LADIES How did you get into anal?

Dear ladies

The obvious things to do when starting to have heterosexual sex is mutual masturbation, oral, and vaginal penetration. Anal sounds to me less obvious - it needs lubrication and it easily hurts.

So ladies, how/when did you get into anal sex, if you ever did? Was it your own idea? Your partner's? What did you think about it?

How did I? Men. I've had a few guys want it from me and I trusted my husband enough to let him take me.

I think that I was born with it. The first time that I tried to do it, it was my idea. The second time it was just finger and dildo was the boyfriend’s idea. When I finally got to experience it a penis with my husband, it was my idea.

What do I think about it? I love but now with stage 4 rectal cancer I can’t do it any more other than with a thermometer or a finger is all that I can tolerate.

It was something I was excited to try. I figured out how anally erotic I was early on and used a douche nozzle to masturbate anally.

As got older I wanted the real thing and a partner very willing to indulge me.

My husband gently eased me into it. He had played with my butt with his fingers and small toys lots already and one night I got so horny I just asked him to do it. It was really slow and gentle with loads of lube and in the spoons position. I love the hold your breath intensity and slight discomfort and also how it makes me feel so submissive towards him. 🙂

My first anal sex was my idea. I ordered a set of anal plugs of different sizes and a smaller vibrator to stretch my ass out. After a month or so, I was able to accommodate my husband with no problem. We usually have anal intercourse a couple of times a month. Most of the time I initiate the anal sex. I have found that putting a plug in a couple of hours before helps make the whole thing totally painless. It can be messy though. I usually prepare with a couple of enemas a few hours before.

Dita