Our definitions of AB and DL

AB and DL have been defined here and across the internet for years. I'm about 60% AB and 40% DL going by the common definitions. Over the years I have seen many terms used in the community that people used to describe themselves and others. Over the last few months my wife and I, for fun, have tried to put definitions to some of these words. These definitions are simply for us and what we've come up with. Just wondering what other may think of them. So far we've got 2.

1.) Diaper Boy/Girl - Someone who, given total freedom to do so, would choose to wear diapers instead of big boy/girl underwear.

2.) Pottypants - Someone who, if given total freedom to do so, would choose to pee and poop in there pants/diapers rather than use the potty.

Those are the 2 we have so far. What do you think? Please add others if you wish!

Are you saying that you want to know whether there are commonly accepted definitions that already exist? Or are you asking for fun add-ons?

If you want to know whether there are common definitions, there are:

DL (Diaper Lover) refers to someone with diaper fetishism, i.e. a sexual attraction to, or for interactions with/involving, a diaper. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diaper_fetishism. The primary interest is the diapers themselves and acts involving their use. Sometimes it's just an interest, i.e. a general curiosity, or a kink, i.e. sexual satisfaction is heightened when they are involved, and other times it's a true fetish, i.e. where their presence is required to achieve orgasm. There's a real spectrum.

AB (Adult Baby) refers to role players where they like to be regressed to, and act like, someone much younger. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism. Some like to play true babies, i.e. are unable to care for themselves at all, while others enjoy playing older babies, toddlers, or little kids. While diapers or pullups may be involved, the focus is on the head space and acting younger, so age play.

Some argue that ABDL was very carefully chosen so it could be AB, BD, *and* DL. This means that there is *B*ondage and *D*isipline, i.e. BDSM, inherent to the umbrella term. While some DLs who engage in those activities with others do so as complete equals, when more than one person is involved, often times there is some form of power exchange where one has more power than the other, such as acting in a more nurturing role, like a babysitter or parent. Other times the power exchange may involve the diapers just a form of extra bondage (or for practical purposes for lengthy tie ups). They could also incorporated be for the purposes of humiliating or degrading the submissive or slave.

We just did it between ourselves for fun. I was just wondering what others thought of the definitions, and if people had their own definitions for them or other commonly used terms in the community.