Gay cis men and gay Transmen (FTM) - What are your preferences?

A question to the gay cis men: What are your preferences? Are you only interested in cis men? Or also trans men (FTM)? And if so, are you only attracted to FTM who have male genitalia or also to FTM who have had partial or no surgery?

Had to google it - cis: a person whose gender identity corresponds to their sex assigned at birth.

@enough

In a minefield, it's difficult to find wording that doesn't offend anyone. The distinction between cis and trans is not important to me in everyday life, because for me everyone who is male in appearance and behavior is a man. I don't know which genitals are present or absent and it's none of my business. To make my question as precise as possible, I have used the additions "cis" and "trans".

I am bisexual, however for me in case of male partner genitals are very important, because I am bottom. I guess for gay bottoms it would be same.

@gauguin

I had the same thought. I suspect that gay men who take the active role in sex, i.e. who are the ones who penetrate, would also be more likely to choose partners whose genitals are not perfectly male.

This topic as it is written is already taking the safety off.

Someone is going to be hurt.

Anyone that answers this is just looking for a click, chung from the label maker. I have been marked with it already.

Just keep your thoughts to yourself on this no matter how innocent or right they feel to you.

In fact, I asked the question out of interest and not out of sensationalism. It is not my intention to discriminate or hurt anyone. As I am a trans man and gay myself, I am interested in the answers to the question. I am unbiased and honestly interested in the answers.

I am unbiased and honestly interested in the answers.

Not everyone here is unbiased @passiverPatient .

just recently a topic on tags for non-binary characters in stories had to be calmed down. It had quickly escalated into name-calling.

I would not like to see this happen here. Moderators may also find themselves receiving reports from less open-minded people reporting those who respond as being biased or just plain haters forcing them to act.

Big hug from me. You're great.