How many of you guys must masturbate at least once a night?

I am 52 years old and I love anal sex toys! Especially the prostate massage toys! How many of you guys must masturbate until you shoot loads of cum at least once a night?

Congratulations to you, I am not part of the category. Incidentally, I do not tend to masturbate at night, and prefer morning or afternoon for that, though when if happens at night, it makes for an excellent sleeping night... certainly better than any sleeping pill!

Yeah, same here - love anal toys and need to cum at least once per day, more than often twice a day.

I pretty much masturbate every night. I dont always get off, but I find that I sleep better when I do.

I masturbate most days (and, thanks to working from home, not necessarily at night!)

Guilty! 😉

As I get older I don't masturbate as often. Sex drive sputtering I noticed. Going to talk to doc about testosterone soon. I think my memory problems are from it too

I'm old. But I think that my tubes need to be cleaned at least weekly. I love the whole body orgasms, with tiny amount of sperm. I never get hard spontaneously but porn helps!

2-3 times a week is norm for me. I don’t masturbate just mechanically. There are stories and imaginations in my brain which drive my orgasm.

Masturbate 2 or 3 times a week in front of wife. I am 55.. It’s always in morning when I am horny. I start stroking and always say “ I am going to masturbate” . She reaches under my balls and massages my perineum. Uses two fingers and finds my prostate . I go very fast , bed shakes. When I feel climax I say “ I’m coming”. She pushes hard on my prostate as I ejaculate. Sometimes then gently massages prostate after I ejaculate and as I milk my cock to get all out.

I jerk off 2 to 3 times a day.

Usually once at night and first thing in the morning every day....

@drmyk2 right with you my friend

Generally I masturbate every week/ten days. Having said that I love using my Aneros plug, and will lay on the bed with it inside of me while my penis shudders etc from the internal thrill of my rectum/prostate feeling it laying deep in there. I'm circumcised so after a short while, I'll often put spit or lubricant on my knob end and tease and pleasure myself, feeling the Aneros pleasure my rectum/prostate at the same time. I usually get to a certain point where i just lay there and without teasing my knob end, will feel my rectum start to grip and shudder around the Aneros and then will just feel the cum flow out of my penis without my doing anything!

I am masturbating now while I read these comments!

I work one week on one off so on the off days I masturbate every day . I also try to stretch my ass every day also.

Masturbate 2 or 3 times a week in front of wife. I am 55.. It’s always in morning when I am horny. I start stroking and always say “ I am going to masturbate” . She reaches under my balls and massages my perineum. Uses two fingers and finds my prostate . I go very fast , bed shakes. When I feel climax I say “ I’m coming”. She pushes hard on my prostate as I ejaculate. Sometimes then gently massages prostate after I ejaculate and as I milk my cock to get all out.

@Adventure10,

What a delightful considerate loving wife you have. My 2nd ex-wife (2005-10, in our 50’s) sounds quite similar. She was very sexual, liked playing with any or all of my 5-6 kinks or fetishes and actually asked me to tell her whenever I wanted to masturbate so she could participate and enjoy helping me. After being married a few months, one day she spontaneously revealed her deepest sexual secret to me. We were both Switches, one of my main kinks was D/s during sex, and she’d already been giving me long evenings of sexual enemas mixed in with all our other kinks as well, from before we wed. Up till her sexual revelation I’d always been the sub as she was very good at dominating me with long intense enemas. After the few months of Domme-ing me with enemas, what she revealed was that for most of her life her deepest darkest sexual secret was that she wanted to sometimes be very submissive to me and have her husband (me at the time) give her long intense enemas mixed with sex. Her late first husband (I was #2) had been a Christian minister and though their vanilla sex life wasn’t bad, she felt she could never tell him about giving her enemas. I was delighted to start giving her enemas like she’d given to me but now she’d be the enema sub for the evening. As switches we loved it both ways, but I still more often wound up being her sub for enemas and she’d ask or tell me when she felt like she wanted enemas for the evening as my sub. Great memories.

I’m glad your wife enjoys being so helpful and accommodating for your hand job orgasms. Carry on! 😉

Eric🍑💦

Often when I am not thinking abut masturbation and then open this site and read some posts and suddenly feel the need to masturbate.

I masturbate every night if I’m not having sex, as it relaxes my body and de-stress me and gives me a good sleep.

Just to add, my wife is a regular witness of my act of masturbation, as she enjoys watching me wanking my penis all naked and cum, she then gives a good blow job and licks the cum clean.

Masturbate 2 or 3 times a week in front of wife. I am 55.. It’s always in morning when I am horny. I start stroking and always say “ I am going to masturbate” . She reaches under my balls and massages my perineum. Uses two fingers and finds my prostate . I go very fast , bed shakes. When I feel climax I say “ I’m coming”. She pushes hard on my prostate as I ejaculate. Sometimes then gently massages prostate after I ejaculate and as I milk my cock to get all out.

@Adventure10 that isn't really masturbation as it is defined by Merriam Webster.

: erotic stimulation especially of one's own genital (see GENITAL sense 2) organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual (see MANUAL entry 1 sense 1) or other bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation (see MANIPULATE sense 1), occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various combinations of these agencies

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/masturbation

As you describe assistance from your wife to reach your orgasm...you are not necessarily masturbating. 😢

I go pretty much everyday. Usually mornings but sometimes evenings. Sometimes both.

@nangtu You have a wonderful wife! Mine does the same for me only in our jacuzzi tub. We face each other and she’ll reach under, fondle my balls and insert her finger in my ass while I masturbate. Enhances the experience!

@Adventure10 Nice your wife joins the fun! To get me to cum after some time teasing, my wife uses her fingers play with my lips, eventually penetrating into my mouth. Makes me cum every time!

Ohh, you said “at least” once a night. I was going to say that I do it more often than that by a long stretch, lol.

I masturbate daily and have sex daily, keeps me young!

Most of my life it has been daily for me. Sometimes more than once. As a teenager I still remember I spent entire day getting myself off my record is 15 times in a day... Then there was a time in my mid 20s when I stopped. I lasted 21 days without doing it. I wondered how it would be. I noticed I was irritated easily. Also felt very depressed so I started up again. Once I started up I noticed I filled tissues with cum... Probably from being so backed up. I almost immediately felt better.

that isn't really masturbation as it is defined by Merriam Webster.https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/masturbation

As you describe assistance from your wife to reach your orgasm...you are not necessarily masturbating. 😢

If I had tried to explain this to my late wife, she would have had either a laughing fit of epic proportions, or, much more likely, given me withering looks of disdain and disgust and probably not spoken to me for days on end. And never have let me forget it either, not even for decades into the future.

I bet Mr. Webster's definition would not have carried a microgram of influence to her way of thinking ... ha ha.

Now as to the actual question: I masturbate daily although not often to ejaculation. Let's say I prefer to have some form of sexual self-stimulation at least once daily.

And I suppose with my typical luck of the draw, ejaculation results in feeling low, deprived of energy and a tad depressed afterwards. So I prefer to avoid that.

Have to ask, don't you get sore? Being married, it's tricky for me to find the time to do it once a day, but I think it's good for my prostate to masturbate as often as I can.

Isn't the recommended number of ejaculations 21 times per month for optimal prostate health?

I've got some catching up to do this month!!!😄😄😄😄

I can't sleep if I don't masturbate. Now I'm single, but when I was in a relationship I masturbated myself or asked my boyfriend to masturbate me.