun.

Now it t it is the most normal thing in the world to use to denote someone belonging to such a political affiliation.

Here's a link that gives some examples of how adjectives have become nouns in English.

https://www.vocabularypage.com/2017/04/adjectives-used-as-nouns.html

@agracier: Transgender, is a rather new word, historically speaking. ............................ People are still collectively figuring it out.

Yes - too many terms .... confusing...

I have not. My package shrank considerably from the Estrogen I took to develop breasts. No loss! I think the porn stars with big cocks have enhanced breasts. from plastic. I am happy with my As, and tiny cock. BTW, I have never had my cock in a man!

I think @Ell3n hit the nail on the head, I find "transgenders" as a noun makes me uncomfortable, instead I would always say "transgender people" or just "trans people".

I do top, and have been with other trans women who've topped me. I find it harder to do than when I was running on T. But I get my pleasure in other ways anyway hehe

Yes! Transgenders ( m to F) who still have a penis engage in anal intercourse with other males.

To go back to the discussion around transgender as a noun. I had a friend who would always refer to homosexual men as gays. ie he was a gay, or they were a gay. I would ask him What, A gay blade, a gay time? He did tend to be a bit on the homophobic side.

@NetBear, you successfully derailed this thread!

Since the original poster is banned, we will never know his definition of transgender. I think it's a safe bet that it's a male dressed in woman's clothes. That said I have a CD friend that explained to me, that when he dresses, he want's to do the things a woman does. That includes man-pussy sex. The more "slutty" he dresses the more he want's to act like a whore and do what a whore does. But, since he has a working penis, he want's to top a man or better yet, a man dressed like a female.

I'm a trans woman and heavily involved in trans culture, even running a BDSM group dedicated to trans people.

Trust me choice of word or term is extremely important to my community, its how we gauge the general attitude and safety of a space, its one of the reasons I don't believe a cis person could run my group effectively.

Trust me choice of word or term is extremely important to my community, its how we gauge the general attitude and safety of a space, its one of the reasons I don't believe a cis person could run my group effectively.

Then please gently and politely help inform those who do not use the terms correctly how and what to use. One is never too old to learn. Myself included.

Https://glaad.org/reference/trans-terms/

This is a decent resource but most trans people shorten phrases like "transgender man" to "trans man" that is literally my only complaint as a resource for cis people.

It's also worth noting that if a person who doesn't know any better uses "transgender(s)" as a noun, it's unclear whether they mean a transgender man or a transgender woman. The default assumption is woman, but it ain't necessarily so.