How do you know if you like being a sissy?

@Agracier said

Perhaps tangential, but also interesting on how the word sissy is perceived.

In Belgium there is a chain of clothing stores called 'Sissy-Boy'. You can Google the addresses and photos of the shops. They are not fetish or specialized shops for any kind of clothing fetish either. Just a run-of-the-mill clothing store.

Lots of different takes on what the word means.

It is not surprising that in a European country a word has a different connotation, if not completely different meaning.

For instance, consider the word, "fanny." In the USA, it means buttocks, or ass. In Australia, fanny means vulva or vagina.

Thanks Susie I didn't know that about a fanny- it will come in handy if I meet a cute Aussey

For instance, consider the word, "fanny." In the USA, it means buttocks, or ass. In Australia, fanny means vulva or vagina.

And it caused no end of hilarity when the FANY corps was formed in 1907 in Great Britain: First Aid Nursing Yeomanry. It must certainly have spawned a lot of jokes and dirty talk during the Great War. You would be forgiven for thinking someone chose a name that would yield that specific acronym.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Aid_Nursing_Yeomanry

Sissy to me means dressing in female slut clothes, wearing make-up, and then being sub to a female. It's something I love and fantasize about. I would call it sissy role play. In this role I am comfortable with females or other sissies

Sissy to me means being submissive to men. Giving up masculine attitudes and behaviors and pleasing the man I am with. I have enjoyed walking down the street holding hands with a guy to see reactions and feel my reactions. I found I actually enjoyed being led my a man, and enjoyed our kissing in public.

. If with a guy who has just used me - all the better. I don't feel humiliated. I wish we could do more without being arrested! I enjoy sex with men and women but am only attracted to women. Exploring being with men in public I hope will give me new perspective.

How do you know if you like being a sissy?

As yourself, "do I like being a sissy?

That should give you your answer.

@SwitchableSusie said

For instance, consider the word, "fanny." In the USA, it means buttocks, or ass. In Australia, fanny means vulva or vagina.

I've mentioned before that "fanny" also means vulva in the UK. There is certainly scope for some comical misunderstandings when Americans use the word differently.

How do you know if you like being a sissy?

As yourself, "do I like being a sissy?

That should give you your answer.

Exactly! Easy question.

I've seen a couple of posts/replies to this topic I'm not sure if simple answers are the best but here is mine.

You can't know until you try.

If you want more substance then go research about it? If there are aspects of it that seem appealing to you then give it some more thought, maybe try out some scenarios in your head or with a partner you trust. That's how I find out what video games, movies, people, etc., I like. Give it or them a try and if you feel good about that choice stick to it and if you don't then leave move on and try something else. Learning through trial and error is how we learn about who we are.

What others have said maybe this is too simple. Does your dick get hard? Does it make you masturbate?

And I've had first timers married professional men. they come I dress them up they suck my cock I spank their ass and they go home and cry their eyeballs out for a week or two.

And then what do you know they're right back here.

I guess I shouldn’t be surprise; It’s been my discovery that, “Sissy” is open to interpretation. For me personall, I can dress very elegant and feminin while also very girly but casual as well as the naughty Vixon. I have several outfits that are specifically for my SISSY moments; for example - Pink and White maid with a chrome plug with a pink heart shaped jewel at the same time my Sissy Jewels are Caged. I often Dress and feel feminine but I have those moments where I feel ultra feminine. I wouldn’t want the humiliation or abuse that is often associated with the term Sissy - to tell the truth, “ sometimes the boy wants to feel like the girl. Having my boi clit in a Cage is evidence of Beta - Treat me Nice would be my Sissy Moto

At least in my case I do think there is a sissy aspect to my compulsion to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet myself. I at my happiest when I can go around in my diapers, have my wife check them periodically to see if I need to be changed and then actually change me with all that entails. There is more than a bit of submissiveness to this. Add to that I like to dress up in pink diapers and rubber pants or other girlish colors and patterns and have my wife or her mother decide what I should wear that day makes me feel even more of a sissy. It started, I think ,when I was a boy living at home with my sisters and we all wore diapers for bedwetting until we were much older than most. My sister and I would play around, wrestle and tickle each other at night after mom had diapered all of us. Once my sister dared me to wear her panties and I did, and found my little pee-pee getting hard when I put on her pink panties that had lace around the waist. After that, she let me wear her panties whenever I wanted and I did. When my sister started wearing a bra, she asked if I wanted to try one on and she hooked it on for me and than I put her panties on too. She told me I was a sissy but looked so cute. Now many years later later my wife lets me wear her panties sometimes. I don't actually have any boy underwear since I'm in diapers and rubber pants full time now.

I knew I was going to be a Sissy when I enjoyed looking at lingerie catalogs and wearing on moms panties. It all took off after I was masturbated with panties when I was 12 years old.

Hi everyone!

In one or more of the replies to this post, it was said that “sissy“ the word, or perhaps a label, is open to interpretation. Like 90% of us all who are citizens of Zity, and of the larger world we live in of alternative sexual behavior, we make these words/labels, it’s a world bounded onl by our imagination.

I think that I might be a sissy because of the clothes I love to wear are formed around what I was dressed in by my mother and nanny- yes we had e live in nanny, no fantasy. I was dressed in what I call, and what I was called, sissy boys clothes. This was from birth (1954)through about 1964-5. Dress like garments called aprons for boys. For going out or to church, I was told that these were white and resembled baptism gowns. I wore these until I was 1 ½ . My memory is not this good BTW! My recollectives here were largely due to my oldest sister’s help after me pestering her about how I was dressed when I was a kid. She is the keeper of our large family photo album-yet to be digitized. So then i was dressed for church and family events/holidays in what our nanny called my Little Lord Fauntleroy outfits. Though not nearly as elaborate as the what mothers made boys wear in 1890s-WWI — with many photos of boys in kilts with large ruffled round colla blouse, the collar being the outfits focal point was displayed outside a velvet jacket. Well some 42 years later ( counting from 1914) I was dressed in velvet suits with suspender very short pants, matching collarless jacket, white anklets , knee socks or tights depending on the weather or function we were going to. The blouses that were hung along with the velvet or linen suits in an armoire in my room. Blouses were generally shoulders width. Starched and painstakingly ironed, the blouses were some form of a Peter Pan collar with wide organdy or similar ruffled edging that often were trimmed in fine narrow lace. The cotton main collar was stiffly starched cotton. if I wore tights or anklets, Mary Janes wore worn, knee socks with saddle shoes. I wore knee socks and saddle shoes for everything until my school uniform at age six. I wore shorts until I was 8 and a few times at 9 and 10. Shorts were with jaclet’s called Eton suits with white blouses/Peter Pan collar. Though popular for many boys in that era, I was photographed with the eton suit—saddle shoes to what turned out to be my sisters uniform blouse, a wider round collar … the photo was from Christmas 1962 I was 8½. The same outfit I wore a few more times. that Easter i was dressed in a short pants sailor suit. That Easter could have been the last time I was made to wear sissy clothes. It was in puberty that I loved how I was dressed and as often as I could I would take skirts and blouses from my sisters closet and dress at least partially in girl outfits.

I must end here but I was given many enemas.