How hard did your parents spank compared to other parents?

I've never been spanked by anyone else's parents so I don't have any other point of reference. But I'm gonna guess that the belt spankings me and my two brothers grew up with were harder and more painful in comparison to most kids, especially in the 90's when spanking was declining in popularity. (Although I bet our spankings were still tame compared to the good old fashioned spankings common in the 50's and 60's.)

For those who did get spanked by more people than just your own parents, how did your parents compare? Did you fear your own parents' spankings much more than your friends' parents and would your friends perhaps even agree that your parents give a much harder spanking?

Now, how would I know that? If anybody else's parents had tried to whip me my dad would have been headed to their house with a .45 and a bad attitude.

I only know my friends' spankings from stories.Some of my friends received very brutal beatings. One similar one had wounds on her buttocks. I received painful spankings, but the only marks I had were very red ones. buttocks.

I was spanked twice by another person. One was my aunt, the other a teacher (female). Both spankings were weaker than those from my mother. However, they were more embarrassing for me. They took place without witnesses, but I had to show my bare buttocks.

I didn't know any one else who got spanked, so compared to others, the hardest. I've been spanked since by spankers who were parents and found out that my mum was a pretty sound spanker generally.

So I got spanked by my best friend's dad a couple times. Probably close to a dozen. He did five or six swats that left you bruised, whereas my dad would do 20 and your ass would be red. His was a lot more compact and efficient, whereas my dad I think it was more about being humiliated for a longer time.

I dated my wife in high school and we were both still being spanked. We compared spankings and agreed it was definetly my father.

I would say that my parent's and aunt's spankings were fairly typical for the times, by no means excessive but always thorough, serious and painful! These were spankings that imparted a lesson and left an impression! Some of my friends and acquaintances received more severe discipline; and a few less severe punishments. But overall, I would say, my spankings in intensity and frequency were fairly similar to those given to other kids in '60s and '70s America!

My childhood and early teen spankings from mom and my aunt seem to be comparable to others at the time, mom was an angry spanker, meaning whatever I did to deserve a spanking seemed to make her mad and down came my pants and underwear and the spanking was fast and hard, my aunt was more relaxed and applied with a paddle in a steady pace.

Only exception was one of my friends parents had a razor strap hanging in the hall, him and his brother were strapped often he would have bruises down the backside of his legs.

My own fathers punishments of me were harder than those I got from others, but that most likely was because I was not their own boy? and they would punish harder theirs?

School punishments were I think comparable but cane or slipper rather than belt, and longer

Don't really remember getting spanked by anyone else so can't compare. Mom or Dad was quick enough to get the punishment done that no one else needed to.

Also I learned to not do things that got a spanking punishment. Yelled at - yes.

Misbehaving while at a friends house usually resulted in being sent home. Sometimes my friends' mom would call my mom to tell her why I was sent home. That could result in me being sent to my room, maybe followed by a spanking from mom, or worse waiting for a spanking from dad when he came home.

For sleepovers I might be given the choice of being taken home (to a sure spanking when I arrived) or being allowed to stay but be spanked along with my friend. I always choose the stay and get spanked. Either way I would be spanked, but the shame of being sent home worse. Besides, most kids thought parents spanked their own kids harder than their friends.

I was invited on several weekend trips with a friends' family. Generally my friend and I were on our best behavior but there was one time we got in trouble. Being sent home wasn't an option so I got spanked along with my friend. That time I was probably more to blame and got the worse spanking.

For sleepovers I might be given the choice of being taken home (to a sure spanking when I arrived) or being allowed to stay but be spanked along with my friend. I always choose the stay and get spanked. Either way I would be spanked, but the shame of being sent home worse. Besides, most kids thought parents spanked their own kids harder than their friends.

Well if you're getting a spanking either way you might as well take the less hard spanking from your friend's parents rather than the harder spanking you would have got from your own parents (and harder spanking your friends are getting from their parents).

Did your friend's parents spank your bare bottom? If so was it more embarrassing being bare in front of them compared to your own parents?

Did your friend's parents spank your bare bottom? If so was it more embarrassing being bare in front of them compared to your own parents

I think it was always the same. If my friend was spanked bare, I would be too. Besides, most kids I knew were spanked bare. I don't think I was any more embarrassed at the time (least of my worries). But in the days and weeks after it did feel a little weird that they had seen and spanked my bare butt. It was kind of like that line had been crossed once so it was more likely to happen again. But that deterrent effect is the point of a spanking isn't it?

I only got spanked on two occasions by people other than my parents. The first was because my friend and I decided take seedlings of herbs from the garden and walk door to door selling them without my parents consent. Our attempt at entrepreneurship was unfortunately intercepted by my friends mother who had already got permission to spank. My parents spanked harder so I got off lightly. The other occasion was by an elderly aunt who was babysitting whilst my parents and other relatives were out somewhere. My cousin's and I were mucking about during tea and attempted to start a food fight with some jelly. Our kitchen redecoration service was neither needed or appreciated apparently. She was brutal. I never crossed her again!

I think it was always the same. If my friend was spanked bare, I would be too. Besides, most kids I knew were spanked bare. I don't think I was any more embarrassed at the time (least of my worries). But in the days and weeks after it did feel a little weird that they had seen and spanked my bare butt. It was kind of like that line had been crossed once so it was more likely to happen again. But that deterrent effect is the point of a spanking isn't it?

I guess once the first bare bottom spanking from your friend's parents is out of the way it must get easier and less embarrassing when it happens again.

Was this spanking arrangement mutual? Did your parents also spank the bare bottoms of your friends? And would your friends also prefer getting spanked by someone else's parents rather than their own?

Was this spanking arrangement mutual? Did your parents also spank the bare bottoms of your friends? And would your friends also prefer getting spanked by someone else's parents rather than their own?

I was only allowed to host a few sleepovers and no one got into trouble so it never happened.

I always remembered when I got into trouble as a kid. I would always get a spanking either by bare hand or using a the back of a spatula. Sometimes if it was really bad it would be followed by a diaper punishment as well. Since I cried like a baby during the spanking I would get all my clothes stripped and taken off followed by a diaper change and either put into a Huggies or Pampers diaper and had to be in diapers for however long was deemed necessary. And if I misbehaved again or not using the diaper properly. I’d be laid across the lap or in diaper changing position have my diaper taken off and get full on spanking.

In my childhood I was spanked mostly just from my mom, but sometimes I got it also from my grandparents, a teacher from my school ( over the school uniform pants) and a swimming instructor ( usually over my swimming suit, but also on my bare bottom inside the lockerroom ). My worst spankings was from my mom because my buttoks was pretty red till the next day usually. If she used the switch, some blistered welts still persisted even after 3 days or soo...

But, a few cousins of mine who also got spankings sometimes, used to have much worst spanking marks than me... I remember a few times when we "inspected the damage" each other during some sleepover evenings, that they still had some old switch or cane marks, who was just fresh ones a weekend before, so, I liked to think that my aunts and uncles was worst spankers than my mom...

Given when I grew up, I’d say probably harder. My parents were older, and as a result much more old fashioned when it came to things like this. The belt and the paddle are the two hardest I got regularly, but occasionally I was switched as well.