@Redbag77,
I think you make some very valid points in your initial post. I, too, usually feel much more relaxed and stress free(r) after a good, effective enema series and, depending on the reason or reasons why I had my enemas in the first place, I am in a better, more productive and focused mood. That’s especially true if I had them to have a much needed cleanout or a BM after being backed up for a few days (I try not to let it happen but my schedule is such that it’s not always possible to have both the time and the privacy to give myself at least one enema and a rinse whenever I don’t go to the loo for longer than a day or two). When I am bloated and my bowels are not in the mood to cooperate I’m generally quite uncomfortable and more cranky and sluggish and have less energy and get to a point where I really crave an enema (and sometimes am even angry at whatever dynamic prevents me from having one). Those enemas, when they finally happen, leave me with a glow and I feel like I can almost breathe again and they are rough and very crampy but just so rewarding. While I try to avoid going for too many days without having a BM, when it does happen, the hot, soapy and minty enemas (especially the first) are quasi orgasmic, too.
When it comes to the aftermath of an enema, quite a bit depends on whether it’s a solo activity or whether it’s my partner who gives it (or them) to me. In the case of the latter set of circumstances, whatever the reason for the enema(s) (usually a combination of pleasure, discipline, and health), the effects seem to be enhanced by his coaching me to hold it longer, to really get lost in the many sensations that it has on my body and mind and this all leads to a more arousing experience -a few orders of magnitude more intense than when I am solo- throughout. The expulsions are more rewarding, if more crampy, and the sense of catharsis in its aftermath is pure bliss. Another component of this is that with every enema that he gives me, at the end of it, when he massages my back or my tummy or encourages me to let everything out and watches me as I do so, we get a little bit closer and more comfortable with each other. It will sound cheesy but it’s as if every enema and what happens afterwards allows us to express ourselves and be more in sync with each other and more “naked”, more open and more aware of the things that we are lucky enough to want and share and of the fact that we have found someone who gets us for who we really are and embraces us.
It’s a powerful feeling and a very interesting question, the one you asked. I am sure that I will think of more after enema effects, but for now this is what comes to mind.
Play safe,
B x