Enemas and significant others

Do you regularly (say once per week) give your significant other a series of enemas?

Do you give him/her a series of enemas when he/she asks you to do so?

Do you keep track of his/her regularity and give him/her a series of enemas when he/she has not been regular enough (in your opinion)?

Do you sometimes ask him/her to give you a series?

Does he/she keep track of your regularity and on occasion insists that you receive a series?

As for myself, my S.O. won't give me any or allow me to give her any. I know I'm not alone in that situation. However, i used to get them regularly once a week when I was a kid, and do admit that I still remember those sessions with warmth, as they were that one time periods when I had Mum's full attention;. In addition to the mechanics of the enemas, we discussed may different topics. I created this topic to get a feel for how many share enemas with their Significant others.

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Are you kidding? If I suggested giving weekly enemas to my husband, he would have me committed to a mental hospital.

In 40 years of marriage, I’ve given him enemas on occasion when I felt he actually needed them. He’s past being reluctant and arguing to being accepting and quiet while he’s getting the enema, but to suggest that becoming a regular routine, how do you spell divorce?

My gf used to let me give her enemas, she even bought her own silicon bag. She would even put the nozzle in me once in a while. Now she wants nothing to do with it. She tolerates me taking enemas in front of her. I used to sneek. Was much more fun when she helped. The hoseman

My wife swears she never had an enema, but when She was in the hospital for surgery at 15 or 16, I knew she had one! In the 63 years of marriage, I have given her two or three that she forgets about. Now she drinks Metamucil every morning. No more enemas!

My wife used to but I'm a widower now so back to solo my wife had instructions from my mother after we married give each other enemas all our married life

Are you kidding? If I suggested giving weekly enemas to my husband, he would have me committed to a mental hospital.

In 40 years of marriage, I’ve given him enemas on occasion when I felt he actually needed them. He’s past being reluctant and arguing to being accepting and quiet while he’s getting the enema, but to suggest that becoming a regular routine, how do you spell divorce?

Thank you for this comment !! - maybe the correct writing will be " DIVORCE " !!

Well guess what ??? As a bottom before my friend and I would make love to each other I would do a couple of clean outs. Just take my time while he was out and I always enjoyed it. To my surprise he knew about this routine and offered to get involved. I've never been so turned on. We would fix the enema together, me showing, telling him what to do and when it was time we lay down on the bed together and cuddled together. To make it last longer I would just fix a small one quart enema and cut the flow way down low. If you've never had a B/J while having a slow flow enema I highly recommend you try it if you can get him talked into it and what's really wild is to do the old fashioned 69 it'll blow your mind 🏳️‍🌈 🤠 😜

My husband does not currently participate in my enemas. There was a time when we were younger when I could sweet talk him into giving me one and less frequently he would let me give him one. But it was clear he was not enjoying enema play like I did so eventually I stopped asking him to participate. I can accept that not everyone likes it.

@Cheryl77177. My beautiful lady does not "do" enemas or colonics but is very happy for me to have my "me time" and for me to go to my wonderful colon hydrotherapist. She has even on occasion, encouraged me to spend time in the bathroom. What a blessing to have someone so understanding and broad minded. Guess why I married her!!

My husband does not currently participate in my enemas. There was a time when we were younger when I could sweet talk him into giving me one and less frequently he would let me give him one. But it was clear he was not enjoying enema play like I did so eventually I stopped asking him to participate. I can accept that not everyone likes it.

Sorry to hear this !! - but it is similar as we talked about " eating ", one likes fish, and the other one is more in meat !!

I enjoyed the small enemas I got from mom and by time I was about 11, I was giving myself enemas just because I wanted to. I was a young adult and recently married when I discovered that there were others who did enemas for fun, and even as part of sex play. Since I had previously noticed an enema enhanced my masturbation I decided to see if my wife was interested. With some questioning, I determined that she has never had an enema. So I decided on a multiple part plan.

First, I bought a new combo bag and put it under the bathroom sink where she would be sure to see it. And one evening as we were getting ready for bed she asked me about it. I confessed to her that I have been giving myself enemas, and I liked it, and I had recently read that some couples enjoy doing it together. Her response was that although she has never had one, what she heard from others was an enema was not much fun.

Some days later, I suggested to her that she give me an enema so she could see how it goes. She did, and couldn't help but notice how excited I got as the water flowed into me. I offered to give her one but she declined, saying maybe someday, but not now.

After I had convinced her to give me several, she reluctantly agreed to let me give her one. She only took a small amount before begging me to stop, saying she couldn't hold it. After several tries, each with a small amount she asked me not to do that again. For a while she would give me an enema when I asked, but she would not take one and eventually told me that if I wanted an enema I should do it myself.

She said her main objections were the fear of making a mess, and cooling off sexually while waiting for everybody to get done on the toilet. So now, she does not object when I do it, but just don't ask her to participate.

My wife and I enjoyed giving each other enemas from the time we were first married, doing so throughout our marriage. We used enemas for sexual pleasure, health, and attitude or mood adjustments. Even though our marriage ended in divorce, enemas and the use of enemas had nothing to do with it. We simply grew apart over the years in ways, that unfortunately, affected our children. Something that neither of us recognized or foresaw at the time.

I see a lot of parallel points in RedBulb99's account of his efforts with his wife. Her comment of cooling off while someone was on the toilet struck a chord. That was one of my husband's comments, "What am I supposed to do while you are on the toilet?"

Assuming you use enemas as foreplay, what do you do to stay in the mood while your partner is on the toilet?

So point on but it is itch that wont go away so share chat with others is a blessing

@Cheryl77177 ...Watch? 😃

@RedBulb99 said,

She said her main objections were the fear of making a mess, and cooling off sexually while waiting for everybody to get done on the toilet. So now, she does not object when I do it, but just don't ask her to participate.

That’s something my wife and I didn’t have an issue with. As teenagers, my sister and I gave each other enemas whenever one of us got horny. We learned early on, enemas enhanced masturbation, especially when someone else gave you an enema. Making it far easier and enjoyable. And years later, when my girlfriend shared an apartment with my sister, the two girls started swapping enemas during their period to help relieve cramps. So, when my girlfriend and I got married, we simply continued the practice. Quickly learning enemas were an excellent tool to use during foreplay. We didn’t cool off, whenever we gave each other enemas, it turned us on sexually even more than we were. As for enema accidents, they happened occasionally and were embarrassing, but didn’t cool things off. We simply laughed about it, as we cleaned things up. Occasionally causing us to get in the shower together leading to sexual intercourse while standing under a warm shower spray.

My siblings and I grew up getting enemas from mom, grandma, and our two teenage aunts for a variety of reasons. However, my wife didn’t get enemas when younger. She started using enemas as a teenager, when her OB/GYN recommended she use them for period cramps and constipation relief. It wasn’t until she shared an apartment with my sister, that she learned enemas enhanced masturbation. The first time my sister used a douche nozzle to give her an enema. She did her usual thing; she moved the douche nozzle around while she was giving someone an enema. The movement of the nozzle, while her colon filled, was enough to put my wife over the edge as she rubbed her clitoris. Giving her an orgasm and hooking her on enemas.

My ex-wife was also anally erotic and learned to enjoy enemas with me before we were married. At the beginning of our marriage, we agreed on the things most important for each other. One of the things she committed to do for me, in addition to our ad-hoc enema play, was to give me an enema once a week by surprising me with a filled bag as I was taking my evening bath; I never knew for sure what day she'd walk through that door with my enema, so it was often a pleasant surprise. When she stood by the tub and hung the bag, I was always expected to get out of the tub right away, dry off with a towel, then get into the knee-chest position on the bathroom floor and eagerly wait to be given my enema. The enemas were usually around three quarts of plain warm water, but occasionally if she was irritated at me about something she'd give me a milky-white soapy enema.

@klysterluv said,

My ex-wife was also anally erotic and learned to enjoy enemas with me before we were married. At the beginning of our marriage, we agreed on the things most important for each other.

My ex-wife shared an apartment with my sister the year before we were married. The two girls got started swapping enemas with one another when my ex-wife came in one evening feeling like she was coming down with the flu. So, my sister suggested, a couple of enemas would help her feel better, and she reluctantly agreed. My sister then administered a soapy followed by a rinse enema using a long-curved douche nozzle. Something my sister loved doing, whenever she gave someone else an enema. Because she slowly moves the nozzle around as the water flows in. Something she especially liked doing to me and my brother. So, during the rinse enema that evening, as my sister did her thing with the douche nozzle, my ex-wife had her first orgasm during an enema and was hooked. And knowing I would be interested, my sister let me know what happened to my girlfriend. Afterwards, the two girls started swapping enemas during their period each month or whenever one of them got horny. Then, once my girlfriend found out from my sister, about us swapping enemas after school as teenagers. That opened the door for me to start swapping enemas with my girlfriend. Something my ex-wife and I started doing on weekends before marriage and continued up until we got divorced.

I take enemas at least once a week but I shoot for twice a week. Wednesdays and Fridays or Saturdays. I used to be once a week until my sister moved in with me. Then she got a girlfriend and we talked her girlfriend into enemas. The next thing I know her girlfriend is taking them twice a week and sometimes more. The Wednesdays just make us feel better plus we live in Arizona so it can get up to 115+ outside. My sister started her girlfriend taking them and then one time she was talking on the phone to my sister and walked in on me while I was on the floor in my bathroom stretched out taking one. She turned a little red and said excuse me as she backed out of my bathroom. Remember my bathroom is big and has an arch doorway so it does not have a door. So when she said excuse me and backed out I heard her tell my sister what she saw and what I was doing. The next thing I knew she came back in still talking on the phone and asked if I needed help. I said I don't think my sister would like that. She laughed a little and said, "It was her idea." and handed me the phone. My sister said that she did tell her to ask me. Then my sister said it would give her something to think about at work. She said it would be hot. That is where it started with me playing with my sisters girlfriend. I mean we all walk around here nude anyway. It took my sister's girlfriend a bit to get used to walking around nude and the same with for my sister's, girlfriend's niece. As for everyone thinking like a pervert. No my sister and I do not have sex. Neither does my sister's girlfriend and her niece. Lol

My sister got enemas a lot growing up and I only got one. Then I met a girl into anal and she started me with enemas. My sister started her girlfriend on enemas and I started her girlfriend's niece.

I’d love to be a frequent visitor to all you lovely ladies.

I’m very fortunate that my wife, while she doesn’t like enemas herself, she will give me an enema upon request and on a few occasions has asked if you want me to give you an enema. This also goes for paddling my bare ass.

This was not the case with my first two wives, both after a short time after marriage would seem to find sex a chore.

My wife and I have been married 35 plus years and have had been very sexually active and really enjoy pleasing each other.