Meeting Someone that would not care about my emema use

I am a Retired Widower. I use enemas on occasion for medical benefits. The Beta Blocker cardiac medication most of us old guys are taking makes taking than for recreational benefit not practical. I have dated lots of ladies since my wife past way. They act shocked when I eventually disclose my enema use. I would very much like to meet a lady that does not feel that way. I understand that meeting someone to share my activities would be difficult. I just wonder if meeting the a lady or friend that is not adversely impacted my my use is possible.

Ideally in a perfect world that’s what I would like. In all honesty I will not be in a vanilla relationship again kink will have to be a part. If not then there’s the door don’t let it hit you on the way out!

@chelle300 good to hear. Many of us wasted time in a Vanilla relationship that didn't work out, before we realized that. Hope you can find what you're looking for

I am fortunate to have met my SO through both this site and FetLife. Knowing about each other's fetishes really helped establish a comfortable friendship that has led to a much deeper relationship, as we are free to play with no aspersions cast about expressing our desires, enema play being at the top of the list.

I use enemas on occasion for medical benefits.

Mentioning I used for medical reasons was never a problem... it was when trying to take things to the next level by saying I like actually liked enemas and that I found my open-top red davol bag sexy - then things got dicey...

That's a hard one. I have no idea why some women have a hang up about getting an enema or meeting someone that does them for medical or for pleasure. my second wife has no problem with it where the first one wasn't crazy about it......... mmmmmm makes you wonder....