Humiliating birthday spanking from moms friend

Have you ever been spanked by a friend of the family? One of my moms best friends, who was the loud joking type, thought it would be funny to give me a birthday spanking on my 13th birthday. Keep in mind I already have a spanking fetish and still going through puberty at the time.

I liked to think I was stronger than most women at that time (whether true or not) but Ms Debbie who was a little bit bigger lady had no problem manhandling me at a mere 120 pounds. She baited me in by acting like she had a secret to tell me and before I knew it she had pulled me across her knee and had my pants down.

I was mortified at what was going on. As hard as I struggled I couldn’t break away from her as she set there and gave me a bare bottom spanking in the kitchen in front of everyone. She was purely doing it as a joke but I was humiliated especially when i finally stood up to realize that my neighbor who was about 3 years older than me saw it all. She never brought it up it or said anything about it but I know she witnessed the whole event.

Have you ever had a similar experience?

My mother did it to me at the same age but I would now describe my mother as an abuser really. As she did it to humiliate me which she enjoyed. So lots of my friends see and of course the mothers who came to the party too. I've been left with a spanking fetish but was awful at the time.

Seems she might have been a tad out of line giving it bare bottom at that age.

No I have not . But that would be really embarrassing to be bare ass in front of family and friends.

YES at my 16th birthday my cousins decided to give me a birthday SPANKING. I hated it, still to this day!!

BUT soon after, but only in a sexual contex with girls> women, that i would want to marry, i do want and, YES even crave F/M spankings > 53 years and still being spanked by my SWEETIE.

P.S> she still gets WET from spanking ME, and i used to get hard😢 😢!!!

"Reality what a concept!"

Unfortunately, we don't have such a birthday custom here, but if we did, I would very much like to keep a similar memory.

I suppose it was ages ago. Nowadays spankings for joke don’t exist and the whole episode if it happened would not be received favourably.

However, I wish something like that occurred to me when I was 12-14.

I got birthday spankings as a boy. Sometimes my pants were pulled down at the family birthday celebration. Several birthday parties I attended for friends did include an over-the-pants spanking for the birthday boy. Beyond age 8 it was hinted at and threatened but never happened.

@Curious85 That was incredibly inappropriate and abusive of that woman, and I don't use the term 'abusive' casually.

Why didn't your mom step in and stop it? It doesn't matter how many years ago that was, baring a 13 year old in front of others for what should have been a 'fun' activity was terribly wrong.

I do remember years ago it wasn't uncommon to force a light birthday spanking on a reluctant birthday boy/girl, even at 13 (I never participated if it was forced, but I saw it), but I've never seen or heard of a bare birthday spanking (except of course between couples or close friends. In that activity I've participated), and certainly not with an unwilling teenager.

Others may have found it cute at the time, but it was totally out of line.

Do you have any thoughts on how this may have affected you long term, if it did?

I'm sorry this happened to you.

I was mortified at what was going on. As hard as I struggled I couldn’t break away from her as she set there and gave me a bare bottom spanking in the kitchen in front of everyone. She was purely doing it as a joke but I was humiliated

Have you ever had a similar experience?

@Kulemh I'm not questioning you, but I'm just throwing this out there. I can understand how as an adult you can imagine it would be erotic to recall when you were 12-14 and were spanked bare in front of others, on what was supposed to be a fun day for you. But do you think if that actually happened, you may have processed it differently? Most boys that age are modest, and certainly don't want to be emasculated in front of their friends and family. Do you think such an event might have been emotionally damaging to you, in some way?

Maybe not. I'm just putting it out there for thought.

However, I wish something like that occurred to me when I was 12-14.

I’v e never heard of that being done. And as for someone outside the family to assault you like that is wrong! And your mother permitting/ not stopping it?

Had that ever happened to me, the non family member ; I’d have, once back on my feet decked her!