MEN, how/why did you try cunnilingus?

MEN (We can accept answers from females if they described what happened with a partner etc. but please stick to that and not about what you'd prefer men to do or not do),

Why and how did you try cunnilingus? Was it your idea? Was it the woman's?

Me: my idea.

First sexual experience, girl also inexperienced. Had never seen a vulva, virgin girlfriend spreads legs, I have a good look and engage in fingering. I tried licking and enjoyed it (save for some minor issue with hair).

I must have done things right because, the next time, as I began fingering the girl, she said, a bit embarrassed, that she would like my tongue as well.

There was very little foreplay options available in my playbook that time. Also, it looked warm and moist. Plus, I knew that she knew I watched adult videos, so this would be a natural thing to do. She was lying on her back and was bare with panties hanging off of one thigh. It was a bottom to top flat tongue action.

It was my idea. Really, it was mostly an opportunity to have a good look at a vulva for the first time. The woman was quite shy about it.

It was safe sex, avoid accidental pregnancy

I was 14, dating a 16 yr old. She was more experienced and one evening we were naked, playing with each other's body parts. She pushed my head down to her crotch and said "eat me". I knew the concept but this was my first time. She tasted great and that was the beginning.

It was my 18th birthday. First date with a girl my age and we were making out in a car on the beach. We were both getting hot and the clothes were coming off. I just bent down and started licking her. It tasted nothing like I had imagined butt it was too late to stop. I loved it. So I ate it before I penetrated her with my rock hard penis!! I’d still rather lick it than fuck 😋

Not really sure what prompted it. Probably read about it before I saw it being done in porn. It was definitely talked about when I was in the navy.

The first opportunity I got to try it, and experienced the reaction from the woman at the time, I was hooked.

Cant imagine foreplay without it unless my partner is not into it. Strange as it may seem, I have had the odd partner who said it did nothing for them.

I put this down to some deep rooted feelings of it being "dirty" or "unnatural. ". May just have been it did nothing for them.

I know guys who don't like getting blown. To each their own.

I'd heard of it in high school. A lot of guys bragged about doing it - but I'm sure 95% of them were liars or at best wishful thinkers. The year following my graduation one of my sister's sophomore girlfriends developed a crush on me and begged my sister to invite her over every opportunity that our parents were out. She was wild for her age and "crazy about me" - what can I say? We'd fool around in my bedroom, sucking nipples, rubbing, humping and grinding against each other causing me to cum in my pants a few times and it was obvious to her. Being curious she asked to see the mess in my pants. So that was the start of our adding exploration to our make-out sessions. Soon we were humping naked or nearly naked, but being extremely careful to avoid penetration. It naturally progressed to 69ing which I'd also heard about and described to her. She was one hot little mama. I'm also sure my sister discussed our enemas and mutual masturbations with her. I was seriously considering setting up our next meeting to include an enema or at least pissing together with or without my sister. But she beat me to the punch by saying she often had to give her mentally disabled sister enemas at home. I was ecstatic but but the timing was not conducive... I soon had to leave for the military, and I was gone for close to 10 years and came home with my wife of now over 50 years. Never heard what happened to her. I'm sure she drove some other guy wild.. at least I hope so.

For me it was just something normal that men did to women during sex. I didn't do it in my teens with my first 4 or 5 girlfriends but just fingered them. But in my early 20's I sat next to a guy in the office who was older and more experienced sexually than me and he would often talk about 'plating' a girl, and how an occupational hazard was sometimes getting a hair stuck between your teeth.

Anyway with my next girlfriend I decided to go for it and went down on her. It took her by surprise as she wasn't expecting it and it was her first time, but she reacted very strongly and came very quickly. She was hooked and I certainly was hooked, I absolutely loved it and still do.

Like @LordJim2 a few women that I've met didn't really enjoy it and just put up with it for my sake I think, but most women of my experience love it.

Haven't heard that expression in years @Dr_Philip. "Plating" Always thought of that a a term for bj's . Must be an Essex boy thing. 😃

Licking the plate clean I guess! They used to say the boys plate the girls and the girls give the boys a 'gobble' !!

Actually my mate at work lived in Kent, so I suppose it was sort of 'Estuary English' so to speak...

Haven't heard that expression in years @Dr_Philip. "Plating" Always thought of that a a term for bj's . Must be an Essex boy thing. 😃

Maybe a traditional term of speaking in the UK ??

In 1955, eating a pussy was beginning to be talked about, and I was 19. All my buddies were negative, saying that girls smelled bad, "down there" and I kept my mouth shut. I had been eating my girlfriends pussy for 6 months, and we both went crazy when I did, which was every time I saw her! Everything about her pussy, I loved, and her aroma was intoxicating! If I had ever bragged to my buddies that I was a pussy eater, I would not have gotten another taste! I knew that silence was much better than any bragging kudo's. Married her a year later and like a pussy to this day.

Gobble definitely an estuary thing. That's where I grew up. Kent side @Dr_Philip, and where I first started enjoying cunnilingus and being felated too.

Not my first time, in college at a party I was with a girl and we snuck off to an empty bedroom. She was extremely tight and no lube so I couldn’t penetrate. She suggested we try something else so it was my first 69 adventure. I remember sticking a finger up her ass while licking and she loved it.

Gobble definitely an estuary thing. That's where I grew up. Kent side @Dr_Philip, and where I first started enjoying cunnilingus and being felated too.

Haven't heard that expression in years @Dr_Philip. "Plating" Always thought of that a a term for bj's . Must be an Essex boy thing. 😃

@LordJim2 & @drphillips “gobbling” and “plating” should added to ther SexTerms thread! First I ever heard either term.

Even in early puberty I was enchanted with naked women. I was a pre teen and fantasizing about eating it. I was 13 at summer camp when I ate the pussy of a girl during a cabin "panty raid". I loved it and remember how distinctly delicious she was .. and I have loved eating pussy ever since... every chance I get. (sadly not as often anymore)

I was 15, she was 16. She was my first girlfriend. She let me finger her many times but I had never seen a vagina. One day I got her pants off and moved my head down for a look. Thirty seconds later I was licking her! It was her first time receiving, and she enjoyed herself.

What a great thread!

My first time performing cunnilingus was in 1982 with my first girlfriend. I was a virgin and she was not. I was aware of what it was and the concept of it being a good foreplay activity. We had decided it was time to take the next step in our relationship and set a date for Friday night in her dorm room. We had ordered a pizza and after some studying and pizza, we started making out and slowly taking pieces of each others clothes off. I finally saw her naked for the first time. I distinctly remember stating “Can I try something?” with no specificity. She said yes and I made my way down the twin bed, pushing her legs wide apart and raising them best I could. I recall nuzzling her at first with my nose taking in her aroma and spreading her moistness around her vulva. It was a surreal time for me. I settled down with my nose planted on her clitoris and my tongue swirling around her labia and dipping into her vagina. This went on for only a short time before I felt her legs clamp around the sides of my head and her hands grabbing the back of my head pulling me harder between her legs then her body shuddered and quivered and she let out a low, guttural moan before she went into a state of total, limp relaxation. I initially thought I might have hurt her but soon realized that was a female orgasm.

Good times!

In my opinion it's not a complete sexual experience without it. I would sooner for go fucking. And giving is better than receiving for me when it comes to oral.

This is a great thread. I’m enjoying the stories very much.

I remember the first time very vividly. It was in her living room, on the couch, the living room blind was half open. The light on the table was lit, (I have that table in my living room today). This was in the very early 60s. when there was an entirely different attitude. We had been dating for several months and had progressed past getting some nipple play and fingering along with some hand jobs. Blow jobs had become a part of the routine. I knew her taste and odor of her juices from licking my fingers and it was intoxicating. She spread her legs and I split her very hairy bush. I found her clit and began to lick and suck on it (in the terms of the day "rocking the little man in the boat"). Soon found my way to her wet opening and gave it the attention it deserved.

This was a big deal in those days, whispered about with lots of laughs and snickers. I had the attitude that if she was giving me blow jobs I needed to give like in return and I wanted know what it was all about. We married within a year or so and that was the the start of a decades of give and take. As time passed I did convince her to let me shave her bush, I had gone completely smooth some time before.

Many months after losing her I was introduced to younger, recently widowed women. We dated for a while spending time at her house and mine, One afternoon she had been at my house for a while and the conversation became more intense as we moved to the bedroom. She needed a comfort break and I suggested she just leave her jeans off when she returned. Wasn't long before the panties were on the floor and I had my tongue in her navel and was headed south. Soon she gave a little moan and a shudder and I had completed my goal for the afternoon. ( At a certain age we begin to lose pubic hair as well as else where, she had a light covering which was soon gone at my hand). She is now only a memory also.

Nice memories though @smoothdude

My first Mistress back in the early 70s required I service Her properly as her sub....

I went to DC with my AF roommate to see his gf. She had a studio apt. One her friends was there. We all started drinking and ended up naked on the bed. Lights were on. It was yhe 1st time I saw a real puss.

I later read a novel where a lady tells a young man, who fingers her, that he should stick his tongue where he stuck his finger, and I found it lovely. However the situation was different from mine: I was the one who had the idea first, and she asked for it the second time, whereas in his case he says he's initially somewhat reluctant to this kind of play, and begins to like it only as he realizes the lady experiences intense pleasure. But, hey, the novel takes place in the 1500s, maybe she's not too clean down there. 😉

@Lord Jim, yes

In 1959 I was 19 and in the Army. I was captured by a colonel's daughter who I discovered later was only 15. We were parking and she was doing her favorite thing, seeing how many orgasms could wring out of me before it went limp. When it went limp she shoved my face between her legs and even though it was my first time I knew enough to start licking. Thus began a year and a half of licking and even when I had to remove her Kotex. I earned my red wings with her.

I was 23 and dating this dark haired girl. She had a standing weekly waxing appointment (evidently at the same time as then-living Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg (#truth)) and while we dated she was in the habit of maintaining a small patch just above her clit. To this day it is still the sexiest “cut” of pubic hair to me, on a man or woman, just a small hitler mustache type patch. Anyway, one night after she’d blown me and we’d fucked, she asked me to go down on her. I had never done that before but I acted like I knew what I was doing. I was probably terrible. I stopped after maybe three or four minutes, she tapped me on the head (I know). But resting my nose in that little patch, to this day, is one of my hottest memories. It was so hot!

I tried a few more times but it wasn’t until my second ex fiancé that I would really master the technique. And two girls I dated early on specifically didn’t like it or want it. Which I thought was weird but ok everyone has their own preferences. They also didn’t go down on me, but the sex was great so I didn’t really mind.

Back when' ...Girls/Women ... well as far as I know... did not "SHAVE" or what ever down there...... but that did not stop me from "Exploring the nether regions with my tongue!!!... I'm talking the early 1960's on.....

However come the early 1980's... It is a "Hot August night in L.A." ,,, I get a call at work from my friend Dave's Girlfriend that her Girlfriend from Canada is here to visit and they want to go out for dinner and would I come along...."SURE!!!!!"... well after work I went and met Dave his Lady and "Laura".... we went to a place in "Topanga" (You may know it??) anyway, after dinner Laura wanted to see the "Pacific Ocean" so we went down Topanga Canyon road to the PCH and Malibu Beach.. Dave and his Lady were tired and stretched out in the back of my "Van!!!" "Laura and I" went down and walked along the beach, the moon was out just above the water ... Laura got her feet wet! Good fun.. onward ..... Laura had taken a motel room for her visit "part of the flight pack" so we dropped off Dave and Lady at their digs and went to Laura's place.... long story short,, this is "L.A." she did not want to be alone....... Guess what happened next .. OMG!! She asked me to stay, get comfortable...we chatted over a drink or two then... she slipped to the bath room.. she emerged dressed in a flowing night gown looking like Veronica Lake from Back when!!!!!! It started slow, sipping a drink, then a kiss then.... more... It was getting very warm in the room although the A/C was on till I "NOTICED!!" She had spread open the bottom of her Gown for me to view her ...waist down!!!!!!!! At the "Y" "THERE WAS NO HAIR!!!!!!!!" I noticed and mentioned,"OhMy!! You Shaved!!!!" She said,"NO, I have "Alopacia" a condition where all the 'Fast growing cells in my body grow real slow!!" (No pubic hair and very sparce head and body hair!!!!!) Needless to say as the night went on "MY VISIT to the "Y" was most pleasurable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is more to the story but you will have to meet me at the BAR and we will carry on over cocktails!!!!!!

PS.... Yes this a true story!!

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