What do you fantasize about doing but wouldn´t do in real life?

I wonder what you guys would really like to try or what you fantasised about but never did and for what reason.

I´ll go first. I always fantasise about getting my nipples pierced either as part of play or with actual jewellery. BUT I never did it and I probably never will do it because I fear that it may hurt too much or get infected. I would need someone experienced going to a piercer isn´t really doing it for me, because I think it would have to be in a setting where I am aroused a bit at least, to maybe be fun for me. But I believe it will stay a fantasy for ever.

How about you? Whats your biggest fantasy but you are reluctant to make it become reality?

(Sorry if this was already a topic :/...)

One fantasy I have never had the courage to realise is that of switching to the role of patient and putting myself in the hands of a doctor who knows what is good for me. I'd like to be carefully examined and undergo all the necessary therapies. Above all, I would like to experience the sensation of receiving an enema from a girl. I don't know why I haven't done it yet, but probably because of the embarrassment and the fact that you have to find a person you can really trust. Another big fantasy never realized is to prescribe my patient to clean her colon with an oral laxative.

We came close to getting tattoos on our butt cheeks or back of our shoulders back in the 80's - but we chickened out. Not sure it was a fantasy, just something we seriously talked about.

As far as a fantasy - I'd like to spend an afternoon with four or five bi-sexual younger (30-40's) ladies who are into everything and anything. Enemas, strap-ons, spankings, BDSM etc. Lots of expermimentaion. I can fantasize about it - but would never do it. Not sure my wife would go for it or be happy with me if I did it either!! (But I might tell her it is a fantasy)

One thing would be hiring a prostitute. I'd see them on the street and be somewhat intrigued, but fear of disease, or being robbed, or worse, the legal questions and not knowing how to negotiate etc. kept me away. I think the fantasy is different than the reality would be.

I haven’t experienced a threesome since my college days but I would love a threesome with two MILFs or two mature ladies. I want them to be into medical fetishes, enemas and anal sex. It would be great if they were nurses.

Surgery and/or anesthesia. It’s all I fantasize about, but it’s risky. If I could find a real medical provider, I’d be willing to try.

Having a severe disability from birth, I am extremely limited in what I have done. In my case (ymmv), during my mid-teens, I was kissed by a grand total of three girls. All three were quite intense, which was amazing (one left me shaking), but I have never traded tongue, as it were. I'd love to experience a sloppy, suctiony, tongue kiss with a pretty girl (or a few), with her taking charge of it.

My earliest fetish, a medfet, is to see a girl having to wear a mask on her mouth and nose. In 2006, when I was 30, I befriended a 19 year old girl on an art website who was in that situation (cystic fibrosis leading to a transplant). She also modelled, to take care of medical expenses. We eventually got to meet in person at a fundraiser in her hometown. At first she was wearing one of those cloth earloop masks that got to be popular during the pandemic. It was white with a lace pattern. It was such a massive turn-on to see her masked and hear her muffled speech. And by that time, she knew it was a fetish of mine, because I commissioned some modeling art from her.

At some point, she switched out of that mask and started wearing a half mask cartridge respirator, such as you'd use for spray painting. This one was matte black silicone, with one big white circular filter on each side. One wide black "halo strap" on top and a normal strap on the bottom.

So, one fantasy I have about her (or any pretty girl), is to be able to take the big half-mask in my hand and look at the inside of it and feel the edge with my fingers. All the while, she leans over and kisses me with full suction and then full tongue. Lots of her saliva. After maybe a good hour, she stops the kissing and takes my erect penis into her mouth and uses a combination of a tight, wet tongue swirl and just deepthroating. I fantasize about her gagging or worse.

Once all that is done, she gets into her mask (sometimes it's the cloth mask and sometimes the huge respirator) and facesits me through 2 or hree orgasms.

I have a lot of clothing fetishes, so she (or even a group of girls) dress in that kind of fetish attire, including ballet classwear (tights, leo and pink or black slippers [non-pointe or character shoes]; or a footed blanket sleeper, or white soccer socks and black soccer cleats.

In any instance, she would have a very tight stomach. Normally she'd be caucasian (with dirty or platinum blonde hair and well bronzed) but occasionally Asian or Mexican.

My fantasy would be some combination of CNC and free use, where a number of women would each be able to call upon when me whenever they wished and make me do whatever pleased them. It would be unpredictable, short notice, and not always comfortable for me. Submitting to their whim, and being used as their play toy anytime they wanted would be wild. Like whenever the Bat Signal appears in the sky. A text message would arrive, I would have to drop what I’m doing and hurry to their needs. Never knowing when the next request would come, or if requests would arrive back to back and I would arrive exhausted and spent at the second appointment. Punishment would certainly ensue.

It is similar to this story I recently found in the library. Both cruel and hot.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=docs;ox=showpart;idp=10783

Having 2 women get me drunk then tie me up or put me in stirrups and force a punishment enema upon me or what ever they like.

A fantasy of mine is being caned "six of the best" in a realistic headmaster/school girl scene but I find canes really scary irl and we've never gone there. Also a full medical examination in a realistic medical room and shots has never been fully realised.

Six of the best" in a realistic headmaster. You're in the major league there but I like them caning porn.

There was a story on the Speculum website about a spanking bench ( I think that it was called Birthday Spanking) that got me really hot. A husband buys a spanking bench and he brings it out at his wife's birthday. She is stripped and strapped into the bench and all the party guests get to watch her receive an enema and then they spank her. She is very angry after so in revenge she brings it out at her husbands birthday. He is stripped, strapped down given an enema and spanked by everyone but in addition to all that, the wife brings out a large realistic dildo greases it up and fucks him until he cums in front of everyone. We she is done the rest of the guests all take turns fucking him till he cums. If I remember correctly it took a few hours and he got pegged about 20 times! I often fantasize about being in the husbands place!

Some of the things I fantasize about but won’t ever do I’m real life are CNC and medical play with very invasive and risky procedures. I’d love to have my uterus forced open to be examined by a doctor and him to ejaculate directly into my uterus getting me pregnant. But I don’t want kids in real life and there’s no way I’d mess with something that risky. It’s fun to fantasize though!

A fantasy of mine is being caned "six of the best" in a realistic headmaster/school girl scene but I find canes really scary irl and we've never gone there. Also a full medical examination in a realistic medical room and shots has never been fully realised.

Special phantasies are part of our live, for sure !! - but in reality they can be unaccustomed and also very painful - specially using the cane -, so be very careful to make your phantasies come be true !! - and when it should be happen, only with a very " special " and also trustful partner, who is knowing, was he does !! - play safe and enjoy your both satisfaction !!

I have had many 6 of the best when i was at school,the teachers would go out their way to try and make you cry,i never did, but i never found it stimulating either,mind you i was 14-15,and my ass would smart smart for a long time,sitting down afterwards was painful, had my nipples pierced when that was done i got deep throb in my nipples then they got very sensitive,nice feeling though,.

I fantasize about going to a professional dominatrix with an elaborate sex dungeon/exam room. I'm not consumed by leather, restraints, pain or those aspects of fetishism, but I am a bit curious to try it at least once in a controlled environment. I've seen advertisements for people offering these services, usually in large cities that I have no need to travel to. And I'm scared of what they would cost or what might become of my credit card information.

I did reach out to one a few years ago when I had a business trip scheduled to a large Midwestern city and 3-4 nights to myself. Probably a good thing she never answered my email.

@Horace

One thing would be hiring a prostitute. I'd see them on the street and be somewhat intrigued, but fear of disease, or being robbed, or worse, the legal questions and not knowing how to negotiate etc. kept me away. I think the fantasy is different than the reality would be.

Depending on where you live, some work legally behind storefront windows (never on the street as being illegal) with police patrolling nearby. Not to warn off customers, but to protect the girls from drunks, fools or anyone acting the fool or like louts. I once saw a group of 4 or 5 eastern Europeans (truck drivers most likely) acting like idiots and not 5 min later a police van came by and hustled them off faster than the Gestapo would in a war movie.

That's also reality.

Not much for a customer to be afraid of.

So, within MEDFET I wouldn't risk needle and urethral dilation sessions.

There’s quite a few things I fantasize about doing, some of which I’ve done on Zity when role play chatting, which I wouldn’t do irl… at least not yet. I think it’s just a matter of time until the right person or circumstance comes along. Mostly it’s a matter of me feeling confident and also trusting the other person.

I’ve written about my fantasy, but I’ve envisioned a new one that I almost had in college with my two older nurses.

I’d really get a kick out of a free use arrangement with a group of women. They wouldn’t all have to be in the same place but they would all have to be available at my bidding.

I imagine they would all be friends and have had agreed to this arrangement.

So maybe they are having a girls party night and I show up and enjoy sex with several of them in the midst of the group while they continue the festivities.

Maybe I undress them one by one as I move around the group. I feel and grope each one as they openly respond to my attention.

Soon all of them are naked and I decide which one I want to take first. The party continues as before I was there but now they are all nude and probably wondering which of them will be next.

Having a "Comming out Birthday Party" attended by all my wifes' women friends as well as all our women relatives.

It would be to show all of them, unbeknownst to me, that i need and want to be spanked by every one of them being FIRMLY held in place!!

Then to help me stop my sobbing they would hold me to their breasts to suckle.

When I finally stopped sobbing, i would be diapered, with my baba & Binkie and put in my crib!!!

Or to have my wife, again unbeknowst to me, have a man who she has been with, make me his bitch by spanking me to TOTAL submission, till i am begging for him to take me. And of coures cleaning out he cum from her cunt!!

I wonder what you guys would really like to try or what you fantasised about but never did and for what reason?

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A male being held firmly in place by one woman helping the other woman spanking him.

He is OTK, leg locked, by the spanker, her left arm holding him down on his back, swinging a paddle with holes. The woman helping is holding his head in her lap, while she has a frim grip on his left arm under his chest and his right arm flailling helplessly! All he can do is wiggle and raise his bottom, like he is asking for more....

IF my wife would agree to this, in front of her, I would really do it in real life! Especially if my wife were cheering them on to spank me harder and longer!

About once a month would be enough, to keep me from talking back and not obeying, my SWEETIE!

There’s quite a few things I fantasize about doing, some of which I’ve done on Zity when role play chatting, which I wouldn’t do irl…

Yes, Grace, but what are they?

Hmmmm one of many fantasies for me would to have a slim petite lady allow me to give her enemas until clear. Then the last enema large enough in volume to swell her belly so she looks to be in early pregnancy. Then lubricate her anus and insert a finger into her, the 2 and as she relaxes 3, 4, 5 and then my fist. I would feel how the water has expanded her insides. I would swish the water around inside her. Feel the walls smoothed by the expansion. Then slowly follow her expanded colon as far as I can.

If she now forced the water out her colon and rectum would collapse around my hand and arm.

It’s a fantasy. Intimate.

Literally everything I have posted here on Zity! lol. I would never want to actually put anyone in danger/harm and since I am not trained and do not have a trained medical team most of my fantasies and just that, fantastical and well beyond the bounds of actual play. Sure certain things could be "faked" but it wold still involve a heavy dose of imagination from all parties.

My fantasy would be to go back to Amsterdam and take active part in something I only watched when I was there. I was in town for a conference, and one free evening just had to go to De Walletjes and see one of the live sex shows. I had heard about some feature of the shows called "the Banana," but could only guess what that meant.

I found out. At one point in the show, a beautiful woman yelling "Banana!" and wearing only pasties and bikini bottoms pulled men out of the audience and onto the stage. She tried to pull me out of my seat, but I stayed where I was...a premonition of something I wasn't ready for?

Once she had seven guys from the audience onstage with their backs to the rest of us, she ushered a mostly (but provocatively) dressed second woman, in black, onto the stage. Lady # 2 started walking back and forth, teasing the guys and lightly stroking their shoulders and butts, then started on Guy #1, reaching around and unbuckling his belt.

She did the same to the others, then returned to the first guy and pulled his belt off, tossing it to the side of the stage. Same thing, five more guys (one of them didn't have a belt.)

You could tell by the double-takes and nervous laughs from some of the others that they were wondering what they'd gotten themselves into, and just how far this would go.

Pretty far, as it turned out.

The Lady in Black continued by unzipping each guy in turn.

And on her final pass, she pulled down each guy's pants, underwear and all. Loud cheers from the audience.

Most of the guys got a stroke or two, a pinch, or a smack, or some combination of these, on their bare cheeks.

Then she and the other lady turned them all around with their pants at their ankles, to display them for the rest of the audience. A lot of their friends of both sexes howled and whistled. Lady #1 unbuttoned and opened shirts on three of the men so their penises were fully exposed. Some of the guys were actually blushing.

Not one of them was hard, though, so the two women went up and down the line flipping and teasing their cocks.

Finally, Lady #1 whipped out a banana, got down on the stage face up, then pulled her own pants down and off, and inserted the banana in her pussy. Each guy in turn, with his pants still around his ankles and the obscuring shirts stripped off the three guys who had them (so these three were basically entirely naked), had to get down on all fours and eat a banana from its tip all the way down to her pussy lips...with the audience clapping insanely and a guy in a cheap gorilla costume pretending to plunder each prone guy's ass with a huge, hand-held plastic cock.

Now why did I hesitate when she tried to make me one of those seven guys?

It still turns me on, thinking about having my own pants pulled down on stage, then being turned around for all to see...and yes, I had a long shirt on, too, so I would have ended up stripped entirely bare in front of everyone. Given the embarrassment, I probably wouldn't have been completely hard, either...so I would have to stand there while the two ladies helped my cock along, and my friends from the conference (some of them female) still in the audience would be watching the whole thing, laughing and squealing as hard as anyone.

When I jack off to this fantasy, the onstage ladies holding me take turns squirting lube on their hands, then stroke and pump me in front of everyone, until I cum and spray the stage in front of everyone, with my jism stopping just short of my friends in the front row.

Receiving anal from another guy with a reallllyyy large penis. I’ve played around with some larger toys, and with the amount of prep involved, it would require a lot of trust on my end.

A lot of fantasies, but some are illegal lol!

@Whisperess I have that fantasy, too. Of going to the piercing studio and getting my nipples pierced. Making the appointment, asking questions, going in the back room and taking my shirt off for a stranger to evaluate my nipples. Going thru the process and feeling the big needle go thru that skin at the end of my breast while a couple people watched me try not to react. Then having to do it again with my other nipple.

I don’t have the guts to go thru with it, but thinking about it turns me on.

I can’t even think about getting my clitoris pierced, that’s even a crazier idea/turn on for me.

OK, so this is PURE FANTASY. Yes I think about this, but I will NEVER do it (so please don’t DM me with offers)

I fantasize about doing a MedFet exam with a total stranger. Someone I’ve never met before, don’t know etc. I know what the agreed upon scenario is – ie what’s my part – and that’s it. Maybe I am going because I need a pre-employment physical exam. This person has a well-appointed dedicated space set up as an exam room and I’m to do whatever I’m told for the duration.

I have no idea what’s coming and I can’t refuse anything. Zero control.