Colon Hydrotherapist: Vibrating Nozzle = Price Increase

Disclaimer: I'm posting this because I think there will be an interesting discussion. I know I do not contribute that much to the forum, so this is my contribution. I am NOT upset by what happened. A bit surprised but not upset.

In previous posts, I have written about my Hydrotherapist, her willingness to do multiple enemas (after a few years) along with the colonic. Even allowing me to skip the colonic and having JUST an enema session of 5 enemas, and different nozzles. She knows about my home activities and I've told her about this forum. We have great discussions. She even has been encouraging me to go to Efest. NOTHING sexual happens. I've always been very careful and respectful, telling her to let me know if something bothers her.

During my Colonic and Enemas appointment today, my Hydrotherapist took a serious tone and told me she felt the vibrating nozzle (introduced a couple of sessions ago) and speculum enhancer (recently purchased from silicone nozzles) took us past the "health" category. She could not longer turn a blind eye to the sexual tones to the enemas. She explained that she had been thinking about it for awhile and she felt she needed to increase her fee.

Again, nothing PHYSICAL ever happened, and she knew a few years ago that it was a kink for me.

I respectfully expressed my surprise at this sudden change. Offered to back off the fancier nozzles, but she said that was not needed. We had a honest and VERY frank discussion, and I told her I would respected her request.

There will still be nothing sexual going forward, in case you are wondering.

Money grab? She's always booked, so she doesn't need me or my cash.

I'd be interested in your thoughts. I like her alot so please keep that in mind before you post.

Thanks! eneman10

Perhaps a money grab on her part, but now the question becomes whether you are willing to pay more for the enjoyment you get from her.

Perhaps she is trying to recoup the cost of the new equipment.

Seems to me, she is asking to be paid for performing sexual activity which is illegal.

What two grown up people do with each other in consent, should be no one elses business!

A little more fun is a lttle more expensive, where is the problem?

Thank you all for your comments.

I found it interesting that she felt a line was crossed. (Again NOTHING sexual happened, ever. "He" doesn't even standup to ask attention. Out of respect, not age, lol!) I'm truly more surprised than anything. (still processing) It's been over a year since I introduced the vibrating nozzle. I ALWAY ask if something is too far, and let her make her own choice. She knew I'd be happy with just the standard colonic and coffee enema. It's not like those services are available everywhere. She has been encouraging me to attend Efest for a few years now, so she knew it was a kink. I think she may actually have been uncomfortable, but buried it? Something financial going on in her life?

I had been thinking about backing off the wilder nozzles, as they weren't really doing anything for me when I was with her. (Better with self simulation.) I really just love having someone else give me enemas. It will be a few months before my next appointment, so I have time to get my head around it.

Is this the first time rates have been raised, you stated you’ve been going to her for years, maybe she just feels she hasn’t been charging enough and while awkward how it was brought up maybe she felt the extra enema services were justified for a higher rate. Also have you tipped in the past or just paid the standard fee?

Great questions RTguy77

- She raised her rates for everyone two years ago, after MANY years at the same rate.

- I agree, it's possible that she felt/feels the enemas for enjoyment vs health needed more $$$, but could not bring herself to say anything until now.

- I always tipped VERY VERY generously. She always said she was very happy with my "generous compensation" within her response to my post appointment "Thank you" messaging. (Which happened after each appointment.)

This was very new to me. She seemed so comfortable with everything: encouraging discussions, efest, new toys, etc. That request was very awkward on her part. We were partway through the appointment when she brought it up. She's always been very fair and seemed very honest to me. So unlike her. It could be a financial need.

We are not "friends", although we do communicate between appointments: holidays, covid, etc.

I hope everything is ok.

Maybe she wants to cross that line and is afraid it would cause problems between you if she overtly acted on her feelings.

If only, Temptaker4u, if only, LOL!

If only, Temptaker4u, if only, LOL!

I am exactly on that way at the moment and it's very complicated.

Age gap, children etc.

- I always tipped VERY VERY generously. She always said she was very happy with my "generous compensation" within her response to my post appointment "Thank you" messaging. (Which happened after each appointment.)

I would consider lowering the gratuity (or eliminating it entirely) relative to the 'rate increase.' Agree with "times are tough" statements, say likewise for yourself. I find it odd tipping business owners anyway, it's basically like paying them beyond what they themselves feel is fair compensation.

While both my former colon therapists welcomed including enemas as part or instead of colon irrigation, neither ventured beyond treating their work as anything more than an alternate health practice. Had I the pleasure of knowing your therapist, I gladly would have paid a premium for supporting your fetish needs.

I don't know anything about you and your therapist. but my reaction is that this is absolutely exploitative and outrageous. I think it turns her into sort of a sex worker if she sees it like this and thinks that she can increase the price because of it. I am happy to have a partner who will give me both erotic and medical enemas. I have a Doctor Who wants me taking coffee enemas. so I don't know how I would feel about this if I didn't have another partner. But it seems really outrageous to me.

John

I don’t see a problem. Colon therapists can give enemas and colonics - it’s legal. From what I’ve seen, for enemas they ask you provide your own equipment. OptimaL Health offers them. If the nozzle type is an issue, pay her the extra fee if you want her to use it. Maybe she’s spending more time, more clean up or something. Tipping is up to you.

Ask her to take your rectal temperature 😉