I read an article on my news feed today, describing the frenulum as the male clitoris and I have to say, I completely agree. Without a doubt it leads to the most intense and whole-bodied orgasms I have ever experienced, which, in my narcissistic fantasy, I believe to be as analogous to a female orgasm as a penis-haver can get. So this got me to thinking, how many of you have experienced a frenulum orgasm? Of course, the nerves of the frenulum are stimulated by virtually every form of penile stimulation. But have you experimented with isolating this sensation by stimulating just the frenulum? Let me describe how this works for me.
Lying on my back with an erection, I place the pad of the middle finger of my right hand on the frenulum with a light touch. By light touch, I mean I make solid contact with the frenulum, so that when I move my hand I can jiggle it a little, but my finger maintains solid contact with the skin but not sliding over the skin. Think of it like creating vibrato on a guitar string. Keep it light. Every penis is different, and for me, I am not pressing down so hard that the back of my penis is resting on my belly - it is hovering above it. It's a fairly subtle feeling at first that gradually becomes really intense. As the feeling grows, I slow my breathing and relax my whole body. It may seem counter-intuitive, but the more I relax, the more the intensity grows. Eventually I begin to experience a swelling or fullness (difficult to describe) that begins in the greater genital area and radiates throughout my body. It is sometimes described as the beginning of orgasmic inevitability. Once this feeling starts I breathe deeply and concentrate on relaxing my whole body. I suppose this is a form of edging, and it really works. The intensity of feeling is in no way reduced, but for a moment the orgasmic inevitibility subsides. This happens several times, and always the intensity increases until finally the orgasm cycle begins and will not be denied. At this point I relax my breathing and body as best I can and let the orgasm take over. These are always the most wonderful and intense orgasms I have ever experienced and may produce up to twenty really strong contractions.
The last thing I'll share is how I discovered this (for me, not for all mankind) and share a little insight into myself and my sexuality. At one point on my road to sexual self-discovery, I became fascinated with and curious about the female orgasm, mainly because I wanted to become really good at pleasing my partners. Being a huge reader of erotica all my life, coupled with my own real-life experience, I read and observed how intense and whole-bodied female orgasms are, and began to seek answers to questions: What does this feel like for a woman? How can I become really good at producing fabulous orgasms in my sexual partners? Can I produce something akin to this experience in myself? Naturally, I can't actually know what anyone else feels, but I can and often did ask for feedback, and of course there is a massive amount of literature out there describing these sensations in detail (the Hite Report to name just one). And so I began to experiment on my own and eventually landed upon the technique described above, often fantasizing that I was a female, with my finger resting on or beside my clit in exactly the manner I detail. Impossible to say, of course, whether this technique actually produces an orgasm similar to the vaunted female orgasm, but who is to say it does not? After all, we are far more alike in our nether regions than we are different. Try it - you'll like it!