Oh yeah... but prolly different than most who want the contrast of eventual orgasm.
For me (gay total bottom here) i love a dynamic with a Total Top Who has control of my orgasm. In a sense, sort of possesses it, a part of me. my ideal is us sharing one orgasm between us: His. For me, it's most intense and effective if it's subtle, not done with a mean or forced attitude, but is more matter of fact, as if "of course that's just normal" approach. Lotta psychological mind fuck in the dynamic.
The idea is conditioning, maintaining, the one orgasm shared bond. He does touch my penis or has me do so, always with the intent to stimulate, make and keep me horny, but the reasoning known well between us, is it's to make and keep me horny for Him and His orgasm. The Climax is when He penetrates me and releases His orgasm inside of me... and i LOVE when He affirms after He plants His orgasm inside of me that i have now had an orgasm.
i have a FWB who has been breeding me on a regular basis for almost four years now, at least once a week, often several times a week. He has never once made me orgasm from touching my penis, but i am always inseminated by Him, and have received His orgasm before He leaves. Our sex is always incredible for both of us, and i am amazed at how fresh it stays.